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Written by Uju ✍🏽
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My words are brushstrokes for the soul.
I write to create shelter, stir truth, and wake what’s been sleeping inside me. 🌱



Artist | Poet | Mental Health & Disability Advocate | Songwriter | Fitness | Anime & Fantasy Lover
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This chapter is a promise to myself. My faith has been tested, my heart broken, & my body challenged. Yet through healing, strength & grace, I’m ready to embrace what’s next—where faith carries me, healing unfolds & I become who I’m meant to be.

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November 14, 2025 at 6:29 AM
What is the saddest part of being strong?
November 14, 2025 at 1:50 AM
Prioritize and Protect Your Peace- Always 🙏🏽
November 13, 2025 at 11:35 PM
November 13, 2025 at 5:37 PM
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Black women are not built to be everyone’s lesson.
November 13, 2025 at 12:57 PM
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man look.
Black women are not built to be everyone’s lesson.
November 13, 2025 at 2:18 AM
November 13, 2025 at 5:46 AM
Never again.
November 13, 2025 at 4:29 AM
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Respecting it and getting the hell up outta there
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 12, 2025 at 11:57 PM
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Respect it. Ima do what i will with that information. At least i was informed.
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 13, 2025 at 12:38 AM
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I'd wanna know and please have receipts.
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 13, 2025 at 12:47 AM
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I would want to know. Give me all the receipts and everything you got . I’m also getting tf up outta there
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 13, 2025 at 12:59 AM
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I would definitely want to know.
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 13, 2025 at 1:01 AM
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This did happen, she had receipts and everything lol I definitely respected it and thanked her.
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 12, 2025 at 11:32 PM
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I would respect it.
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 12, 2025 at 11:33 PM
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Did you tell me because it was the right thing to do or only because they made you mad so I know where to direct my pain and anger?
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 12, 2025 at 11:33 PM
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Found out w/ my ex fiancée in a similar manner. I respected the tell, minus them trying to follow up to see if I was going to keep him after the offense. That part I didn’t feel was any of her business & almost did go off about that part. But I saved all the smoke for that man.
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 12, 2025 at 11:34 PM
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I’d be conflicted... I’d wanna respect it but I’d also be like bitch you knew we were in a relationship. Confessing afterwards don’t do shit for me fr. It’s giving you tryna soothe your guilty conscience.

So actually no. I decided I wouldn’t respect that shit 😂 I’d still prefer to know tho.
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 12, 2025 at 11:37 PM
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This happened to me. When I saw 702 area code pop up on my phone, I knew. I was fine with it but I also told her ‘this conversation NEVER happened’. It was low key for her safety. She told him she called me anyway..and I will only guess how he reacted.
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 12, 2025 at 11:45 PM
If your partner was cheating and the other person reached out to tell you, would you respect it, or would you rather stay unaware?
November 12, 2025 at 11:30 PM
November 12, 2025 at 8:54 PM
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this!!!
Black women are not built to be everyone’s lesson.
November 12, 2025 at 6:37 PM
Black women are not built to be everyone’s lesson.
November 12, 2025 at 6:34 PM
Reclaim your power.
November 12, 2025 at 4:17 PM
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Who you keep close matters.
The wrong relationship or circle can quietly rewrite your story. It can leave you questioning your worth and doubting your own reflection. But the right people restore you. They remind you of your strength and help you return to yourself with grace.
November 11, 2025 at 11:49 PM