bobby of chili’s
@bobbyjmain.bsky.social
🏳️🌈
🏠 providence, RI
💼 boston, MA
+sometimes LI, NY
widowed architect with ENTJ tendencies rediscovering life.
interests include nintendo, design, outdoorsy, DIY stuff and the assorted emojis listed below.
🍔🌱🌯🍹⚽️🥓🚴🏻👾🎢⛓📺🍁
🏠 providence, RI
💼 boston, MA
+sometimes LI, NY
widowed architect with ENTJ tendencies rediscovering life.
interests include nintendo, design, outdoorsy, DIY stuff and the assorted emojis listed below.
🍔🌱🌯🍹⚽️🥓🚴🏻👾🎢⛓📺🍁
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reintroduction thread!!!:
name: bobby
pronouns: he/him
location: boston
interests: board / video games, food, theater, theme parks, DIY, iced coffee, whiskey, petting all the dogs, gay stuff
vocation: architect
name: bobby
pronouns: he/him
location: boston
interests: board / video games, food, theater, theme parks, DIY, iced coffee, whiskey, petting all the dogs, gay stuff
vocation: architect
I’ve known this one for over two decades, and this was easily a top five moment of excitement for him.
I HAVE DISCOVERED THE SECRET CHEETOS
November 11, 2025 at 8:16 PM
I’ve known this one for over two decades, and this was easily a top five moment of excitement for him.
a few years ago, my former boston crew decided to rent a cabin for a week to spend time together. this year was the fourth annual trip. it's no secret the last year and a half has been a challenge for me. these boys keep me sane and grounded, and i'm so grateful that we get to do this every year.
November 11, 2025 at 7:41 PM
a few years ago, my former boston crew decided to rent a cabin for a week to spend time together. this year was the fourth annual trip. it's no secret the last year and a half has been a challenge for me. these boys keep me sane and grounded, and i'm so grateful that we get to do this every year.
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wow.
GOOD news for once.
also, FUCK kim davis.
GOOD news for once.
also, FUCK kim davis.
November 10, 2025 at 2:56 PM
wow.
GOOD news for once.
also, FUCK kim davis.
GOOD news for once.
also, FUCK kim davis.
RIP to my aunt joy. i’m so fortunate i got to spend even a few moments with her last month at my moms celebration of life.
hey grim reaper- would you mind fucking off to someone else’s family for a change?
hey grim reaper- would you mind fucking off to someone else’s family for a change?
November 10, 2025 at 1:39 PM
RIP to my aunt joy. i’m so fortunate i got to spend even a few moments with her last month at my moms celebration of life.
hey grim reaper- would you mind fucking off to someone else’s family for a change?
hey grim reaper- would you mind fucking off to someone else’s family for a change?
cursed idea of the day: a fran lebovitz audiobook, but read by fran drescher.
November 9, 2025 at 8:32 PM
cursed idea of the day: a fran lebovitz audiobook, but read by fran drescher.
i guess this legally qualifies as an episode of SNL but… yikes.
November 9, 2025 at 4:56 AM
i guess this legally qualifies as an episode of SNL but… yikes.
“there are only two types of
marmalade: orange and lady.”
marmalade: orange and lady.”
November 8, 2025 at 3:27 PM
“there are only two types of
marmalade: orange and lady.”
marmalade: orange and lady.”
2024-2025 and still going! 🙃
Which year destroyed your mental health most ?
November 8, 2025 at 3:03 PM
2024-2025 and still going! 🙃
went out to olive garden with my cabin crew last night. i felt off but couldn't place why - then it hit me that was where my mom and i would always go for lunch whenever i was home visiting. then i started hearing her voice and it just broke me. horrible night, barely slept, feel like shit today.
November 7, 2025 at 3:17 PM
went out to olive garden with my cabin crew last night. i felt off but couldn't place why - then it hit me that was where my mom and i would always go for lunch whenever i was home visiting. then i started hearing her voice and it just broke me. horrible night, barely slept, feel like shit today.
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stolen from another social where it was probably stolen from another social.
November 6, 2025 at 11:56 AM
stolen from another social where it was probably stolen from another social.
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incredible photo that's definitely worth at least 1,000 words from Andrew Harnik of Getty
November 6, 2025 at 6:10 PM
incredible photo that's definitely worth at least 1,000 words from Andrew Harnik of Getty
just had lunch with my first boyfriend, age 16- who i haven’t seen since 2002. we’ve gone down very different life paths since then (he’s married- to a woman- with kids) but man it felt like absolutely no time has passed.
November 4, 2025 at 7:27 PM
just had lunch with my first boyfriend, age 16- who i haven’t seen since 2002. we’ve gone down very different life paths since then (he’s married- to a woman- with kids) but man it felt like absolutely no time has passed.
on the commuter rail home playing persona 3 reload on my switch 2 and i happen to notice the guy on the other side of the aisle is playing persona 4 on his laptop! i just turned my screen to him and showed him we both laughed and chatted for a few.
these games are so good.
these games are so good.
October 31, 2025 at 9:16 PM
on the commuter rail home playing persona 3 reload on my switch 2 and i happen to notice the guy on the other side of the aisle is playing persona 4 on his laptop! i just turned my screen to him and showed him we both laughed and chatted for a few.
these games are so good.
these games are so good.
talked to my dad earlier and for the first time since my mom’s passing, he actually sounded almost himself again. i really needed that today- i worry about him a lot. ❤️🩹
October 31, 2025 at 2:44 AM
talked to my dad earlier and for the first time since my mom’s passing, he actually sounded almost himself again. i really needed that today- i worry about him a lot. ❤️🩹
If you see this, quote with a robot that isn't from "Star Wars," "Star Trek," "Doctor Who," or "Transformers." 🤖✨
October 31, 2025 at 2:42 AM
If you see this, quote with a robot that isn't from "Star Wars," "Star Trek," "Doctor Who," or "Transformers." 🤖✨
‘samalamadingdong’ may be *the* perfect episode of @gamechangershow.bsky.social . i’m so glad it’s NOT the series finale
but what an absolutely brilliant full-circle moment for the show.
but what an absolutely brilliant full-circle moment for the show.
October 30, 2025 at 12:36 PM
‘samalamadingdong’ may be *the* perfect episode of @gamechangershow.bsky.social . i’m so glad it’s NOT the series finale
but what an absolutely brilliant full-circle moment for the show.
but what an absolutely brilliant full-circle moment for the show.
oh no, i’ve started a persona game again.
goodbye folks, see you in the spring!
goodbye folks, see you in the spring!
October 28, 2025 at 12:50 AM
oh no, i’ve started a persona game again.
goodbye folks, see you in the spring!
goodbye folks, see you in the spring!
finished playing with legos!
October 26, 2025 at 8:18 PM
finished playing with legos!
coffee, legos, and listening to that awesome vinyl you somehow scored for 1/4 what it’s worth. it’s a good sunday morning.
October 26, 2025 at 2:49 PM
coffee, legos, and listening to that awesome vinyl you somehow scored for 1/4 what it’s worth. it’s a good sunday morning.
spending the evening cleaning the apartment. I have bananaball going on the living room tv, my friend’s twitch dj stream in the bedroom, and pride radio in the bathroom. either way: chaotic gay nonsense.
October 26, 2025 at 12:10 AM
spending the evening cleaning the apartment. I have bananaball going on the living room tv, my friend’s twitch dj stream in the bedroom, and pride radio in the bathroom. either way: chaotic gay nonsense.
imagine being an ICE goon (i mean obviously no, but stay with me) and having to take orders from the kid you bullied in high school. that’s gotta sting at its core, cause they will never amount to anything else in life.
Stephen Miller on Fox threatens to arrest JB Pritzker for "seditious conspiracy" and says, "to all ICE officers: you have federal immunity in the conduct of your duties. And anybody who lays a hand on you or tries to stop or obstruct you is committing a felony."
October 25, 2025 at 8:44 PM
imagine being an ICE goon (i mean obviously no, but stay with me) and having to take orders from the kid you bullied in high school. that’s gotta sting at its core, cause they will never amount to anything else in life.
this would heal me.
Good morning, saturday morning! You know what time it is
October 25, 2025 at 8:39 PM
this would heal me.
news co: 'your annual subscription renews next month, it's $.'
me: 'actually no thank you, i'll just cancel.'
news co: what if we offered it to you for literally 1/4 the price we just quoted you?'
me: 'uh....in that case sure i guess?'
me: 'actually no thank you, i'll just cancel.'
news co: what if we offered it to you for literally 1/4 the price we just quoted you?'
me: 'uh....in that case sure i guess?'
October 25, 2025 at 6:28 PM
news co: 'your annual subscription renews next month, it's $.'
me: 'actually no thank you, i'll just cancel.'
news co: what if we offered it to you for literally 1/4 the price we just quoted you?'
me: 'uh....in that case sure i guess?'
me: 'actually no thank you, i'll just cancel.'
news co: what if we offered it to you for literally 1/4 the price we just quoted you?'
me: 'uh....in that case sure i guess?'