🏳️⚧️ Michelle - Between Genders
@betweengenders.bsky.social
🏳️⚧️ Trans blogger. Writing about gender, kink, femininity, and the in-between spaces most people don’t talk about.
Memoir in progress. Unfiltered, vulnerable, a little sassy.
💄 https://www.betweengenders.com
💬 she/her (usually)
#Trans #Transgender #LGBTQ
Memoir in progress. Unfiltered, vulnerable, a little sassy.
💄 https://www.betweengenders.com
💬 she/her (usually)
#Trans #Transgender #LGBTQ
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Hello, lovelies!
I’m Michelle 💖
I’m trans (but not yet transitioned). I write personal stuff about gender, femininity, kink, and figuring yourself out.
👉 Read the blog: www.betweengenders.com
#Transgender #Trans #TransFemme #TransFem #TransWoman #Crossdresser #GenderFluid #LGBTQ #Blog
I’m Michelle 💖
I’m trans (but not yet transitioned). I write personal stuff about gender, femininity, kink, and figuring yourself out.
👉 Read the blog: www.betweengenders.com
#Transgender #Trans #TransFemme #TransFem #TransWoman #Crossdresser #GenderFluid #LGBTQ #Blog
Any of my trans family have blogs? Or know someone that does?
Drop them below. I want more to follow.
Drop them below. I want more to follow.
July 17, 2025 at 6:09 PM
Any of my trans family have blogs? Or know someone that does?
Drop them below. I want more to follow.
Drop them below. I want more to follow.
Hoping all my trans family is doing well.
Haven't made it on lately to check in on everyone. Miss you all.
Haven't made it on lately to check in on everyone. Miss you all.
July 15, 2025 at 1:17 PM
Hoping all my trans family is doing well.
Haven't made it on lately to check in on everyone. Miss you all.
Haven't made it on lately to check in on everyone. Miss you all.
Anyone else about to nerd out to MSI finals?
July 12, 2025 at 11:37 PM
Anyone else about to nerd out to MSI finals?
Whew! I did it!
Kind of rushed through it rather than taking my time and enjoying it. But I did it.
Got a new fit and flare from the thrift store and stopped for some food. I think the guy that took my order clocked me, but didn't say anything.
Overall not a bad experience.
Kind of rushed through it rather than taking my time and enjoying it. But I did it.
Got a new fit and flare from the thrift store and stopped for some food. I think the guy that took my order clocked me, but didn't say anything.
Overall not a bad experience.
July 12, 2025 at 4:58 PM
Whew! I did it!
Kind of rushed through it rather than taking my time and enjoying it. But I did it.
Got a new fit and flare from the thrift store and stopped for some food. I think the guy that took my order clocked me, but didn't say anything.
Overall not a bad experience.
Kind of rushed through it rather than taking my time and enjoying it. But I did it.
Got a new fit and flare from the thrift store and stopped for some food. I think the guy that took my order clocked me, but didn't say anything.
Overall not a bad experience.
Alright. I’m going out. Wish me luck!
(Also, lucky you! I never share pics.)
(Also, lucky you! I never share pics.)
July 12, 2025 at 3:53 PM
Alright. I’m going out. Wish me luck!
(Also, lucky you! I never share pics.)
(Also, lucky you! I never share pics.)
Was considering going out en femme today. Just pick up a new a new outfit at a thrift store and maybe grab some lunch.
Holy hell. The anxiety just planning it…
Holy hell. The anxiety just planning it…
July 12, 2025 at 1:32 PM
Was considering going out en femme today. Just pick up a new a new outfit at a thrift store and maybe grab some lunch.
Holy hell. The anxiety just planning it…
Holy hell. The anxiety just planning it…
Posted something new.
Second session with a gender therapist. Started unpacking how trauma delayed my self-discovery.
If you’ve wondered why it took you so long to come out—this might resonate.🖤
www.betweengenders.com/childhood-tr...
#Trans #Transgender #GenderIdentity #LGBTQ #Blog #TransFemme
Second session with a gender therapist. Started unpacking how trauma delayed my self-discovery.
If you’ve wondered why it took you so long to come out—this might resonate.🖤
www.betweengenders.com/childhood-tr...
#Trans #Transgender #GenderIdentity #LGBTQ #Blog #TransFemme
Childhood Trauma and Gender Identity: Why I Came Out Late - Between Genders
My trauma didn’t cause me to be trans—but it delayed everything. Here’s how childhood trauma and gender identity shaped my path, and why I came out so late.
www.betweengenders.com
July 12, 2025 at 10:48 AM
Posted something new.
Second session with a gender therapist. Started unpacking how trauma delayed my self-discovery.
If you’ve wondered why it took you so long to come out—this might resonate.🖤
www.betweengenders.com/childhood-tr...
#Trans #Transgender #GenderIdentity #LGBTQ #Blog #TransFemme
Second session with a gender therapist. Started unpacking how trauma delayed my self-discovery.
If you’ve wondered why it took you so long to come out—this might resonate.🖤
www.betweengenders.com/childhood-tr...
#Trans #Transgender #GenderIdentity #LGBTQ #Blog #TransFemme
Woke up from a nightmare at 4:30am. Painted my nails to calm down. Tried to sleep again and—of course—thunder.
The universe said: “not today, bitch.”
The universe said: “not today, bitch.”
July 12, 2025 at 10:26 AM
Woke up from a nightmare at 4:30am. Painted my nails to calm down. Tried to sleep again and—of course—thunder.
The universe said: “not today, bitch.”
The universe said: “not today, bitch.”
Just saw our city had an adult prom a few weeks ago. And now I'm super bummed I missed that. I would LOVE to give my wife the prom experience she never had.
July 11, 2025 at 4:08 PM
Just saw our city had an adult prom a few weeks ago. And now I'm super bummed I missed that. I would LOVE to give my wife the prom experience she never had.
Therapy yesterday was heavy.
Talking about trauma isn’t easy—but hearing someone say, “There’s a real reason you didn’t transition sooner—and it makes sense”?
That cracked something open.
I've kind of kicked myself for it for so long. And now I feel like I didn't need to.
Talking about trauma isn’t easy—but hearing someone say, “There’s a real reason you didn’t transition sooner—and it makes sense”?
That cracked something open.
I've kind of kicked myself for it for so long. And now I feel like I didn't need to.
July 11, 2025 at 2:25 AM
Therapy yesterday was heavy.
Talking about trauma isn’t easy—but hearing someone say, “There’s a real reason you didn’t transition sooner—and it makes sense”?
That cracked something open.
I've kind of kicked myself for it for so long. And now I feel like I didn't need to.
Talking about trauma isn’t easy—but hearing someone say, “There’s a real reason you didn’t transition sooner—and it makes sense”?
That cracked something open.
I've kind of kicked myself for it for so long. And now I feel like I didn't need to.
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To every trans person who hasn’t come out fully yet, whether you’re waiting for safety, stability, strength or whatever you need, I’m right there with you.
If you’re stalled or stuck there too, you’re not doing it wrong. You’re doing your best. So am I.
I feel you. And I’m rooting for us.
If you’re stalled or stuck there too, you’re not doing it wrong. You’re doing your best. So am I.
I feel you. And I’m rooting for us.
July 8, 2025 at 4:42 PM
To every trans person who hasn’t come out fully yet, whether you’re waiting for safety, stability, strength or whatever you need, I’m right there with you.
If you’re stalled or stuck there too, you’re not doing it wrong. You’re doing your best. So am I.
I feel you. And I’m rooting for us.
If you’re stalled or stuck there too, you’re not doing it wrong. You’re doing your best. So am I.
I feel you. And I’m rooting for us.
Therapy day two.
Don’t wanna do this. But also REALLY wanna do this.
Don’t wanna do this. But also REALLY wanna do this.
July 9, 2025 at 10:53 AM
Therapy day two.
Don’t wanna do this. But also REALLY wanna do this.
Don’t wanna do this. But also REALLY wanna do this.
All the trans glow-ups today are so freakin inspiring. HRT can’t start soon enough
July 8, 2025 at 9:34 PM
All the trans glow-ups today are so freakin inspiring. HRT can’t start soon enough
Wife and I started a new hobby tonight. Ordered some of those adult beverage MiniVerse things. And we’re trying the drinks as we make the minis.
Up tonight: Moscow Mule (sans the copper cup). Not bad!
Up tonight: Moscow Mule (sans the copper cup). Not bad!
July 6, 2025 at 3:19 AM
Wife and I started a new hobby tonight. Ordered some of those adult beverage MiniVerse things. And we’re trying the drinks as we make the minis.
Up tonight: Moscow Mule (sans the copper cup). Not bad!
Up tonight: Moscow Mule (sans the copper cup). Not bad!
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Pre-Transition: All I do is play video games.
Post-Transition: All I do is play video games. Also I’m a gay girl.
Post-Transition: All I do is play video games. Also I’m a gay girl.
July 3, 2025 at 8:02 PM
Pre-Transition: All I do is play video games.
Post-Transition: All I do is play video games. Also I’m a gay girl.
Post-Transition: All I do is play video games. Also I’m a gay girl.
Sad. My Emily in Paris candle is no more...
July 4, 2025 at 2:08 AM
Sad. My Emily in Paris candle is no more...
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I want to say something hopeful and encouraging to my friends and trans siblings here, but I’m terrified and at a loss for words. I know things will get better eventually, but the amount of suffering and death that will happen before then is just horrifying 😭
July 3, 2025 at 8:23 PM
I want to say something hopeful and encouraging to my friends and trans siblings here, but I’m terrified and at a loss for words. I know things will get better eventually, but the amount of suffering and death that will happen before then is just horrifying 😭
Oklahoma heat suuuuuuucks.
I can get steps in and lose weight on my lunch break OR I can wear makeup.
But can’t have both…not a pretty sight.
I can get steps in and lose weight on my lunch break OR I can wear makeup.
But can’t have both…not a pretty sight.
July 3, 2025 at 5:30 PM
Oklahoma heat suuuuuuucks.
I can get steps in and lose weight on my lunch break OR I can wear makeup.
But can’t have both…not a pretty sight.
I can get steps in and lose weight on my lunch break OR I can wear makeup.
But can’t have both…not a pretty sight.
I think I may have an obsessions…
July 3, 2025 at 5:24 PM
I think I may have an obsessions…
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For those who are still whining about not having a “straight pride”
July 3, 2025 at 2:11 PM
For those who are still whining about not having a “straight pride”
Posture has been so hard to adjust. But I’m to that point where I don’t have to constantly stay conscious of it. If I’m doing it wrong, my body just sort of notices and tells me.
Small win.
Small win.
July 3, 2025 at 2:34 PM
Posture has been so hard to adjust. But I’m to that point where I don’t have to constantly stay conscious of it. If I’m doing it wrong, my body just sort of notices and tells me.
Small win.
Small win.
Woke up and everything about me just feels gross. Hitting harder than usual today.
Sigh…well, time to push through again I guess.
Sigh…well, time to push through again I guess.
July 3, 2025 at 12:17 PM
Woke up and everything about me just feels gross. Hitting harder than usual today.
Sigh…well, time to push through again I guess.
Sigh…well, time to push through again I guess.
My mental has NOT been in a good place tonight. I really need to get back to a hobby.
Maybe get back to game dev or try creative writing or something?
Maybe get back to game dev or try creative writing or something?
July 3, 2025 at 4:26 AM
My mental has NOT been in a good place tonight. I really need to get back to a hobby.
Maybe get back to game dev or try creative writing or something?
Maybe get back to game dev or try creative writing or something?