unf0rce
unf0rce.bsky.social
unf0rce
@unf0rce.bsky.social
Husband, Cat-Dad, Sysadm, SecOps, OpSec
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it will never stop being funny that we invented a kind of computer that's bad at math, the entire thing computers exist to do
Oh! Well then
August 5, 2024 at 12:36 AM
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when people tell me they “hate cats,” all i hear is that they don’t know how to respect clear boundaries, and dislike when those boundaries are enforced.
There's also something to be said about hating cats (and thus cat ladies) is a sublimated form of misogyny. The negative traits cat-haters ascribe to cats line up creepily well with misogynistic views on women (haughty, unknowable, disloyal, looking to be pampered only, crafty, etc.).
July 26, 2024 at 7:11 AM
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Everybody please understand:

Gaslighting is not a disagreement between two interpretations of events.

Gaslighting is not when someone tells you that you are wrong.

Please use a different word.

Victims of abuse get everything taken from them, even the very words to describe what happened.
Everybody, please understand:

Gaslighting is not about "right" and "wrong"!

Gaslighting is not about "true" or "false"!

Gaslighting is not an argument!

Gaslighting can be done without words!

Gaslighting is a very specific method of abuse to destroy an isolated victim's ability to function alone
The word "Gaslighting" is not a synonym of the word "Lying".

"Gaslighting" is an interpersonal abuse technique used to force a victim to only trust and rely upon their abuser to determine what is *reality* and to force the victim to distrust their own physical senses and memories.
July 22, 2024 at 5:15 AM
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July 8, 2024 at 12:59 PM
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one of the biggest infosec dangers is "dictionary attacks" which is when some joker beans you with a volume of Merriam-Webster
June 12, 2024 at 2:32 PM
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how does "enable dark mode" make it to the top of every software dev priority list?
April 25, 2024 at 10:19 PM
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My entire career has been education and training and I’m so sad to see young people treated with brutality for peaceful protest. Not shocked, but sad

What comes next will be a result of that and I don’t want to hear anyone ask “why are the kids so angry”
April 26, 2024 at 8:10 AM
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April 25, 2024 at 6:02 PM