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A place for me to vent about my health stuff. Be prepared for TMI and heavy medical talk. Will use CW's.
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Today has been a terrible day, pain wise.
November 30, 2025 at 2:41 AM
Today has been a terrible day, pain wise.
New icon for winter/holidays :)
November 29, 2025 at 9:08 PM
New icon for winter/holidays :)
I'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo wiped out. I wish I could sleep for like 3 days straight.
November 29, 2025 at 4:09 AM
I'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo wiped out. I wish I could sleep for like 3 days straight.
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We are really struggling to make ends meet right now so I'm going to open some "YCH (your character here)" style comms.
Which style(s) would you be interested in if I offered them? I'm thinking of asking $10-$25 depending on the complexity.
Thx for the help.
Which style(s) would you be interested in if I offered them? I'm thinking of asking $10-$25 depending on the complexity.
Thx for the help.
November 28, 2025 at 9:41 PM
We are really struggling to make ends meet right now so I'm going to open some "YCH (your character here)" style comms.
Which style(s) would you be interested in if I offered them? I'm thinking of asking $10-$25 depending on the complexity.
Thx for the help.
Which style(s) would you be interested in if I offered them? I'm thinking of asking $10-$25 depending on the complexity.
Thx for the help.
What do you do to feel better when it feels like your life is spiralling out of control?
November 28, 2025 at 3:10 AM
What do you do to feel better when it feels like your life is spiralling out of control?
Freakin heck man I am so sick today. My insides want to be outsides.
November 27, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Freakin heck man I am so sick today. My insides want to be outsides.
I'm so frustrated with life right now. Everything is so difficult. I feel like I'm failing at being human.
November 27, 2025 at 6:21 PM
I'm so frustrated with life right now. Everything is so difficult. I feel like I'm failing at being human.
Just had to cancel a grocery order because we can't afford it and man does that feel bad. We will be fine, it was more wants than needs anyways. I just hate feeling like this.
November 27, 2025 at 7:09 AM
Just had to cancel a grocery order because we can't afford it and man does that feel bad. We will be fine, it was more wants than needs anyways. I just hate feeling like this.
Guess who has labyrinthitis again? :( Got a prescription for the vertigo, and lots of ginger ale.
November 26, 2025 at 11:11 PM
Guess who has labyrinthitis again? :( Got a prescription for the vertigo, and lots of ginger ale.
Oh god I have vertigo. Please god do not be another labyrinthitis episode.
November 26, 2025 at 7:18 PM
Oh god I have vertigo. Please god do not be another labyrinthitis episode.
Do you ever feel like you're doing life wrong? I think that's just the voice of your trauma being loud.
November 26, 2025 at 6:45 PM
Do you ever feel like you're doing life wrong? I think that's just the voice of your trauma being loud.
In good news, my dermatologist called and said my hormones are impeccable. I never have impeccable anything, so this was a relief.
November 26, 2025 at 1:15 AM
In good news, my dermatologist called and said my hormones are impeccable. I never have impeccable anything, so this was a relief.
Social media is engineered to make you angry.
November 26, 2025 at 1:13 AM
Social media is engineered to make you angry.
It's like today is trying to find out every single way to piss me off and I'm so over it.
November 26, 2025 at 1:12 AM
It's like today is trying to find out every single way to piss me off and I'm so over it.
Poor Mike woke up in severe pain (he slept funny) and needed me to help. So now we are both running on 5 hours of sleep. I hope we can nap later because zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
November 24, 2025 at 5:59 PM
Poor Mike woke up in severe pain (he slept funny) and needed me to help. So now we are both running on 5 hours of sleep. I hope we can nap later because zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
cw; tmi, hormones
My hormone labs are all good, which is great to hear. I was worried that something would be weird because I don't get a period at all anymore because of medication I'm on for endometriosis. Phew!
My hormone labs are all good, which is great to hear. I was worried that something would be weird because I don't get a period at all anymore because of medication I'm on for endometriosis. Phew!
November 24, 2025 at 1:28 AM
cw; tmi, hormones
My hormone labs are all good, which is great to hear. I was worried that something would be weird because I don't get a period at all anymore because of medication I'm on for endometriosis. Phew!
My hormone labs are all good, which is great to hear. I was worried that something would be weird because I don't get a period at all anymore because of medication I'm on for endometriosis. Phew!
Blood work came back all fucky, but at least we have a good theory on what's going on now! Time to wait until the 28th for the hematologist.
November 22, 2025 at 7:20 AM
Blood work came back all fucky, but at least we have a good theory on what's going on now! Time to wait until the 28th for the hematologist.
GUESS WHO HAS VERY VERY HIGH CO2 LEVELS IN HER BEDROOM?????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May have had a medical breakthrough. TLDR we might have high levels of carbon dioxide in our suite, and that can cause a lot of problems that I am having right now. Ordered a CO2 detector to see. I'll be very happy if it's just a CO2 problem and not cancer.
November 22, 2025 at 3:14 AM
GUESS WHO HAS VERY VERY HIGH CO2 LEVELS IN HER BEDROOM?????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
cw; drugs mention (legal for me, may not be for you)
I am so comfortable with pot now that taking bong hits are no problem, and it helps my pain and inflammation SO much. Like within minutes of smoking/vaping it feels like my soul comes back to my body when I'm in severe pain.
I am so comfortable with pot now that taking bong hits are no problem, and it helps my pain and inflammation SO much. Like within minutes of smoking/vaping it feels like my soul comes back to my body when I'm in severe pain.
November 22, 2025 at 1:53 AM
cw; drugs mention (legal for me, may not be for you)
I am so comfortable with pot now that taking bong hits are no problem, and it helps my pain and inflammation SO much. Like within minutes of smoking/vaping it feels like my soul comes back to my body when I'm in severe pain.
I am so comfortable with pot now that taking bong hits are no problem, and it helps my pain and inflammation SO much. Like within minutes of smoking/vaping it feels like my soul comes back to my body when I'm in severe pain.
Blood work today, wish me luck. Idk what I'm rooting for, but I just hope it's easy to treat.
November 21, 2025 at 8:43 PM
Blood work today, wish me luck. Idk what I'm rooting for, but I just hope it's easy to treat.
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Please remember that it's okay to have a day where you do nothing but rest 🫶
November 20, 2025 at 6:38 PM
Please remember that it's okay to have a day where you do nothing but rest 🫶
I think I'm actually sick instead of ME/CFS sick. My nose is running like mad and I feel like garbage.
November 20, 2025 at 8:10 PM
I think I'm actually sick instead of ME/CFS sick. My nose is running like mad and I feel like garbage.
I cannot wait for this chapter of my life to be closed. I grew up with parents that were terrible at money management, and this is so triggering.
November 20, 2025 at 5:42 AM
I cannot wait for this chapter of my life to be closed. I grew up with parents that were terrible at money management, and this is so triggering.
May have had a medical breakthrough. TLDR we might have high levels of carbon dioxide in our suite, and that can cause a lot of problems that I am having right now. Ordered a CO2 detector to see. I'll be very happy if it's just a CO2 problem and not cancer.
November 19, 2025 at 9:05 PM
May have had a medical breakthrough. TLDR we might have high levels of carbon dioxide in our suite, and that can cause a lot of problems that I am having right now. Ordered a CO2 detector to see. I'll be very happy if it's just a CO2 problem and not cancer.
My mom is holding off on the divorce because Mike and I are in such a bad situation. The amount of guilt I feel has me distraught.
November 19, 2025 at 8:20 PM
My mom is holding off on the divorce because Mike and I are in such a bad situation. The amount of guilt I feel has me distraught.