MashedBex ✨
@bexmashaba.bsky.social
hi I'm Bex
♿️ she/they
ⓘ this user supports self diagnosed + officially diagnosed autistics
pfp: a yellow sun with the words "sun will rise & we will try again" on a pink background
cancer treatment fund ⬇️
https://ko-fi.com/rebekamash/goal
♿️ she/they
ⓘ this user supports self diagnosed + officially diagnosed autistics
pfp: a yellow sun with the words "sun will rise & we will try again" on a pink background
cancer treatment fund ⬇️
https://ko-fi.com/rebekamash/goal
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MashedBex ✨
@bexmashaba.bsky.social
· Sep 15
autistic masking can sometimes look like:
- forcing eye contact
- rehearsing scripts in your head
- suppressing the need to stim
- repeating phrases others say / have said
- copying accents/tones subconsciously
- exaggerated facial expressions/head or body movements
- forcing eye contact
- rehearsing scripts in your head
- suppressing the need to stim
- repeating phrases others say / have said
- copying accents/tones subconsciously
- exaggerated facial expressions/head or body movements
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
merry almost christmas my dear friends ❤️
i'm not celebrating because i'm still recovering in the hospital after my surgery, but i hope you all have an amazing christmas day 🎄
as a gift to me, please try to share my cancer fundraiser at least once ❤️ it would mean so much ❤️
i'm not celebrating because i'm still recovering in the hospital after my surgery, but i hope you all have an amazing christmas day 🎄
as a gift to me, please try to share my cancer fundraiser at least once ❤️ it would mean so much ❤️
BLACK CANCER PATIENT'S MEDICAL NEEDS ⚠️
Please give generously to Bex who has had surgery and is currently in recovery.
They're struggling to make ends meet and to cover their medical expenses.
This is only the bill for their anaesthetist.
🔗 ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
Please give generously to Bex who has had surgery and is currently in recovery.
They're struggling to make ends meet and to cover their medical expenses.
This is only the bill for their anaesthetist.
🔗 ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
December 24, 2025 at 11:01 PM
merry almost christmas my dear friends ❤️
i'm not celebrating because i'm still recovering in the hospital after my surgery, but i hope you all have an amazing christmas day 🎄
as a gift to me, please try to share my cancer fundraiser at least once ❤️ it would mean so much ❤️
i'm not celebrating because i'm still recovering in the hospital after my surgery, but i hope you all have an amazing christmas day 🎄
as a gift to me, please try to share my cancer fundraiser at least once ❤️ it would mean so much ❤️
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
the best christmas gift would be to have all my medical debt paid (over $30k excluding the new bills from recent surgery) so that i can BREATHE, but i'll settle (and i'm super grateful) for the fact that i'm STILL HERE!! ❤️
lots of love to each and every one of you ❤️
lots of love to each and every one of you ❤️
December 24, 2025 at 11:06 PM
the best christmas gift would be to have all my medical debt paid (over $30k excluding the new bills from recent surgery) so that i can BREATHE, but i'll settle (and i'm super grateful) for the fact that i'm STILL HERE!! ❤️
lots of love to each and every one of you ❤️
lots of love to each and every one of you ❤️
merry almost christmas my dear friends ❤️
i'm not celebrating because i'm still recovering in the hospital after my surgery, but i hope you all have an amazing christmas day 🎄
as a gift to me, please try to share my cancer fundraiser at least once ❤️ it would mean so much ❤️
i'm not celebrating because i'm still recovering in the hospital after my surgery, but i hope you all have an amazing christmas day 🎄
as a gift to me, please try to share my cancer fundraiser at least once ❤️ it would mean so much ❤️
BLACK CANCER PATIENT'S MEDICAL NEEDS ⚠️
Please give generously to Bex who has had surgery and is currently in recovery.
They're struggling to make ends meet and to cover their medical expenses.
This is only the bill for their anaesthetist.
🔗 ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
Please give generously to Bex who has had surgery and is currently in recovery.
They're struggling to make ends meet and to cover their medical expenses.
This is only the bill for their anaesthetist.
🔗 ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
December 24, 2025 at 11:01 PM
merry almost christmas my dear friends ❤️
i'm not celebrating because i'm still recovering in the hospital after my surgery, but i hope you all have an amazing christmas day 🎄
as a gift to me, please try to share my cancer fundraiser at least once ❤️ it would mean so much ❤️
i'm not celebrating because i'm still recovering in the hospital after my surgery, but i hope you all have an amazing christmas day 🎄
as a gift to me, please try to share my cancer fundraiser at least once ❤️ it would mean so much ❤️
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
BLACK CANCER PATIENT'S MEDICAL NEEDS ⚠️
Please give generously to Bex who has had surgery and is currently in recovery.
They're struggling to make ends meet and to cover their medical expenses.
This is only the bill for their anaesthetist.
🔗 ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
Please give generously to Bex who has had surgery and is currently in recovery.
They're struggling to make ends meet and to cover their medical expenses.
This is only the bill for their anaesthetist.
🔗 ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
December 24, 2025 at 12:27 PM
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
hello friends
i'm okay ❤️
there were some complications but i'm doing so much better now
will update more as soon as i am able to
i'm okay ❤️
there were some complications but i'm doing so much better now
will update more as soon as i am able to
December 24, 2025 at 12:20 PM
hello friends
i'm okay ❤️
there were some complications but i'm doing so much better now
will update more as soon as i am able to
i'm okay ❤️
there were some complications but i'm doing so much better now
will update more as soon as i am able to
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
BLACK CANCER PATIENT'S MEDICAL NEEDS ⚠️
Please give generously to Bex who has had surgery and is currently in recovery.
They're struggling to make ends meet and to cover their medical expenses.
This is only the bill for their anaesthetist.
🔗 ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
Please give generously to Bex who has had surgery and is currently in recovery.
They're struggling to make ends meet and to cover their medical expenses.
This is only the bill for their anaesthetist.
🔗 ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
December 21, 2025 at 8:39 PM
BLACK CANCER PATIENT'S MEDICAL NEEDS ⚠️
Please give generously to Bex who has had surgery and is currently in recovery.
They're struggling to make ends meet and to cover their medical expenses.
This is only the bill for their anaesthetist.
🔗 ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
Please give generously to Bex who has had surgery and is currently in recovery.
They're struggling to make ends meet and to cover their medical expenses.
This is only the bill for their anaesthetist.
🔗 ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
thank you to those who have continued to support me & those who have checked up on me ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
December 24, 2025 at 12:22 PM
thank you to those who have continued to support me & those who have checked up on me ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
thank you to those who have continued to support me & those who have checked up on me ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
December 24, 2025 at 12:22 PM
thank you to those who have continued to support me & those who have checked up on me ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
hello friends
i'm okay ❤️
there were some complications but i'm doing so much better now
will update more as soon as i am able to
i'm okay ❤️
there were some complications but i'm doing so much better now
will update more as soon as i am able to
December 24, 2025 at 12:20 PM
hello friends
i'm okay ❤️
there were some complications but i'm doing so much better now
will update more as soon as i am able to
i'm okay ❤️
there were some complications but i'm doing so much better now
will update more as soon as i am able to
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
Rebeka needs $167 for cancer medication ASAP!!
Chip in and pass on so your moots can chip in too! 💜
I'm giving $10. Match or exceed?
Chip in and pass on so your moots can chip in too! 💜
I'm giving $10. Match or exceed?
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
December 12, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Rebeka needs $167 for cancer medication ASAP!!
Chip in and pass on so your moots can chip in too! 💜
I'm giving $10. Match or exceed?
Chip in and pass on so your moots can chip in too! 💜
I'm giving $10. Match or exceed?
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
when i woke up i had this heavy feeling in my chest
going through all of this without emotional support is extremely difficult
i try to distract myself from how lonely this journey has been but in moments like that i realize how painful it is to fight for a life with nothing and no one in it
going through all of this without emotional support is extremely difficult
i try to distract myself from how lonely this journey has been but in moments like that i realize how painful it is to fight for a life with nothing and no one in it
December 12, 2025 at 12:46 PM
when i woke up i had this heavy feeling in my chest
going through all of this without emotional support is extremely difficult
i try to distract myself from how lonely this journey has been but in moments like that i realize how painful it is to fight for a life with nothing and no one in it
going through all of this without emotional support is extremely difficult
i try to distract myself from how lonely this journey has been but in moments like that i realize how painful it is to fight for a life with nothing and no one in it
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
December 12, 2025 at 12:41 PM
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
still need $157 🙏🏽❤️
received $10 so far ❤️
received $10 so far ❤️
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
December 12, 2025 at 2:44 PM
still need $157 🙏🏽❤️
received $10 so far ❤️
received $10 so far ❤️
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
Bex should be resting right now after surgery, HOWEVER because of our "great" healthcare system in the US, they need $$ for cancer meds WHILE THEY ARE IN THE HOSPITAL!
They need $157 NOW. Not tomorrow. NOW.
They have no support. Just us.
#mutualaid #helpsky #helpfolkslive2025 💞💸
They need $157 NOW. Not tomorrow. NOW.
They have no support. Just us.
#mutualaid #helpsky #helpfolkslive2025 💞💸
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
December 12, 2025 at 6:29 PM
Bex should be resting right now after surgery, HOWEVER because of our "great" healthcare system in the US, they need $$ for cancer meds WHILE THEY ARE IN THE HOSPITAL!
They need $157 NOW. Not tomorrow. NOW.
They have no support. Just us.
#mutualaid #helpsky #helpfolkslive2025 💞💸
They need $157 NOW. Not tomorrow. NOW.
They have no support. Just us.
#mutualaid #helpsky #helpfolkslive2025 💞💸
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
Help out with cancer meds
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
December 12, 2025 at 6:49 PM
Help out with cancer meds
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
$5/167
thank you very much ❤️
i have to rest up but i'll try to check as often as i can
i know i've asked for a lot of support, but i'm praying for better days in health and finances ❤️
thank you very much ❤️
i have to rest up but i'll try to check as often as i can
i know i've asked for a lot of support, but i'm praying for better days in health and finances ❤️
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
December 12, 2025 at 1:16 PM
$5/167
thank you very much ❤️
i have to rest up but i'll try to check as often as i can
i know i've asked for a lot of support, but i'm praying for better days in health and finances ❤️
thank you very much ❤️
i have to rest up but i'll try to check as often as i can
i know i've asked for a lot of support, but i'm praying for better days in health and finances ❤️
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
When you tell autistic people not to mention autism, what you’re really saying is “your reality makes me uncomfortable.” Autistic people deserve to talk about our needs, perspectives, and challenges without being policed.
December 11, 2025 at 5:51 PM
When you tell autistic people not to mention autism, what you’re really saying is “your reality makes me uncomfortable.” Autistic people deserve to talk about our needs, perspectives, and challenges without being policed.
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
I'm not just autistic.
I'm super-cali-fraj-autistic-expialidocious.
I'm super-cali-fraj-autistic-expialidocious.
a man in a striped jacket is walking with three penguins behind him
Alt: a man in a striped jacket is walking with three penguins behind him
media.tenor.com
December 12, 2025 at 5:50 PM
I'm not just autistic.
I'm super-cali-fraj-autistic-expialidocious.
I'm super-cali-fraj-autistic-expialidocious.
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
chip in to help bex!
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
December 12, 2025 at 6:23 PM
chip in to help bex!
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
Friends! ❤️ I'm giving this another round. If you're able to help, please consider donating.
#mutualaid
bsky.app/profile/bexm...
#mutualaid
bsky.app/profile/bexm...
please?
i'll only have enough dosages for tomorrow
i have to order asap if i want to avoid the extra dispensary fee.
i'll only have enough dosages for tomorrow
i have to order asap if i want to avoid the extra dispensary fee.
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
December 12, 2025 at 6:24 PM
Friends! ❤️ I'm giving this another round. If you're able to help, please consider donating.
#mutualaid
bsky.app/profile/bexm...
#mutualaid
bsky.app/profile/bexm...
please?
i'll only have enough dosages for tomorrow
i have to order asap if i want to avoid the extra dispensary fee.
i'll only have enough dosages for tomorrow
i have to order asap if i want to avoid the extra dispensary fee.
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
December 12, 2025 at 6:21 PM
please?
i'll only have enough dosages for tomorrow
i have to order asap if i want to avoid the extra dispensary fee.
i'll only have enough dosages for tomorrow
i have to order asap if i want to avoid the extra dispensary fee.
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
if you have $5 or $10 to spare, please help me out ❤️
hey,
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
i have to get my tki (cancer meds) prescription filled - they're only giving me 3 days supply here at the hospital (i was hoping they'd provide for the duration i'm here).
i have $92, i'll need another $167 🙏🏽
please can 17 of you give $10 each?
paypal.me/thelongestroad
kofi link in bio
December 12, 2025 at 1:28 PM
if you have $5 or $10 to spare, please help me out ❤️
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
Rebeka is finally getting the surgery they need today!
This is a HUGE win.
They still owe the anaesthetist the rest of the money, and will have several bills after the surgery, as well as rent, food etc.
Let's make sure they have one less thing to stress about.
ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
This is a HUGE win.
They still owe the anaesthetist the rest of the money, and will have several bills after the surgery, as well as rent, food etc.
Let's make sure they have one less thing to stress about.
ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
December 11, 2025 at 10:00 PM
Rebeka is finally getting the surgery they need today!
This is a HUGE win.
They still owe the anaesthetist the rest of the money, and will have several bills after the surgery, as well as rent, food etc.
Let's make sure they have one less thing to stress about.
ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
This is a HUGE win.
They still owe the anaesthetist the rest of the money, and will have several bills after the surgery, as well as rent, food etc.
Let's make sure they have one less thing to stress about.
ko-fi.com/rebekamash/g...
Reposted by MashedBex ✨
doc said that someone from billing is coming to see me when i'm doing better
that just makes me super anxious
that just makes me super anxious
December 12, 2025 at 2:46 PM
doc said that someone from billing is coming to see me when i'm doing better
that just makes me super anxious
that just makes me super anxious
doc said that someone from billing is coming to see me when i'm doing better
that just makes me super anxious
that just makes me super anxious
December 12, 2025 at 2:46 PM
doc said that someone from billing is coming to see me when i'm doing better
that just makes me super anxious
that just makes me super anxious