P@rciv@l
@ajlybj0.bsky.social
54M Widower trying to make sense of it all. Or, trying to date based on the advice of two adult kids. Or, single stuck in suburbia and social conventions.
#DadBod #Books #Garden #RV #FinInd #Retired #Nature #Kink #Looner #Single #StuckInARut
#DadBod #Books #Garden #RV #FinInd #Retired #Nature #Kink #Looner #Single #StuckInARut
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One of the hardest lessons in life is that even though you can make good life choices, it doesn’t prevent you from the pain of not being able to do more. I lost my father to cancer, my mother while working abroad, and now my best friend in another continent to cancer.
#LifeChoices #FrackCancer
#LifeChoices #FrackCancer
January 2, 2026 at 6:10 PM
One of the hardest lessons in life is that even though you can make good life choices, it doesn’t prevent you from the pain of not being able to do more. I lost my father to cancer, my mother while working abroad, and now my best friend in another continent to cancer.
#LifeChoices #FrackCancer
#LifeChoices #FrackCancer
When you find out your best friend's cancer is no longer in remission, has metastasized, and only has weeks to live.
January 1, 2026 at 11:18 PM
When you find out your best friend's cancer is no longer in remission, has metastasized, and only has weeks to live.
Last of the Morning Glories
December 28, 2025 at 1:59 PM
Last of the Morning Glories
Christmas temptations, begone!
December 25, 2025 at 7:04 PM
Christmas temptations, begone!
My favorite gift under my tree 🎅
December 23, 2025 at 1:10 AM
My favorite gift under my tree 🎅
The problem with my Christmas…. I’ve hung mistletoe but the only female in the house is my daughter. Bummer.
December 21, 2025 at 12:21 AM
The problem with my Christmas…. I’ve hung mistletoe but the only female in the house is my daughter. Bummer.
And that’s another day done ✅ Tomorrow will always be better.
December 12, 2025 at 11:18 PM
And that’s another day done ✅ Tomorrow will always be better.
Show me your lights 🎅
December 12, 2025 at 12:12 AM
Show me your lights 🎅
This is how I feel after being up all night to comfort my son because he got the “let’s just be friends” talk from his (now ex) gurl 😴
December 11, 2025 at 11:21 AM
This is how I feel after being up all night to comfort my son because he got the “let’s just be friends” talk from his (now ex) gurl 😴
Me aged 3… still making a mess of things!
December 9, 2025 at 9:04 PM
Me aged 3… still making a mess of things!
More fun on the cruise!
December 9, 2025 at 8:54 PM
More fun on the cruise!
Enjoyed a little me time on a cruise to Cozumel and Roatan. Cocktails, books, sun and a little flirting.
December 7, 2025 at 11:40 PM
Enjoyed a little me time on a cruise to Cozumel and Roatan. Cocktails, books, sun and a little flirting.
Met some new friends on my way to Lincoln Nebraska! I can now claim RV chops after having a blowout whilst in a two lane construction zone and changing the wheel by myself 😑 State Trooper showed up and helped ensure I didn’t get pancaked by a semi. Shit happens, but it gives us life’s adventures!
August 18, 2025 at 8:38 PM
Met some new friends on my way to Lincoln Nebraska! I can now claim RV chops after having a blowout whilst in a two lane construction zone and changing the wheel by myself 😑 State Trooper showed up and helped ensure I didn’t get pancaked by a semi. Shit happens, but it gives us life’s adventures!
A Blue Jay, some Ducks, and a Squirrel meet at a bar….
August 9, 2025 at 3:02 PM
A Blue Jay, some Ducks, and a Squirrel meet at a bar….
You know you must have done something right when your kids do something you would never do. Skydiving. Son landing, then daughter. I was a bundle of nerves on the ground.
August 8, 2025 at 7:53 PM
You know you must have done something right when your kids do something you would never do. Skydiving. Son landing, then daughter. I was a bundle of nerves on the ground.
Jumpy squirrel laughing at Ginger again, but just the right amount of ear flop!
July 27, 2025 at 2:09 PM
Jumpy squirrel laughing at Ginger again, but just the right amount of ear flop!
Mama duck takes no quack from anyone!
July 27, 2025 at 1:34 PM
Mama duck takes no quack from anyone!
When all you want to do is say hello, but nobody else wants to.
July 27, 2025 at 1:32 PM
When all you want to do is say hello, but nobody else wants to.
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No cheating post your lock screen.
July 25, 2025 at 9:50 PM
No cheating post your lock screen.
The best way to cool off after a 3 mile walk with Ginger. She jumped in with me.
July 23, 2025 at 12:33 PM
The best way to cool off after a 3 mile walk with Ginger. She jumped in with me.
