#FearfulAvoidant attachment often looks like:
• mistrust mixed with longing for intimacy
• push-pull between closeness and distance
• unstable relationship patterns

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#Anxious, #Avoidant, and #FearfulAvoidant styles aren’t flaws.

They’re survival strategies — adaptations when needs weren’t met, shaped by systemic oppression.

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You’re not alone.
Healing means remembering your struggles are rooted in #Patriarchy, #Colonialism, and #WhiteSupremacy.

Together we can unlearn survival strategies and rebuild secure love. 💛

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#AvoidantAttachment often looks like:
• withdrawing in conflict
• avoiding vulnerability
• relying only on yourself

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Insecure attachment isn’t a flaw.

It’s the byproduct of patriarchy, colonialism, and white supremacy.

Here’s how 👇

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#AnxiousAttachment often looks like:
• fear of abandonment
• craving reassurance but never feeling settled
• struggling to ask for needs

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#SecureAttachment looks like:
• safety in sharing needs
• openness to others’ needs
• trust that conflict can be repaired

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#Patriarchy silences needs and emotions.
#Colonialism fractures families and belonging.
#WhiteSupremacy conditions safety on proximity to whiteness.
Insecure attachment grows inside these systems.

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