I think we should rename the day to Super Sale Friday, Screaming Deals Friday, or... how about Shop Until You Drop Friday? Then there is...The Day After Thanksgiving. Perhaps that one is too on the nose and not clever enough.

Yes, today we’re going to talk about professions, not confessions, specifically what the Trump administration considers a profession.

I read with great interest about this woman who decided to do a social experiment during these trying times to see which churches put their money/aid where their preaching mouth is supposed to be.

Another sex blog? Damn tooting! Why? Because I strongly believe, especially in today's times, that we should not go back and revisit those buttoned-up times of my youth. I strongly believe that both body and sex positivity are critical to women's health.

t's Friday and Halloween! I wouldn't necessarily say that Halloween is my favorite holiday, but I don't hate it. Who doesn't like dressing up as someone else and eating candy until you get a bellyache?

With Halloween around the corner, I've been bingeing horror flicks, especially ones with vampires, because I'm obsessed with vampires. So... of course, I wanted to research the origins of horror stories, both literary and cinematic.

According to Google AI, post menopausal women should use clitoral vibrators. But I wanted to know which ones, specifically. Like, was there a brand out there recommended by four out of five sex therapists?

I'm aware of this concept of a found family in lesfic, which, if I'm not mistaken, means that family is a broader term than one's blood relatives. I can totally get behind that because so many in the LGBTQ+ family have to rely on their found family for support.

So, I'll admit to being obsessed with comic book superheroes. Which is why I finally wrote a lesbian superhero novel.

That got me thinking about modern-day expectations on text and direct messages. Sure, some things are sacrosanct, like the correct use of to, two, and too, or there, they’re, and their. But are there really expectations surrounding Facebook posts, text messages, or direct messages?

Lately, the topic of free speech has been a prominent feature on social media, and indeed it should be! Many are worried about being turned in for making any comment that the MAGA snowflakes take issue with, especially if it's perceived as negative.

The disturbing truth is that as we age, it becomes more difficult for women to achieve orgasm.

No, I'm not talking about actual bears in the wild, because while there have been scientific studies of same-sex bears, they are limited to males. Of course, they haven't yet studied two female bears in the wild. But apparently, there is a lesbian equivalent of a gay bear. Who knew?

With the increased number of states banning books, particularly those with LGBTQ+ themes, I wanted to research the history of book bans. And it turns out that book bans have been around for a very long time, especially in the US.

LOL. Okay, sue me. I was a big fan of the original Karate Kid movie (wax on, wax off), and I admit that I also watched the recent series. But I'm getting off track from the actual topic. I came across an article citing 11 struggles with strap-ons, and, of course, I had to share it with y'all, along with a small amount of commentary.

Yeah, I know this isn't as sexy or exciting as talking about women's intimate bits, but I did think it was an appropriate topic since it's my birthday today.

Yup, I’m going there! You can probably guess from the name, but let me just give you the definition: Also known as vaginal rejuvenation, labiaplasty is a plastic surgery procedure that involves modifying the labia minora (inner lips) and/or the labia majora (outer lips).

Anyway, my wife was listening to her daily YouTube videos and called this one out for me, thinking I might be interested in writing a blog about it. Yup, sure am! It combines two recent topics: death planning (tarramation), and pubic hair (along with a few other humorous bits).

Now, I gotta admit that talking about her wishes, especially when she proudly says you can use my composted body for your tomato plants, kinda creeped me out. But like a good wife, of course, I’ll respect her wishes, and my response back was that I would research this and write a blog about it.

So...as a reminder, a Merkin is a pubic wig. Yup, fake hair that you wear down there! Hey, I rhymed...totally unintentional. Merkin kind of gives new meaning to the term...muff diving!

Anyone know what a Merkin refers to...No one, no one?

Yup…I just read an article that explains how anatomists have described how a woman’s body has been a man’s world.

This past week, I listened to a story on NPR about a former K9 Police Officer who is now a bona fide Pet Detective, and she's training others to take up the mantle across the country. I was so delighted by the story, I just had to summarize some of the salient facts Kathy Albrecht shared in her interview. As a person who definitely lost her shit when Nico went missing, I loved knowing that there are professionals who can help, in addition to certain tips for pet owners who have a lost pet.

This week, my publisher is hosting a major sale to celebrate their 15th anniversary, which, in my humble opinion, is quite an achievement. Let’s face it, sapphic romance and fiction have struggled to find a large enough audience to support the many wonderful authors over the years. A number of publishers have gone out of business and closed their doors, not able to weather the storms that occurred since sapphic books were first published by Naid Press.

Of course, I’ve known this for years, being the self-professed crazy cat lady that I am. I was driving somewhere and listened to this episode on NPR about perfect animals, and was nodding my head like I was listening to a great song.