Embracing daddyhood
@blondbear.bsky.social
Dad made chicken katsu.
January 18, 2026 at 2:23 AM
Dad made chicken katsu.
I'm seeing photos from friends at MAL. On one hand, I'd love to be there. On the other, well, my self image is garbage so I won't repeat what my brain just said to me about me in a harness and leather jockstrap. It's not pretty.
January 17, 2026 at 6:09 AM
I'm seeing photos from friends at MAL. On one hand, I'd love to be there. On the other, well, my self image is garbage so I won't repeat what my brain just said to me about me in a harness and leather jockstrap. It's not pretty.
On the plus side, my insurance gave the okay for me to get one of the strong treatments for my depression again. I'm sad that this last round only lasted five months, but that's better than the alternative I guess. My mood has been really black of late.
January 4, 2026 at 7:09 AM
On the plus side, my insurance gave the okay for me to get one of the strong treatments for my depression again. I'm sad that this last round only lasted five months, but that's better than the alternative I guess. My mood has been really black of late.
It's now 2026. I've always had a rough time with New Year's as the marking of time reminds me of just how badly I have failed at well, everything. I'm not anywhere close to what I had envisioned for myself, and it honestly feels like I've shot my wad already. Yay.
January 2, 2026 at 7:00 AM
It's now 2026. I've always had a rough time with New Year's as the marking of time reminds me of just how badly I have failed at well, everything. I'm not anywhere close to what I had envisioned for myself, and it honestly feels like I've shot my wad already. Yay.
Don’t get excited. I was icing pfefferneuse and had to let the excess drip off.
December 22, 2025 at 5:58 AM
Don’t get excited. I was icing pfefferneuse and had to let the excess drip off.
Felt sexual tonight. Doesn’t happen much these days.
December 18, 2025 at 7:06 AM
Felt sexual tonight. Doesn’t happen much these days.
That I might have regular sex. My libido is weak and I have few interested locally in being with me so I don’t even masturbate much.
December 3, 2025 at 1:21 PM
That I might have regular sex. My libido is weak and I have few interested locally in being with me so I don’t even masturbate much.
Step-Ins by Skechers. Love them. I don’t do much with shoes fashion wise. I do need new clown shoes though.
December 2, 2025 at 10:58 PM
Step-Ins by Skechers. Love them. I don’t do much with shoes fashion wise. I do need new clown shoes though.
Some friends and I were joking around about doing a bearlesque version of “Rudolph” because face it, we want Yukon and Bumble to get it on.
December 2, 2025 at 5:49 AM
Some friends and I were joking around about doing a bearlesque version of “Rudolph” because face it, we want Yukon and Bumble to get it on.
Boxer briefs, jocks and if I can find them, briefs that accentuate and highlight my bulge.
December 1, 2025 at 4:33 AM
Boxer briefs, jocks and if I can find them, briefs that accentuate and highlight my bulge.
Im roughly 6’2”.
November 28, 2025 at 3:04 AM
Im roughly 6’2”.
Being tall doesn’t go well with airplane toilets.
November 26, 2025 at 7:47 PM
Being tall doesn’t go well with airplane toilets.
Just me in New York City seeing Nakia live at Cutting Room. Not how I expected this trip to end.
November 22, 2025 at 3:36 AM
Just me in New York City seeing Nakia live at Cutting Room. Not how I expected this trip to end.
The wind is doing things to my beard.
November 16, 2025 at 7:19 PM
The wind is doing things to my beard.
This subway stop is almost kinky.
November 16, 2025 at 2:23 AM
This subway stop is almost kinky.
Walked 5 miles. Now I’m bushed.
November 15, 2025 at 10:24 PM
Walked 5 miles. Now I’m bushed.
At Kajiken soba on 6th Ave in Manhattan.
November 15, 2025 at 6:16 PM
At Kajiken soba on 6th Ave in Manhattan.
Gave my beard a bit of a blowout this morning.
November 15, 2025 at 2:26 PM
Gave my beard a bit of a blowout this morning.
Starting to get chat requests here that start with, “u have WhatsApp?”
No. We are NOT playing that. GTFO.
No. We are NOT playing that. GTFO.
November 13, 2025 at 6:27 PM
Starting to get chat requests here that start with, “u have WhatsApp?”
No. We are NOT playing that. GTFO.
No. We are NOT playing that. GTFO.
If you were here you could be having Japanese curry rice with me.
November 11, 2025 at 11:46 PM
If you were here you could be having Japanese curry rice with me.
Headed back to New Jersey for work. Really not a good time for me to travel but here we are.
November 11, 2025 at 3:33 PM
Headed back to New Jersey for work. Really not a good time for me to travel but here we are.
Fried, over easy with buttered sourdough.
November 11, 2025 at 3:49 AM
Fried, over easy with buttered sourdough.
I don’t have one. I don’t enjoy watching or playing any sport. Never got those genes.
November 10, 2025 at 7:03 PM
I don’t have one. I don’t enjoy watching or playing any sport. Never got those genes.
The state of things.
November 4, 2025 at 7:45 PM
The state of things.
Neckties. I loathe the damn things. I don’t find then appealing nor useful. Bow ties I like oddly enough. But a necktie? Just no. I own one only because I have to.
November 4, 2025 at 7:43 PM
Neckties. I loathe the damn things. I don’t find then appealing nor useful. Bow ties I like oddly enough. But a necktie? Just no. I own one only because I have to.