Calidus Uxor Consor (CUC)
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Husband, best friend, and cuck to Kat @calidusuxoriter the most amazing poly, hot wife, cuckoldress, powerful woman! it’s all a spectrum friends! Be curious not judgmental!
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Sexual compatibility isn't found. It's created. Research shows that couples who hold sexual growth beliefs (meaning they believe that sex can improve through effort, intention, and communication) report higher levels of sexual satisfaction. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/ever...
What It Really Means to Be Sexually Compatible
Your belief that sexual compatibility can't be fostered is what's hurting your sex life. Here's how to build it one step at a time.
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November 19, 2025 at 2:54 PM
Sexual compatibility isn't found. It's created. Research shows that couples who hold sexual growth beliefs (meaning they believe that sex can improve through effort, intention, and communication) report higher levels of sexual satisfaction. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/ever...
Talk about the sweet smell of success!
People who are more sensitive to smells tend to report more pleasure from sex and (at least among women) more frequent orgasms. https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2019/5/17/smell-is-our-least-appreciated-sense/
Smell Is Our Least Appreciated Sense: How Smell Affects Our Sex Lives and Health - Sex and Psychology
You just might be taking your sense of smell for granted, argues Dr. Rachel Herz in the TEDx video below. In this talk, Herz describes how little appreciation we have for our sense of smell, while also describing the myriad powerful ways that smell affects our quality of life.
www.sexandpsychology.com
November 16, 2025 at 3:28 AM
Talk about the sweet smell of success!
Love doing this for my beautiful Kat @calidusuxoriter.bsky.social
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November 10, 2025 at 7:18 PM
Love doing this for my beautiful Kat @calidusuxoriter.bsky.social
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November 7, 2025 at 5:20 AM
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November 4, 2025 at 8:26 PM
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Research finds that the more time couples spend spooning or otherwise being intimate after sex, the happier they tend to be. https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2019/4/3/why-spooning-after-sex-might-be-good-for-your-love-life/
Why Spooning After Sex Might Be Good For Your Love Life - Sex and Psychology
What do you do after sex? Some people like to spoon or cuddle, others go to sleep, and yet others get up to grab something to eat or drink. But does what you do matter? For people in relationships, it certainly seems to, according to research. In fact, the more that couples spoon or otherwise express affection or intimacy after sex, the happier they tend to be.
www.sexandpsychology.com
November 3, 2025 at 3:00 AM
Research finds that the more time couples spend spooning or otherwise being intimate after sex, the happier they tend to be. https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2019/4/3/why-spooning-after-sex-might-be-good-for-your-love-life/
@calidusuxoriter.bsky.social I love that you speak your truth and ask for what you want without apology.
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November 2, 2025 at 1:26 AM
@calidusuxoriter.bsky.social I love that you speak your truth and ask for what you want without apology.
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Happy Halloween + Day 31 🐍👻🔐
Got a great costume? Let's see it with that final Locktober cage check 😛
Got a great costume? Let's see it with that final Locktober cage check 😛
October 31, 2025 at 6:17 AM
Happy Halloween + Day 31 🐍👻🔐
Got a great costume? Let's see it with that final Locktober cage check 😛
Got a great costume? Let's see it with that final Locktober cage check 😛
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Apparently I like triolism 🤷♂️
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October 29, 2025 at 1:58 PM
Apparently I like triolism 🤷♂️
Sharing life, both vanilla and cuckold, with @calidusuxoriter.bsky.social makes me feel rich in a way that money can not buy!
October 28, 2025 at 11:41 PM
Sharing life, both vanilla and cuckold, with @calidusuxoriter.bsky.social makes me feel rich in a way that money can not buy!
@calidusuxoriter.bsky.social I’m so glad we have been able to make MUCH longer lasting sex happen for you! Turns out you just needed a lover who goes like the energizer bunny!
On average, both men and women say that they'd like sex to last about 50% longer than it typically does. https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2019/1/28/how-long-people-want-sex-to-last-versus-how-long-sex-actually-lasts/
How Long People Want Sex To Last Versus How Long Sex Actually Lasts - Sex and Psychology
How long do you want to spend on sex? And how long do you actually spend on sex when you have it? Research suggests that there’s often a discrepancy in how people respond to these questions.
www.sexandpsychology.com
October 25, 2025 at 2:17 PM
@calidusuxoriter.bsky.social I’m so glad we have been able to make MUCH longer lasting sex happen for you! Turns out you just needed a lover who goes like the energizer bunny!
@calidusuxoriter.bsky.social a good read for any powerful sexual woman like you 😍
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October 22, 2025 at 2:33 AM
@calidusuxoriter.bsky.social a good read for any powerful sexual woman like you 😍
I’m only a yes on 49 out of 50. Oh no! I might not actually be her cuck! 😂
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October 20, 2025 at 1:34 AM
I’m only a yes on 49 out of 50. Oh no! I might not actually be her cuck! 😂
Interesting study. I wonder if in the cuckold dynamic a woman’s inclinations toward sex might have differing emotional roots with a lover versus her cuck?
Men are more likely to use sex as a coping tool when they struggle with emotional awareness, while women do so more when they have trouble accepting their emotions or controlling impulses. https://www.psypost.org/what-your-reasons-for-having-sex-might-say-about-your-emotional-life/
What your reasons for having sex might say about your emotional life
Why do people have sex? Beyond attraction or love, the reasons can be surprisingly complex. A new study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy explores how emotional patterns and relationship dynamics relate to sexual motivation in adults.
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October 15, 2025 at 12:21 PM
Interesting study. I wonder if in the cuckold dynamic a woman’s inclinations toward sex might have differing emotional roots with a lover versus her cuck?
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Cuckolding can be a journey of mutual empowerment: her freedom, his surrender, their connection.
October 14, 2025 at 9:36 AM
Cuckolding can be a journey of mutual empowerment: her freedom, his surrender, their connection.
Interesting stuff.
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October 13, 2025 at 8:33 PM
Interesting stuff.
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October 11, 2025 at 5:08 PM
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I guess we have never really counted but I’m pretty sure mine USE to outnumber my partners 😂
Research consistently finds that men report having had more sexual partners than women. However, the difference between men's and women's parter count has shrunk in recent years. https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2024/12/4/how-many-sexual-partners-have-most-people-had/
How Many Sexual Partners Have Most People Had? - Sex and Psychology
Men's "body count" is going down, while women's is going up. Here's a look at how sexual partner counts have changed in recent years.
www.sexandpsychology.com
October 11, 2025 at 4:19 PM
I guess we have never really counted but I’m pretty sure mine USE to outnumber my partners 😂
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Empowered wives, secure husbands—that’s what healthy cuckolding looks like.
October 11, 2025 at 11:28 AM
Empowered wives, secure husbands—that’s what healthy cuckolding looks like.
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Research finds a link between a sense of shared power in a marriage and better sexual outcomes for both men and women. Those who report more shared power report more sexual passion, and shared power predicts increases in passion over time. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/02654075251350075
Power and passion: An exploration of the relationship between marital power processes and sexual passion styles - Ashley Forbush, Dean Busby, Jeremy Yorgason, Erin Holmes, 2025
Limited research has explored the connections between relational power and sexual motivations in couple relationships. Self-determination theory provides a fram...
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October 10, 2025 at 8:30 PM
Research finds a link between a sense of shared power in a marriage and better sexual outcomes for both men and women. Those who report more shared power report more sexual passion, and shared power predicts increases in passion over time. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/02654075251350075
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October 10, 2025 at 5:08 PM
Agreed, my amazing partner’s empowerment and freedom is something I love being a part of. To think it is something that I am the victim of, is to make her sexuality about me. Defeats the entire purpose of this lifestyle.
A cuckold isn’t a victim—he’s a participant in something emotionally rich and sexually profound.
October 10, 2025 at 12:42 PM
Agreed, my amazing partner’s empowerment and freedom is something I love being a part of. To think it is something that I am the victim of, is to make her sexuality about me. Defeats the entire purpose of this lifestyle.
It’s a wonderful thing when we get past weird shame stuff.
Study: women who had more positive attitudes toward porn reported greater sexual satisfaction and higher comfort with their sexuality. These women also described more frequent and open sexual communication with partners. #abstract#abstract" class="hover:underline text-blue-600 dark:text-sky-400 no-card-link" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-link="bsky">https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0092623X.2025.2559005#abstract
October 9, 2025 at 10:47 PM
It’s a wonderful thing when we get past weird shame stuff.