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Jess DeVries
@belovedcoaching.bsky.social
Somatic Sex Coach and Grief Worker.
www.belovedcoaching.net
linktr.ee/belovedcoaching

#StillMasking
This Sunday! We’re talking about what got us HOT and BOTHERED about Dying for Sex.

Join us!

www.belovedcoaching.net/hotandbother...
July 16, 2025 at 6:20 AM
Does your grief need attention today? This is a soft space for you to grieve and not have to be alone with it.

I’d love to have you there.

www.belovedcoaching.net/mindful-erot...
Mindful Erotic Grief — Beloved Coaching
You’re invited to a communal practice where we set our intentions on turning toward our individual mourning, welcoming erotic knowing, and holding space for one another's grief.
www.belovedcoaching.net
May 28, 2025 at 4:45 PM
Falling asleep to the cool smells of a spring night is such a pleasure.
May 28, 2025 at 7:33 AM
Queer babes. I’ve got a special offering for pride to hold our grief and honor our pleasure this Pride. There will also be a collective erotic ritual for queer resistance during our time together.

Come & Cry starts Sunday! I’d love to have you there.

www.belovedcoaching.net/come-and-cry
Come & Cry: Pleasure, Grief & Queer Resistance Ritual for Pride — Beloved Coaching
Come and Cry is a four week virtual workshop series for queers that is one part grief literacy, one part pleasure practice, one part collective erotic ritual, and one part transformative grief circle.
www.belovedcoaching.net
May 27, 2025 at 2:11 AM
Trans and enby loves. We have a grief circle just for you this Thursday.
May 11, 2025 at 7:15 AM
Are you grieving? Join tonight’s grief space to be supported in your grief.

www.belovedcoaching.net/mindful-erot...
Mindful Erotic Grief — Beloved Coaching
You’re invited to a communal practice where we set our intentions on turning toward our individual mourning, welcoming erotic knowing, and holding space for one another's grief.
www.belovedcoaching.net
April 30, 2025 at 7:08 PM
Who wants to celebrate Easter a little differently this year?

Virtual workshop for folks who want to shift the way their bodies relate to religious trauma and write affirming poetry from their lived experience.

Details here: www.belovedcoaching.net/the-flesh-is...
April 14, 2025 at 3:26 AM
I’ve got a few spots available for grief support this coming week. DM to schedule. ❤️
March 15, 2025 at 7:58 PM
Overwhelmed with what to do with all your grief right now?

Tomorrow’s workshop can help ease that overwhelm. ❤️

I’d love to have you there.

www.belovedcoaching.net/simple-pleas...
At A Loss: Grief 101 for Times of Crisis — Beloved Coaching
We are all here in a time of immense grief and most of us are missing the knowledge and skills to show up to and with our grief… and the grief of one another. In this 2 hour workshop you will learn ...
www.belovedcoaching.net
February 12, 2025 at 4:40 AM
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grieve & chill ✨

join us and our grief buddies for a unique afternoon of healing and connection at our virtual guided grief hang - elevated by 🌱 - we offer a non carceral space for exploring the intersections of grief, weed and community.

sunday | march 9 | 1-230 pm pst

link in bio to register!
February 10, 2025 at 1:26 AM
Are you at at loss with what to do with all the grief of this moment?

Join me next week to increase your knowledge about grief and gain resources to support yourself and your communities.

www.belovedcoaching.net/simple-pleas...
At A Loss: Grief 101 for Times of Crisis — Beloved Coaching
We are all here in a time of immense grief and most of us are missing the knowledge and skills to show up to and with our grief… and the grief of one another. In this 2 hour workshop you will learn ...
www.belovedcoaching.net
February 7, 2025 at 9:00 PM
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💜 join us 💜

2/12 @ 6–7 PM PST

link in bio to register

this monthly virtual support group has been reimagined as a place for BIPOC/PGM who experience SI to exist without the white gaze, without the need to explain, and without the threat of judgment or forced intervention.
February 7, 2025 at 7:01 PM
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Fantasies inside your own head are morally neutral. Sex between consenting parties is morally neutral. Even and especially the gross, weird, freaky stuff. There is not a moral hierarchy to sexual fantasies.
February 7, 2025 at 12:13 PM
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Excited to share that we had an anon donor pay the way for someone who would like to take "this is my body: resurrecting self sovereignty, embodiment & pleasure" who wouldn't be able to pay. So if you have been looking at it, but feeling like cost is a barrier - hmu 💞 @belovedcoaching.bsky.social
February 4, 2025 at 5:44 AM
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Just updated. 128 active PDX orgs and counting.
#pdxresourceshare #pdxvolunteering
PDXOH
A landing page for mutual aid and other helpful organizations in Portland, Oregon that are doing the work.
pdxma.info
January 23, 2025 at 8:57 PM
I know a lot of folks are coming face to face with their grief after pushing it down for a long time.

If this is you and you don’t know what to do with all your grief, I’d love to share some information and skills with you.

#grief #toolsfortherevolution

www.belovedcoaching.net/simple-pleas...
At A Loss: Grief 101 for Times of Crisis — Beloved Coaching
We are all here in a time of immense grief and most of us are missing the knowledge and skills to show up to and with our grief… and the grief of one another. In this 2 hour workshop you will learn ...
www.belovedcoaching.net
January 29, 2025 at 7:41 AM
Hey all you dear #exvangelicals and #deconstructing folks! We have a sweet workshop series coming up just for you. Embodiment, pleasure, boundaries, choice… and how being more present in our bodies is a form of resistance.

www.belovedcoaching.net/this-is-my-b...
This is My Body — Beloved Coaching
This workshop series comes from a desire to share what we know about embodiment and pleasure while holding space for the deep inquiry it takes to define sexual values that are in alignment with the tr...
www.belovedcoaching.net
January 29, 2025 at 7:29 AM
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Y'all, I am simply begging you to start masking up again. We will have no information on the pandemic currently underway AND no information when/if H5N1 makes the jump.

Don't wait for someone from the government to tell you to start protecting yourself because it will be way too late if they do.
With Trump's withdrawal from the U.N. World Health Organization, the U.S. will likely fall behind on public health innovation and disease prevention, putting the country and the world at greater risk to the next pandemic.
Trump’s Exit From WHO Could Make Next Pandemic More Likely — and More Deadly
Global health law professor Lawrence Gostin explains the risks of the US withdrawal from the World Health Organization.
truthout.org
January 23, 2025 at 8:07 PM
Does your grief need a place to be tomorrow (Wed)?

There’s space for you at Mindful Erotic Grief. Catch all the details and register in my linktree.
January 22, 2025 at 3:56 AM
To our dear erotic laborers… we have a grief training for you. If you want to be able to show up better to -and with-the grief of your clients, please consider joining us!
I have the pleasure of teaching a few different classes with my beloved, @belovedcoaching.bsky.social . This one is for erotic workers who are ready to skill up in holding grief.

Is that you?

Belovedcoaching.net/embodied-grief-literacy

#heaux #somatics #grief #embodiment #helpinghands #trans
January 14, 2025 at 7:44 AM
Some sweet words from my love and cofacilitator about noticing nipples and an invitation to our friends who have had top surgery to join us for Pleasure (your) Chest starting next week.
Have you noticed your nipples today? As a student of somatic sex education I find myself prompting students and clients to notice sensation in their bodies.....

www.koridoty.com/2025/01/have...

#somatics #pain #postop #trans #pleasure #itscomplicated #feeling #sexcoach
January 12, 2025 at 3:59 AM
Excited to share that we have spots available for Pleasure (your) Chest, starting next week!

Transmasc and non-binary loves… no matter if your surgery was last month or 20 years ago, we’d love to have you!

www.belovedcoaching.net/pleasure-you...
January 12, 2025 at 1:56 AM
Hi, hello! It’s taken a minute to get started here, but I’m glad you’re on this corner of the internet with me. I’ll just be talking all things pleasure and grief, so welcome! 💕☺️
December 2, 2024 at 9:18 PM