my grocery store job promotion is hopefully gonna put me in the right spot

like girl, ive been on hormones almost five years, im not scared to assert who I am I'm just lazy and dont want to explain to older coworkers over and over, whats with this judgement here

the other day a new hire trans femme coworker asked my pronouns and I told her what I tell everyone at work "she/her but please dont correct anyone" and she was like "been there 😉" and idk what it was about her tone but it felt so condescending and patronizing!

genuinely though!! I have met so many cool people and I have such a better hold on my anxiety! no one does it like seattle when it comes to queer jiu jitsu

either trans people gravitate towards me or cis people arent real, maybe both 🤷‍♀️