I stopped smoking. I quit drinking unless it is part of a forced intox session. The only things I haven't beaten are my porn and findom addictions. They haven't ruined my life, but I question wether they have enriched them. I'm not talking about healthy fun. I'm talking about real addiction.

I haven't done a live session/cash meet in years. I really miss them.

Not findom, just to share. If you aren't doing strength training, you are missing out potential health benefits. Things like body weight training and isometrics give lots of options to work around budget and time constraints, injuries, and different bodies. A little can go a long way.

The thing I hate the most is my addiction to porn. I'm generally in good shape likewise, but porn addiction has absolutely ruined parts of my life. Always trying to come back from it.

About a decade ago I had been doing this for about 10 years and I read the New Topping and Bottoming books by Easton and Hardy. Not findom, but they opened my eyes so much. I don't agree with everything in them, but even the disagreements helped me shape my own ideas on an important way.

Just finished a ton of books related to my job and I have a ton of energy to get to work. Learning things and thinking about change and growth is energizing.

Where the other OGs at. Keen anyone?

Definitely like the vibe here more than the dumpster fire. It's like seeing real thoughts from real people after reading and AI fever dream novel. Don't know why the difference is so stark....

Beyond sick of Twitter findom. Thought I'd see what was going on here and hope to watch the community grow.