Visible Restraint
@visiblerestraint.bsky.social
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Queer & post-gender. I'm a kink/sex educator, porn creator, and event producer. Let's talk hypnosis.
Near Seattle.
I follow creators whose original content I vibe with.
Also find me @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social
Queer & post-gender. I'm a kink/sex educator, porn creator, and event producer. Let's talk hypnosis.
Near Seattle.
I follow creators whose original content I vibe with.
Also find me @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social
With or without the header, this was gorgeous.
Once, I gave someone with a fairly stubborn gag reflex a brand new fetish for gags.
(Consensually, obviously.)
Let's talk about that!
(Because he definitely couldn't 😉)
(Consensually, obviously.)
Let's talk about that!
(Because he definitely couldn't 😉)
November 14, 2025 at 3:33 AM
With or without the header, this was gorgeous.
More of Shadow and I at Club Z in 2019. The full 30 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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November 13, 2025 at 4:04 PM
More of Shadow and I at Club Z in 2019. The full 30 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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This beautiful thread from my friend who says "Let's call them playshops instead of workshops" because you CAN'T FAIL AT PLAY. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
#Hypnovember 12: Theory, Courage, and Getting Messy
I think it's probably obvious that I'm super into hypno-kink theory. It's fascinating! It's invigorating! It fills up my cup and replenishes my spell slots.
But nothing replaces ~doing the thing~.
Let's talk about that!
I think it's probably obvious that I'm super into hypno-kink theory. It's fascinating! It's invigorating! It fills up my cup and replenishes my spell slots.
But nothing replaces ~doing the thing~.
Let's talk about that!
November 13, 2025 at 1:26 PM
This beautiful thread from my friend who says "Let's call them playshops instead of workshops" because you CAN'T FAIL AT PLAY. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I have a HUGE fondness for buttholes. Lemme just say that FIRST.
And I love photography.
I love photos of beautiful asses.
Weirdly? I’m not crazy about photos that are just about the hole.
I don’t get it, either.
I get it. I’m cancelled, right?
😭
And I love photography.
I love photos of beautiful asses.
Weirdly? I’m not crazy about photos that are just about the hole.
I don’t get it, either.
I get it. I’m cancelled, right?
😭
November 13, 2025 at 1:22 AM
I have a HUGE fondness for buttholes. Lemme just say that FIRST.
And I love photography.
I love photos of beautiful asses.
Weirdly? I’m not crazy about photos that are just about the hole.
I don’t get it, either.
I get it. I’m cancelled, right?
😭
And I love photography.
I love photos of beautiful asses.
Weirdly? I’m not crazy about photos that are just about the hole.
I don’t get it, either.
I get it. I’m cancelled, right?
😭
Shadow and I doing some wildly kinky shit at Club Z in 2018. HUGE cumshot. The full 21 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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November 12, 2025 at 4:08 PM
Shadow and I doing some wildly kinky shit at Club Z in 2018. HUGE cumshot. The full 21 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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#Hypnovember 11: ✨The Penumbra✨
You know that feeling? The one where you're coming out of trance, but still feeling trancey? That lovely, floaty, quiet, foggy feeling?
I like to call it the Penumbra, because I'm a fucking dork, and it's one of my favorite hypnotic phenomena.
Let's talk about it.
You know that feeling? The one where you're coming out of trance, but still feeling trancey? That lovely, floaty, quiet, foggy feeling?
I like to call it the Penumbra, because I'm a fucking dork, and it's one of my favorite hypnotic phenomena.
Let's talk about it.
November 12, 2025 at 7:00 AM
❤️
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social & I doing hypnosis. I'm told this is the best hypnosis video I've done. It goes blurry halfway through but that makes it BETTER. Full video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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November 11, 2025 at 4:04 PM
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social & I doing hypnosis. I'm told this is the best hypnosis video I've done. It goes blurry halfway through but that makes it BETTER. Full video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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#hypnovember 9: Triggers, States, Juice, and You
Triggers are a lot of fun. For many folks, they're a key element of the hypno ✨aesthetic ✨, just like spirals. I love 'em, you probably love 'em, but sometimes folks struggle with 'em.
Let's talk about it.
Triggers are a lot of fun. For many folks, they're a key element of the hypno ✨aesthetic ✨, just like spirals. I love 'em, you probably love 'em, but sometimes folks struggle with 'em.
Let's talk about it.
November 9, 2025 at 4:36 PM
#hypnovember 9: Triggers, States, Juice, and You
Triggers are a lot of fun. For many folks, they're a key element of the hypno ✨aesthetic ✨, just like spirals. I love 'em, you probably love 'em, but sometimes folks struggle with 'em.
Let's talk about it.
Triggers are a lot of fun. For many folks, they're a key element of the hypno ✨aesthetic ✨, just like spirals. I love 'em, you probably love 'em, but sometimes folks struggle with 'em.
Let's talk about it.
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#Hypnovember 11: The FAFO Ethos
When it comes to my guiding principle for hypno-kink, I really like Fuck Around and Find Out--but when I say it, I simultaneously mean it enthusiastically and solemnly.
Let's talk about that.
When it comes to my guiding principle for hypno-kink, I really like Fuck Around and Find Out--but when I say it, I simultaneously mean it enthusiastically and solemnly.
Let's talk about that.
November 10, 2025 at 10:38 PM
#Hypnovember 11: The FAFO Ethos
When it comes to my guiding principle for hypno-kink, I really like Fuck Around and Find Out--but when I say it, I simultaneously mean it enthusiastically and solemnly.
Let's talk about that.
When it comes to my guiding principle for hypno-kink, I really like Fuck Around and Find Out--but when I say it, I simultaneously mean it enthusiastically and solemnly.
Let's talk about that.
Hypnosis Skill Drills
Monday, November 10, 2025 | 7 PM to 9 PM - TONIGHT
Gallery Erato (Seattle)
Free Event
Erotic Hypnosis skills practice event!
Monday, November 10, 2025 | 7 PM to 9 PM - TONIGHT
Gallery Erato (Seattle)
Free Event
Erotic Hypnosis skills practice event!
November 10, 2025 at 5:13 PM
Hypnosis Skill Drills
Monday, November 10, 2025 | 7 PM to 9 PM - TONIGHT
Gallery Erato (Seattle)
Free Event
Erotic Hypnosis skills practice event!
Monday, November 10, 2025 | 7 PM to 9 PM - TONIGHT
Gallery Erato (Seattle)
Free Event
Erotic Hypnosis skills practice event!
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social and I playing at Club Z 2019. The full 4 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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November 10, 2025 at 4:04 PM
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social and I playing at Club Z 2019. The full 4 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social, my then-partner Shadow, and I playing together in 2019. The full 9 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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November 9, 2025 at 4:01 PM
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social, my then-partner Shadow, and I playing together in 2019. The full 9 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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This exercise is SO GOOD. Do it with your friends. Do it with play partners!
#hypnovember 7: Words With Friends (With Benefits)
I've got a weird little game/exercise/experience I like to run kink partners through to help them explore their internal processes.
Let's talk about it!
I've got a weird little game/exercise/experience I like to run kink partners through to help them explore their internal processes.
Let's talk about it!
November 8, 2025 at 5:38 PM
This exercise is SO GOOD. Do it with your friends. Do it with play partners!
Ugh. This is so important to remember for both hypnotists and subjects. And he's right! Most of us can get better with practice.
#hypnovember 7: On Myself as a Subject + Sensory Modalities
I've been writing a lot about my experiences as a tist and what I love about learning theory and technique, but I also want to give credit to what that same learning has done for me as a subject.
So let's talk about it!
I've been writing a lot about my experiences as a tist and what I love about learning theory and technique, but I also want to give credit to what that same learning has done for me as a subject.
So let's talk about it!
November 8, 2025 at 5:37 PM
Ugh. This is so important to remember for both hypnotists and subjects. And he's right! Most of us can get better with practice.
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#hypnovember Discourse 6: Pace and Lead
So, I went through a long, weird hypno funk. I didn't okay, I didn't read, and when I tried to come back, I fumbled at things that used to be second nature.
Let's talk about how I got my groove back!
So, I went through a long, weird hypno funk. I didn't okay, I didn't read, and when I tried to come back, I fumbled at things that used to be second nature.
Let's talk about how I got my groove back!
November 7, 2025 at 4:40 AM
#hypnovember Discourse 6: Pace and Lead
So, I went through a long, weird hypno funk. I didn't okay, I didn't read, and when I tried to come back, I fumbled at things that used to be second nature.
Let's talk about how I got my groove back!
So, I went through a long, weird hypno funk. I didn't okay, I didn't read, and when I tried to come back, I fumbled at things that used to be second nature.
Let's talk about how I got my groove back!
This. Always this. Always.
(And like all hypno, the best part is that even if the partner knows what you're doing, that doesn't stop it from working. It's a special magic trick that works BETTER when you know how's it done.)
November 8, 2025 at 5:32 PM
This. Always this. Always.
Ericksonian ambiguity is a pretty important skill to learn. Read this. And then practice it with your friends.
#hypnovember discourse #5: Sensory Imagery and Lawyer Talk
A lot of new tists I know tend to get really deep into sense imagery--and that's a super useful thing to know! But I think it can sometimes set you up for dissonance with your partner.
Let's talk about that.
A lot of new tists I know tend to get really deep into sense imagery--and that's a super useful thing to know! But I think it can sometimes set you up for dissonance with your partner.
Let's talk about that.
November 8, 2025 at 5:29 PM
Ericksonian ambiguity is a pretty important skill to learn. Read this. And then practice it with your friends.
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social and I just having sex in 2022. I love this video. The full 37 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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November 8, 2025 at 4:02 PM
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social and I just having sex in 2022. I love this video. The full 37 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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Yes.
November 8, 2025 at 2:20 AM
Yes.
Hypnosis Skill Drills
Monday, November 10, 2025 | 7 PM
Gallery Erato
Free event
Erotic hypnosis practice session for hypnotists and subjects
Monday, November 10, 2025 | 7 PM
Gallery Erato
Free event
Erotic hypnosis practice session for hypnotists and subjects
November 7, 2025 at 9:54 PM
Hypnosis Skill Drills
Monday, November 10, 2025 | 7 PM
Gallery Erato
Free event
Erotic hypnosis practice session for hypnotists and subjects
Monday, November 10, 2025 | 7 PM
Gallery Erato
Free event
Erotic hypnosis practice session for hypnotists and subjects
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social under the influence of very heavy hypnotic triggers + edging. My beautiful tiger is LOUD in this video. The full 4.5 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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November 7, 2025 at 4:05 PM
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social under the influence of very heavy hypnotic triggers + edging. My beautiful tiger is LOUD in this video. The full 4.5 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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I mean... Sure. The lighting.
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November 5, 2025 at 9:02 PM
I mean... Sure. The lighting.
🔥
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Jesus. That's beautiful.
Starting to heal Sir. Thank you 🖤🖤🖤
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November 5, 2025 at 6:20 PM
Jesus. That's beautiful.
My boy Rev Rope suspended (and this was a huge cumshot) from 2022. A 1.5 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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November 5, 2025 at 4:05 PM
My boy Rev Rope suspended (and this was a huge cumshot) from 2022. A 1.5 minute video: visiblerestraint.com/index.php/ho...
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#hypnovember
Subjects should do the right thing and respond to @emdashery.bsky.social's invitation to engage at the end of his thread because I'm curious to read your answers too.
Get to work!
Subjects should do the right thing and respond to @emdashery.bsky.social's invitation to engage at the end of his thread because I'm curious to read your answers too.
Get to work!
#hypnovember discourse 4: Skills Are Separable
I like to think of subject skills as a total RPG skill tree, except everyone's tree looks different. I'd call it a hypno sphere grid, but it's also less straightforward than that (and it would make @thestatus.bsky.social happy, which isn't allowed)
I like to think of subject skills as a total RPG skill tree, except everyone's tree looks different. I'd call it a hypno sphere grid, but it's also less straightforward than that (and it would make @thestatus.bsky.social happy, which isn't allowed)
November 4, 2025 at 11:22 PM
#hypnovember
Subjects should do the right thing and respond to @emdashery.bsky.social's invitation to engage at the end of his thread because I'm curious to read your answers too.
Get to work!
Subjects should do the right thing and respond to @emdashery.bsky.social's invitation to engage at the end of his thread because I'm curious to read your answers too.
Get to work!