It’s not tenderqueer, white, or abusive bullshit to use therapy/social justice language. All of the above just happen to have access to that language to misuse.

I just don’t think it’s good to say it’s a red flag when I hear someone use the words “boundaries” and “gaslighting,” which I have heard a lot of people say that in recent memory. That language is important to describe a lot of people’s experiences and have very real meaning.

I am very much feeling this and very afraid but trying to stay chill

I actually like scrolling on reddit if you curate it it's pretty nice