Vae
@vae.bsky.social
Coder by trade, player of games and woodwind, knitter of things, reader and writer of fanfic, hopeless optimist. Bi, ace. Invisible disabilities. Old enough to know better. Will block/mute for gen AI.
My pronouns are she/they
I don't auto follow back
My pronouns are she/they
I don't auto follow back
sadly there doesn't seem to be any alt text for the image
November 12, 2025 at 10:16 PM
sadly there doesn't seem to be any alt text for the image
you know I'm there again as soon as you relaunch!
November 12, 2025 at 8:59 PM
you know I'm there again as soon as you relaunch!
or: creating something with someone else, whether that's a story, a meal, music, art - something that can be shared and something that's a physical evidence of connection
November 12, 2025 at 7:52 PM
or: creating something with someone else, whether that's a story, a meal, music, art - something that can be shared and something that's a physical evidence of connection
or: poetry
or: an audiobook to break the hamster wheel of anxiety that my brain is on (Pratchett is good)
or: sensation - hands around a warm mug, a heated wheat bag or hot water bottle, ice packs against wrists or backs of knees in warmer weather
or: an audiobook to break the hamster wheel of anxiety that my brain is on (Pratchett is good)
or: sensation - hands around a warm mug, a heated wheat bag or hot water bottle, ice packs against wrists or backs of knees in warmer weather
November 12, 2025 at 7:50 PM
or: poetry
or: an audiobook to break the hamster wheel of anxiety that my brain is on (Pratchett is good)
or: sensation - hands around a warm mug, a heated wheat bag or hot water bottle, ice packs against wrists or backs of knees in warmer weather
or: an audiobook to break the hamster wheel of anxiety that my brain is on (Pratchett is good)
or: sensation - hands around a warm mug, a heated wheat bag or hot water bottle, ice packs against wrists or backs of knees in warmer weather
finishing something, cleaning (I *know* it's a cliche, but the physical act of improving a thing makes me feel like I've achieved something and closed a circuit), rearranging furniture or moving things from one room to another to refresh my space.
or calling a friend and just talking about nothing
or calling a friend and just talking about nothing
November 12, 2025 at 7:48 PM
finishing something, cleaning (I *know* it's a cliche, but the physical act of improving a thing makes me feel like I've achieved something and closed a circuit), rearranging furniture or moving things from one room to another to refresh my space.
or calling a friend and just talking about nothing
or calling a friend and just talking about nothing
yes we are but I'm in the bit of the country you're not coming to! Thrilled to see you're playing The Grove, that's my old stomping ground from way back when.
November 12, 2025 at 7:44 PM
yes we are but I'm in the bit of the country you're not coming to! Thrilled to see you're playing The Grove, that's my old stomping ground from way back when.
she's got a tiger one too, and my youngest niece adores tigers
November 12, 2025 at 11:36 AM
she's got a tiger one too, and my youngest niece adores tigers
may your gods go with you as you venture forth
November 11, 2025 at 7:48 PM
may your gods go with you as you venture forth
donated my refund amount to The Samaritans, who do work directly with rail crews to support their mental health. Still thinking of everyone directly affected by that line incident.
November 11, 2025 at 9:23 AM
donated my refund amount to The Samaritans, who do work directly with rail crews to support their mental health. Still thinking of everyone directly affected by that line incident.
it's amazing and the colours look great with your eyes!
November 10, 2025 at 9:25 PM
it's amazing and the colours look great with your eyes!
for similar (not identical) I'd probably look first to OiShiny on Etsy, because they make amazing things and this labradorite looks like it has the same sheen: www.etsy.com/uk/listing/4...
November 10, 2025 at 9:04 PM
for similar (not identical) I'd probably look first to OiShiny on Etsy, because they make amazing things and this labradorite looks like it has the same sheen: www.etsy.com/uk/listing/4...
I guessed Janie Crow from the photo! such a skilled designer
November 10, 2025 at 9:00 PM
I guessed Janie Crow from the photo! such a skilled designer
already pre-ordered, it's going to brighten up the dark months next year!
November 10, 2025 at 8:58 PM
already pre-ordered, it's going to brighten up the dark months next year!
I have been so lost trying to get to both theatres there. I haven't been to The Pit since 1993 and I don't think I could find it again if it still exists
November 10, 2025 at 6:04 PM
I have been so lost trying to get to both theatres there. I haven't been to The Pit since 1993 and I don't think I could find it again if it still exists
psst your 50% off dice aren't showing 50% off when you go to actually buy them! The 40% off ones are working, but the 50% off ones have updated URLs but not updated prices
November 10, 2025 at 5:24 PM
psst your 50% off dice aren't showing 50% off when you go to actually buy them! The 40% off ones are working, but the 50% off ones have updated URLs but not updated prices
I've found the Railway Benefit Fund but they seem more focused on financial support (which, good on them, is much needed) but the only people I can find who provide mental health support are the Samaritans?
November 10, 2025 at 2:56 PM
I've found the Railway Benefit Fund but they seem more focused on financial support (which, good on them, is much needed) but the only people I can find who provide mental health support are the Samaritans?
I think you've earned it. All the hugs headed your way from across the pond.
November 10, 2025 at 2:42 PM
I think you've earned it. All the hugs headed your way from across the pond.
thanks so much! the yarn is beautiful
November 10, 2025 at 11:56 AM
thanks so much! the yarn is beautiful