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Liminality | Freedom, diversity, motivation
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1. A remote assistant to help with admin + writing tasks in Asana (indie research/conferences/travel logistics). Part-time to start, potentially close to full-time.
2. Editor(s) for my website, essays, and academic papers (hourly or project-based).
#postPhD
My default instrument is calibration. I raise a little pressure and watch what happens. That’s affect work.
My default instrument is calibration. I raise a little pressure and watch what happens. That’s affect work.
The older I get, the less I believe in “full vacations.”
The older I get, the less I believe in “full vacations.”
1. Targeted polishing on the #HabitusOfStaycations paper
2. One 90-minute Asana block: bills + Australia/US logistics
3. Gym + pool in my beloved Hilton, after a proper breakfast ahah
1. Targeted polishing on the #HabitusOfStaycations paper
2. One 90-minute Asana block: bills + Australia/US logistics
3. Gym + pool in my beloved Hilton, after a proper breakfast ahah
First block: day 0 — night bus + ferry; some interesting shit is clearly going to happen (do you know Vipassana?). Then days 1–10.
Second block: same structure, another 10 days on Koh Phangan +
First block: day 0 — night bus + ferry; some interesting shit is clearly going to happen (do you know Vipassana?). Then days 1–10.
Second block: same structure, another 10 days on Koh Phangan +
Finished a new chapter, “Phangan Power,” on discipline, emotions, sunrises (and #Eden). A bit for #DigitalDetox, 4 weeks in Nepal of #AI withdrawal. + proposals/slides, Asana, admin.
Can’t wait to start the actual detox/withdrawal 👯♀️💆♂️
Finished a new chapter, “Phangan Power,” on discipline, emotions, sunrises (and #Eden). A bit for #DigitalDetox, 4 weeks in Nepal of #AI withdrawal. + proposals/slides, Asana, admin.
Can’t wait to start the actual detox/withdrawal 👯♀️💆♂️
Surprised 48 Laws of Power isn’t here. #LivingLiminal
Surprised 48 Laws of Power isn’t here. #LivingLiminal
This year, they’re beyond expectations! 999999999, I Hate Models, Boris Brejcha, Charlotte de Witte, Richie Hawtin, Amelie Lens, Indira Paganotto, Adiel, etc.
This year, they’re beyond expectations! 999999999, I Hate Models, Boris Brejcha, Charlotte de Witte, Richie Hawtin, Amelie Lens, Indira Paganotto, Adiel, etc.
1. Awakenings in July, right after Australia.
2. Back to my beloved Ozora, hopefully with a #RaveAsMethod + epistemology talk.
1. Awakenings in July, right after Australia.
2. Back to my beloved Ozora, hopefully with a #RaveAsMethod + epistemology talk.
Hilton basically normalized “continental” breakfasts (translation: you’ll still need to eat somewhere else) +
Hilton basically normalized “continental” breakfasts (translation: you’ll still need to eat somewhere else) +
1. In 2025, I spent 4 nights with Hilton in Lisbon purely to grow these miles.
2. Now I realised I can do the same 4+1 block again in our Bangkok hotel empire, in the area I like.
+
1. In 2025, I spent 4 nights with Hilton in Lisbon purely to grow these miles.
2. Now I realised I can do the same 4+1 block again in our Bangkok hotel empire, in the area I like.
+
Writing about burnout today and suddenly realised I need a mini-holiday — and I’ve got a ridiculous amount of unused Hilton points.
Booked 5 nights in Bangkok (20K/N) to wash out from #HK.
Feels weird.
Writing about burnout today and suddenly realised I need a mini-holiday — and I’ve got a ridiculous amount of unused Hilton points.
Booked 5 nights in Bangkok (20K/N) to wash out from #HK.
Feels weird.
Pick a fairly difficult, self-chosen task, grind through it, and you get a very specific kind of joy on the other side.
PhD, Vipassana, month in the mountains—same script.
Pick a fairly difficult, self-chosen task, grind through it, and you get a very specific kind of joy on the other side.
PhD, Vipassana, month in the mountains—same script.
And Nepal for 1 month for #DigitalDetox.
And Nepal for 1 month for #DigitalDetox.
Alcohol is an emotion-flattener. Here, students are punished for showing emotions. It’s also one of the few drugs fully normalised.
EQ is real—and it cuts both ways. Feeling strange.
Alcohol is an emotion-flattener. Here, students are punished for showing emotions. It’s also one of the few drugs fully normalised.
EQ is real—and it cuts both ways. Feeling strange.
I’m at the point where I know ~60% of the people in my “home” venue and was genuinely happy to see everyone (and disrupt a bit, as always).
Can’t wait to present the next iteration of this new work at #CIES (and #RaveAsMethod at #AERA).
I’m at the point where I know ~60% of the people in my “home” venue and was genuinely happy to see everyone (and disrupt a bit, as always).
Can’t wait to present the next iteration of this new work at #CIES (and #RaveAsMethod at #AERA).
Can’t remember my last HK hike—maybe 2–3 years ago. Work. Brutal shame.
There’s a month of Nepali mountains ahead. And I’m promising myself: after this conference cycle, one overnight camp + proper HK hike. If I’m still alive, ahah.
Can’t remember my last HK hike—maybe 2–3 years ago. Work. Brutal shame.
There’s a month of Nepali mountains ahead. And I’m promising myself: after this conference cycle, one overnight camp + proper HK hike. If I’m still alive, ahah.
The structured pleasure that doesn’t burn you out but quietly produces meaning—the scarcest resource we’ve got—and getting scarcer (hi, Graeber).
The structured pleasure that doesn’t burn you out but quietly produces meaning—the scarcest resource we’ve got—and getting scarcer (hi, Graeber).
I spent 30 minutes choosing paper and printing new business cards on the best stock (Harron, 2000); he spent maybe 20 minutes buying a new phone.
I spent 30 minutes choosing paper and printing new business cards on the best stock (Harron, 2000); he spent maybe 20 minutes buying a new phone.
Self-help pep talk before another day of slides + paper drafting for a new presentation in a few days. #CESHK
Self-help pep talk before another day of slides + paper drafting for a new presentation in a few days. #CESHK
I only use Audible for writing/craft. During my #PhD, I built a huge library on “how writing works” and related stuff.
Beyond the basic think/do split, you get attention leaks and ego games. The people AI seems to damage most are those with shaky emotional regulation + very sensitive egos.
Beyond the basic think/do split, you get attention leaks and ego games. The people AI seems to damage most are those with shaky emotional regulation + very sensitive egos.
– British couple in HK: play golf, eat the same “healthy” soup every day.
– British friend in Thailand: plays golf (it’s almost free), eats the same soup (tom yum goong).
🙃
– British couple in HK: play golf, eat the same “healthy” soup every day.
– British friend in Thailand: plays golf (it’s almost free), eats the same soup (tom yum goong).
🙃
1. It doesn’t seem great for mental health (and health should usually beat “career meaning”).
2. In the attention economy, going offline is basic hygiene, almost survival.