We've talked a whole lot about orgasms and pleasure over the years. A good word to describe the experience of focusing on orgasm to the point where it takes us away from the present is ‘spectatoring’ and it's discussed in this advice column by Heather Corinna: www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-s...
I can't get her to reach orgasm, and I really want her to.
(Anonymous’ question continued) I will try my hardest (as in I will work as long as I can) to help her reach orgasm, but she just can’t seem to. Not once have I managed to make her climax during vaginal or oral sex. The most recent time She came very close, but just as she was about to peak she went back to just a “heightened” level of arousal. I’ve tried everything I could think of to help her. I’ve preformed oral sex on her as well as even used a vibrating device on her clitoris. Nothing seems to work. Could this be because she’s not completely comfortable with me? She thinks because she was
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July 31, 2025 at 5:02 PM
We've talked a whole lot about orgasms and pleasure over the years. A good word to describe the experience of focusing on orgasm to the point where it takes us away from the present is ‘spectatoring’ and it's discussed in this advice column by Heather Corinna: www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-s...
TEXTUAL HEALING — May 30, 2025
Because clarity is for straight people.
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Sex Term of the Day:
Spectatoring —
The art of mentally stepping outside your body during sex to critique yourself like a movie director who can’t stop giving notes.
Because clarity is for straight people.
⸻
Sex Term of the Day:
Spectatoring —
The art of mentally stepping outside your body during sex to critique yourself like a movie director who can’t stop giving notes.
May 31, 2025 at 9:08 PM
TEXTUAL HEALING — May 30, 2025
Because clarity is for straight people.
⸻
Sex Term of the Day:
Spectatoring —
The art of mentally stepping outside your body during sex to critique yourself like a movie director who can’t stop giving notes.
Because clarity is for straight people.
⸻
Sex Term of the Day:
Spectatoring —
The art of mentally stepping outside your body during sex to critique yourself like a movie director who can’t stop giving notes.
It's FCF and I'm feeling like a cow so I'll be spectatoring today
And enjoying all the peen
And enjoying all the peen
August 4, 2023 at 1:45 PM
It's FCF and I'm feeling like a cow so I'll be spectatoring today
And enjoying all the peen
And enjoying all the peen
Holy shit. Little fucker evaded them. Terrible zoom. But he’s still there. He hasn’t moved. He’s trying to outlast the two crows.
One stood sentry and has now left, but I can’t tell if they’re both gone. But that’s it for my spectatoring. My sorbet is melting! #yyj
One stood sentry and has now left, but I can’t tell if they’re both gone. But that’s it for my spectatoring. My sorbet is melting! #yyj
July 2, 2025 at 12:05 AM
Holy shit. Little fucker evaded them. Terrible zoom. But he’s still there. He hasn’t moved. He’s trying to outlast the two crows.
One stood sentry and has now left, but I can’t tell if they’re both gone. But that’s it for my spectatoring. My sorbet is melting! #yyj
One stood sentry and has now left, but I can’t tell if they’re both gone. But that’s it for my spectatoring. My sorbet is melting! #yyj
This week’s Q&A is up – I Can’t Get An Erection When I’m With A Woman
Watch the video here youtu.be/JjDi6GcUJWQ
or check out the post on Medium drsuemilstein.medium.com/36f34358c660...
#menshealth #spectatoring #erections #sex #sexed #HeyDrSue
Watch the video here youtu.be/JjDi6GcUJWQ
or check out the post on Medium drsuemilstein.medium.com/36f34358c660...
#menshealth #spectatoring #erections #sex #sexed #HeyDrSue
I Cant Get An Erection When Im With A Woman
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September 23, 2024 at 12:57 AM
This week’s Q&A is up – I Can’t Get An Erection When I’m With A Woman
Watch the video here youtu.be/JjDi6GcUJWQ
or check out the post on Medium drsuemilstein.medium.com/36f34358c660...
#menshealth #spectatoring #erections #sex #sexed #HeyDrSue
Watch the video here youtu.be/JjDi6GcUJWQ
or check out the post on Medium drsuemilstein.medium.com/36f34358c660...
#menshealth #spectatoring #erections #sex #sexed #HeyDrSue
I see the spectator is spectatoring again
July 20, 2025 at 10:57 AM
I see the spectator is spectatoring again
Ummm - be part of the experience rather than spectatoring on someone else's for crumbs of satisfaction or affirmation preview.mailerlite.io/preview/1359...
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November 1, 2025 at 1:22 PM
Ummm - be part of the experience rather than spectatoring on someone else's for crumbs of satisfaction or affirmation preview.mailerlite.io/preview/1359...
Of course. If women engage in anything more vigorous than lace-making or perhaps badminton spectatoring, and the slow sipping of lukewarm mint tea, our wombs fall out and our tits run away and nearby watercourses turn sour.
February 20, 2025 at 6:17 PM
Of course. If women engage in anything more vigorous than lace-making or perhaps badminton spectatoring, and the slow sipping of lukewarm mint tea, our wombs fall out and our tits run away and nearby watercourses turn sour.
Learn about Spectatoring from Brittany Steffen certified therapist. #relationships
July 9, 2025 at 3:20 AM
Learn about Spectatoring from Brittany Steffen certified therapist. #relationships
Yes, spectatoring! Definitely very common among individuals with body image self-consciousness. I’ll be sure to include that… HYPOTHETICALLY OF COURSE.
October 14, 2024 at 12:18 AM
Yes, spectatoring! Definitely very common among individuals with body image self-consciousness. I’ll be sure to include that… HYPOTHETICALLY OF COURSE.