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Benjamas
@benjamas.bsky.social
Single Dad, Injured Medical Student trying to recover from spinal injury.
ADHD. They/Them.
Is it a Good Friday? Or a great Friday?
March 29, 2024 at 12:58 AM
It’s very convenient for her to throw these reasons out to me now, she only went looking outside our marriage not long after it was revealed I wouldn’t be able to completed my studies and become a doctor because of my spinal injury.
March 24, 2024 at 1:07 AM
my ex dropped a reason why she checked out of our marriage when talking last night. When I had my mental breakdown and a short stay in the hospital to adjust me meds, she felt she could no long rely or trust me. So she decided never to confided in me, until 4 years later when leaving me and the kids
March 24, 2024 at 1:04 AM
Have gone past the half way mark of my weight loss goal, clothes are ill fitting, my pants and underwear keep wanting to just fall off as I am walking. Soon I will shift focus from pure weight loss to strength and muscle building.
In 3 months I have lost 23kg/50lbs.
March 22, 2024 at 11:31 PM
Focussing on myself is strange and unfamiliar, after years of prioritising my wife and kids, what do I do with myself. I still prioritize my kids and do everything I can to protect them, but I find myself lost and wondering what to do, beyond doing exercise and reading… suggestions are welcome
March 17, 2024 at 5:22 AM
Working hard to rebuild my body back to fitness and strength after being bed bound for nearly 2 years with a spinal injury. I have just gotten past the 20kgs of weight loss, achieved by intermittent fasting and increasing exercise demands, I’m upto doing 10K steps a day, all painful, but I’m pushing
March 10, 2024 at 12:04 AM
Is the point of Bluesky to just be yourself, and be horny on main if that’s your thing?
March 5, 2024 at 4:49 AM
Should I start posting lewds as a single dad now that I don’t have to conform to some societal expectation? It’s up for a vote I guess
March 4, 2024 at 9:27 AM
My life now consists of looking after my kids, taking them to school, walking 5kms home to an empty house, where I do house work, or stare off into the distance and wonder how I will ever sort out the disaster that my life has become. Then it’s pick up time for school, and the mask goes back on
March 4, 2024 at 7:10 AM
So I have learned to solve Rubik cubes after my two kids started asking me to do it, if me solving 10-20 Rubik’s cubes a day distracts them from their mother leaving, than I will solve them.
January 17, 2024 at 7:06 AM
I don’t post often, but when I do, it wasn’t worth the wait.
December 29, 2023 at 7:56 PM
@katymontgomerie.bsky.social Yay! I can follow you on here as well, im so close to being able to say goodbye for ever to Twithell
July 9, 2023 at 11:15 AM
Reposted by Benjamas
July 9, 2023 at 3:51 AM
I’m really enjoying the vibe of Bluesky, I’m reading more than commenting (which is something I have always done), but it’s refreshing not to have to wade through countless comments that are paid blue ticks defending Elon or the latest awful events
July 7, 2023 at 9:58 PM
Am I Blueskying right? I’m not sure what to do, only that I don’t want to be on twitter anymore and Threads seems like the worse combination of Facebook and twitter linked to your instagram
July 7, 2023 at 1:28 AM