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Aloha Divorce™
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CA law firm rooted in the Hawaiian concept of "Aloha," embodying love, peace, compassion, & mutual respect. Guiding clients through life’s transitions—whether saying goodbye to a marriage or preparing for a future with a prenup.
https://aloha-divorce.com/
Postnuptial agreements and transmutation agreements aren’t interchangeable. One addresses the full financial picture; the other focuses on specific assets.
Understanding the difference can help couples plan more thoughtfully—and with less conflict. 🌊⚖️
December 18, 2025 at 11:14 PM
Happy Hanukkah ✨
Sending light, peace, and good energy to all who are celebrating.
December 15, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Wonderful first-time chat with former SD District Attorney Mara Elliott at the CASD Holiday Party. 🎄 Excited to support her campaign for California State Senate District 40—strong leadership matters.

#MaraElliott #SanDiego #CASD
December 5, 2025 at 7:09 PM
December 3, 2025 at 6:59 PM
The fastest way to get divorced in California—especially for San Diego parents—is through mediation.
It keeps the process efficient, reduces conflict, and prioritizes stability for your kids.
If you’re looking for a smoother path forward, I can help.
December 1, 2025 at 11:04 PM
Co-parenting through the holidays doesn’t have to be stressful. A little planning, flexibility, and kindness go a long way. 🦃🧡
Sharing a few simple Thanksgiving co-parenting tips to help families navigate the season with more ease and connection.
November 26, 2025 at 12:09 AM
Thrilled to see my article “Amicable Divorce: A Modern Approach to Peaceful Separation” featured in The Local Paper!

At Aloha Divorce™, we believe that separation can be handled with grace, respect, and collaboration — not conflict.
November 10, 2025 at 9:16 PM
Are you considering divorce or legal separation in San Diego?

🌿 This new blog post breaks down the differences under California family law, what each option means, and how to move forward with clarity and compassion.

📖 Read now:
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Divorce vs. Legal Separation in San Diego: What You Need to Know - ALOHA DIVORCE
If you’re thinking about ending your marriage in San Diego, California, you may be wondering whether to pursue a divorce or a legal separation. Both options are available under California family law, ...
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October 17, 2025 at 6:10 PM
"Who gets the dog?" isn’t just a joke anymore — it’s a real legal question in California divorces. 🐶 Join this upcoming webinar to learn how courts and attorneys are approaching pet custody. It’s free for patron members. #PetCustody #AlohaDivorce #AlohaPrenup

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Who Gets the Dog?
List of upcoming SDCBA and legal community events including section, committee and division meetings, CLE and other events.
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October 14, 2025 at 5:59 PM
A great evening in La Jolla with colleagues at the San Diego Bar Foundation. 💙 Their work expanding access to justice for communities impacted by poverty, abuse, and discrimination is inspiring and so needed. #AccessToJustice #SanDiegoBarFoundation
October 3, 2025 at 6:00 PM
Big news 🌴✨ Aloha Divorce is now in Solana Beach / Del Mar!
📍 445 Marine View Ave, Suite 300, Del Mar, CA 92014
Learn more: www.Aloha-Divorce.com

#DivorceWithDignity #Prenup #DelMar
October 1, 2025 at 11:21 PM
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Grateful for kind words like these. Every step we take is about making the divorce process less stressful, more compassionate, and focused on moving forward with confidence. 💛 #DivorceWithAloha #FamilyLaw #PositiveReviews
August 26, 2025 at 5:37 PM
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Loving how Aloha Divorce sets the tone right from the name! 🌺 Cassandra Michel shares how her unique firm name helps attract the right clients. If you want to build a firm with heart and strategy, listen: tinyurl.com/yyumevhe

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May 20, 2025 at 8:04 PM
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🚨 "I built this to be stress-free, collaborative, and client-focused—growing with more problems isn’t the goal. Growing the bank account is."

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August 1, 2025 at 5:33 PM
💬 “She truly has heart and wants the best for each family.”
Grateful for this kind review! At Aloha Divorce, we lead with empathy and clarity through every step of your family law journey. 🌺

#AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #ClientLove #AmicableDivorce #PrenupSupport
August 1, 2025 at 5:05 PM
Aloha Divorce turns 5 today! 🌺
Grateful for five years of helping clients navigate divorce, prenups, and co-parenting with clarity and compassion. Here's to peaceful transitions and empowered new beginnings.

#AlohaDivorce #5YearsInBusiness #FamilyLawWithHeart #LegalMilestone #AmicableDivorce
July 24, 2025 at 5:20 PM
Truly honored to receive a Certificate of Recognition from Senator Catherine Blakespear and the California State Senate for my work with Aloha Divorce.

Thank you to the North San Diego Business Chamber for naming me a finalist for the Distinguished Leadership Award.
July 10, 2025 at 4:48 PM
Mediation = less stress, lower cost, and more collaboration.
Aloha Divorce supports families through peaceful, child-focused resolutions.
Let’s talk options 🌺
#DivorceMediation #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #PeacefulDivorce
July 8, 2025 at 4:54 PM
Celebrating freedom in all forms today 🇺🇸
Whether it’s a new chapter after divorce or clarity through a prenup, legal independence matters too.
#IndependenceDay #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #LegalEmpowerment #Prenup #DivorceWithDignity
July 3, 2025 at 8:51 PM
“10/10 recommend!” 💬 Big thanks to Joanne for the heartfelt review. At Aloha Divorce™, we lead with clarity, compassion & practical solutions — helping clients navigate family law with less conflict and more aloha. 🌴 #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #PeacefulDivorce #ClientLove
July 2, 2025 at 5:24 PM
Aloha vibes at last night’s Celebration of Business at the Bahia Resort! 🌺

So proud to celebrate local leaders like Sanjiv, founder of BYTES, for his well-earned recognition.

Grateful to be part of a community that uplifts growth, grace & new beginnings. #AlohaDivorce #NorthCountySanDiego
June 27, 2025 at 8:13 PM
We’re excited to share that Cassandra S. Koenig, founder of Aloha Divorce, is a finalist for the San Diego Business Journal's 40 Next Top Business Leaders Under Forty 2025 ! 🌺

🎟 Info: lnkd.in/gWWbeR-h
#AlohaDivorce #EmergingLeader #FamilyLawWithHeart #SanDiegoBusiness #CelebrationOfBusiness
June 13, 2025 at 7:52 PM
How a Postnup Could Help You Avoid Capital Gains Taxes on Real Estate

And What You Might Be Giving Up in Divorce At Aloha Divorce, we often work with clients who are entering a new marriage later in life with valuable real estate already in their name. If this sounds like you—or your spouse—you…
How a Postnup Could Help You Avoid Capital Gains Taxes on Real Estate
And What You Might Be Giving Up in Divorce At Aloha Divorce, we often work with clients who are entering a new marriage later in life with valuable real estate already in their name. If this sounds like you—or your spouse—you may want to consider a specific kind of postnuptial agreement that could reduce or eliminate capital gains taxes…
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June 8, 2025 at 11:13 PM
How a Marriage Legally Ends in California

Understanding the Three Legal Paths to Ending a MarriageFamily Code § 310 At Aloha Divorce, we believe that navigating the end of a marriage should begin with clarity. While many people associate divorce with the end of a relationship, it's important to…
How a Marriage Legally Ends in California
Understanding the Three Legal Paths to Ending a MarriageFamily Code § 310 At Aloha Divorce, we believe that navigating the end of a marriage should begin with clarity. While many people associate divorce with the end of a relationship, it's important to understand that there are actually three distinct legal ways a marriage can end under California Family Code § 310…
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June 7, 2025 at 10:20 PM
What Makes a Marriage Legally Valid in California?

At Aloha Divorce, we believe in clarity before conflict. Whether you're planning your wedding or reviewing past events for legal purposes, it helps to understand what actually makes a marriage legally valid in California. Here’s a breakdown of…
What Makes a Marriage Legally Valid in California?
At Aloha Divorce, we believe in clarity before conflict. Whether you're planning your wedding or reviewing past events for legal purposes, it helps to understand what actually makes a marriage legally valid in California. Here’s a breakdown of what’s required under California law:  Requirements for a Valid Marriage (Fam C §§ 300, 400, 420): Consent – Both parties must freely agree to marry.
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June 6, 2025 at 6:33 PM