Thinking of you and praying for you all. 🙏🏽

Yummy!! A good burger is my weakness.🍔🍟🥤

I mean, you deserve an award for that alone! 🏆 You're such a good person. You deserve the best treatment.

Aww, you're so sweet. Hugging you from afar!

That makes me feel even more admirable of you, Mon. Processings unresolved hurt & trauma with someone that's not the best communicator is very difficult. You should be really proud of yourself.

God, that's so admirable. I'm really happy for you guys to be on the road of healing. 🤍

I learned what not to do because my parents had a horrible post divorce relationship. So I've always encouraged my son to love his Sister and be kind to her Mom, and to spend quality time with his Dad. That in itself took years. My son didn't want to be around any of them for years.

Thanks sweet friend. 🤍

That's really awesome that you two can communicate. It's life-changing. Even if it feels rough. It will be so worth it when you've processed everything. 🤍

It would be easier if we didn't have a child together who deserves two happy, healthy parents. My ex got another woman pregnant when we were married. So there's a whole other child involved. Well, she's 16 now. She also deserves mentally healthy adults around her.

Thanks. It's been 20 years since our divorce, too. But I'm already in therapy for other things, and my divorce was just never addressed or processed in a healthy way. The unresolved issues come up in my dreams. 😳

Wow, that's a lot of introspection I bet. I'm in therapy for this exact reason. It's difficult to heal from something traumatic when the other person refuses to communicate. I commend you guys.

Perfect way to describe it!

Ugh! It was 55 here. (Still in Tahoe). ❄️

Me too!

7!

SUCH a relief! You know how it is when our pets are sick, it's terrible. She still has a long way to go, but at least she's not listless today and she's eating and drinking. 🤍