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Veronica.at.last
@veronicaatlast.bsky.social
Trans/Wife/Mom
My identity isn’t a flaw, it’s a feature
Pronouns: she/her

https://open.substack.com/pub/veronicas2ndact
One year ago today, my legal name change went through and I legally became Veronica! It was one of the happiest moments of my life!
April 26, 2025 at 7:26 PM
The nonprofit I recently joined just set up our first equality connect pantry! I’m thrilled to be part of an organization that is providing 100% complimentary products for those in need in our community.
#thepridefulpathproject
March 25, 2025 at 4:26 AM
Here’s a pic from my vacation today. Two things this administration thinks don’t exist. They are me, a trans woman, and the Gulf of Mexico. I’m pretty sure both of these are real.
March 10, 2025 at 3:54 AM
People like to say there aren’t trans kids. I was a trans kid. I wasn’t out. I was rarely happy. Seeing the social proof of how I am today and how often I am joyful because I’m experiencing the world with so much joy is incredible.
March 9, 2025 at 6:20 PM
I mean, I think this auto response is a thing of beauty
March 5, 2025 at 2:21 AM
NIH letters went out Friday abruptly cutting off funding to current grant recipients of transgender health. This will take generations to recover from. It’s na*i level shit that accompanies genocide. What is happening to trans people is genocide.
March 3, 2025 at 1:23 PM
New set!
February 23, 2025 at 9:06 PM
I’m pleased to share that I’ve joined the board of The Prideful Path Project as their Vice President. Founded in 2023 by a genderfluid, autistic parent of neurodiverse, trans, and non-binary children, The Prideful Path Project is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to empowering marginalized… 1/2
February 22, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Top picture: 2006, In a limo with my wife on our way to complete in the World Championship of Fantasy Football in Las Vegas. This was a bucket list item for my wife, as she had never been in a limo before.
Bottom picture: Getting a selfie with a colleague and friend at work earlier this month.
February 21, 2025 at 12:53 AM
I’m so livid. Now hidden posts on their page. Someone who doesn’t comment on their kids gender identity, is trans, is a parent, and transitioned publicly while being the President of a non-profit Children’s Theatre isn’t eligible to join their parents of trans kids group. That’s so fucked up.
February 19, 2025 at 11:41 PM
I’m so frustrated right now.
This is a picture from the protest I attended Saturday to protest Lurie Children’s eliminating trans health care. The organizers have a Facebook group for parents of trans people…that they gatekeep trans people from joining.
NOTHING ABOUT US WITHOUT US!!!
February 19, 2025 at 11:36 PM
My latest post on Substack isn’t for the faint of heart. Some of my readers have quoted me, and seeing my words back like this is rather chilling.
February 19, 2025 at 1:40 AM
We were at Laurie Children’s Hospital today with at least 500 new friends protesting their decision to discontinue providing gender affirming care. In the last two weeks at least 17 trans teens have taken their lives in Illinois. There is no reason to comply in advance.
#transrightsarehumanrights
February 15, 2025 at 9:05 PM
Me doing the boss bitch thing earlier this week at work, talking about transition and being a unicorn.
February 15, 2025 at 2:56 AM
This bathroom selfie is brought to you by a trans bitch that isn’t going anywhere
February 13, 2025 at 2:21 AM
I get to head into our downtown Chicago office today. I’m on a panel for the Latinx group at work, which should be fun. But I’m having a moment because so much of me can’t believe that I actually made it here, where I was always supposed to be. Like how tf did I make it here…
February 11, 2025 at 2:09 PM
Trans woman posting a bathroom selfie. Pass it on!
February 11, 2025 at 12:54 AM
I’m pretty sure my legs are hot af
February 7, 2025 at 4:39 AM
There is nothing like the recharge you get from a night out with a good friend.

@crvndlsmultipass.bsky.social
February 7, 2025 at 4:24 AM
Trans people are on our own to find surgeons to perform gender affirming care. This subreddit was the best word of mouth resource for trans people, with a decade’s worth of discussion about hospitals and surgeons.
Removing access to information about lifesaving medical care is genocide.
February 5, 2025 at 1:15 PM
Read more about this on my Substack site. Link here or in my bio: open.substack.com/pub/veronica...
February 4, 2025 at 1:32 PM
I’m spending more time with people right now so I have people to lean on. Tonight I was with my friend Randi. Multi-course meal, lots of wine, and the joy of a friendship that’s become much deeper and authentic even though we first met in 2012. There’s nothing better than people who see you.
January 31, 2025 at 4:57 AM
I still get those moments. How the hell was I able to get through all of the garbage to finally be here as myself.
Being myself and finding joy, doing something as simple as getting gas when it’s 35° out (1°C), is an act of defiance.
No Executive Order will take my joy away from being me!
January 28, 2025 at 1:07 AM
What do you do when you realize there’s an alert that you are part of a group at risk for genocide?
You have some self care with the best nail person out there to fill you up for what is ahead.
This is absolutely a “put your oxygen mask on before you assist others around you” moment.
January 26, 2025 at 9:13 PM
1/x So, you know how things look really dark for LGBTQIA+ people right now? Read those highlighted definitions in the new executive order. They are defining “immutable” sex at conception. Did you know that sex characteristics do not begin to show until week 6 for a human fetus?…
January 22, 2025 at 1:22 PM