abundleofsticks.bsky.social
@abundleofsticks.bsky.social
This is a diary documenting my deconstruction from Evangelicalism.

I seek a platform to express my thoughts and connect with others who share similar experiences.

My hope is to learn and grow through our conversations and insights.
The pool is my sanctuary, where it's just me and my thoughts. Everything else fades away; it's only my breath and strokes. Swimming has been vital to my process of #deconstruction, drowning the voices of organized religion.
#gay #gayman #lgbtq #hairygay #hairymen #man #pride #gaymen #otter #gaylife
December 17, 2024 at 9:07 AM
Since stepping away from organized religion, I’ve discovered a deeper sense of spirituality than ever before. I’ve embraced the responsibility of caring for my body, choosing to nurture and protect it rather than relying on an external spirit to do so.
#gay #gayguy #lgbtq #gayman #gaymen #pride
December 16, 2024 at 12:18 PM
I'm officially in my #moustache era. I've had a beard for so long that I actually forgot what I look like without it. I was surprised to see how young I am😂
Point is, moisterize.
#gay #lgbtq #pride #loveislove #gayman #gaymen #man #queer #deconstructing #gaypride
December 13, 2024 at 11:13 PM
I was often told that true love is only between a #man and a woman, and that the #LGBTQ+ community was deceiving themselves about love. Today, I celebrate nearly five years of what some may call "uncomprehensible" #love, which has taught me that love can take many beautiful forms.
#gay #gaymen #man
December 9, 2024 at 11:38 AM
A good day to be alive and moving your body. I have learned to appreciate my body more during deconstruction. The idea that this life is possibly ALL I HAVE made me take better care of it.
#gay #lgbtq #pride #loveislove #gayman #gayfit #gaypride #workout #gays #love
December 6, 2024 at 7:00 AM
I received a voice note from a family member saying that, deep down, I know God exists. They suggested my feelings of unworthiness—related to being #gay come from sin, and that I could be #accepted if I repent. Do they understand the #harm their words can cause?
#gay #lgbtq #pride #gayman #love
December 5, 2024 at 10:39 AM
The final catalyst for my departure from faith was witnessing #Trumpism as a #quasi-religion. The belief that the COVID vaccine was #harmful and the equating of bigotry with #Christian values, along with claims that BLM was part of a New World Order, sealed my resolve. I can no longer align with.
December 3, 2024 at 7:12 AM
As a Christian, I often pondered death, but since becoming a non-believer, my focus has shifted to life. It's ironic how religion emphasises death and the AFTERlife, often at the expense of appreciating this one life we have on our shared planet.
#gay #lgbtq #deconstructing #exchristian #love #pride
December 2, 2024 at 9:50 AM
The hardest part of #deconstructing is seeing the worry in my mom’s eyes but I can’t return to #believing in a God who allows #oppression. I wish she could understand that my choice isn’t a #rejection of her #love, but a step toward my truth. I hope we can find common ground where love prevails.
December 1, 2024 at 10:14 AM
When I identified as Christian, I always worried about ending up in hell. This panic drove me to be better and do better. Now that I'm not Christian anymore the fear dissipated. I am better and do better without fear motivating me to do so.
#gay #lgbtq #pride #deconstructing #gayman #loveislove #god
November 30, 2024 at 11:57 PM
Are there any other LGBTQ+ individuals that recently left their religion? It's been 1 year for me since I chose to not be a Christian anymore and I'm still carrying around all this anger.
Just thought I'd reach out and maybe connect with some of ya'll on your own personal journeys.
#gay #lgbtq #love
November 30, 2024 at 7:59 AM