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TJ
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Meat Gundam driven by 500 rats
probably watching anime rn
🧡🤍🩷 Im 33
Stranger things s5 so far is really good. Starts off with a BANG. BUT ITS SO GOOD.
November 27, 2025 at 6:37 AM
Prediction now for stranger things (not spoilers, just guesses). I could be wrong and I should have said it earlier:

It's an elder brain.

Henry is possessed by it and it's turning him into a mind flayer And to free henry they can stop vecna.
November 27, 2025 at 6:09 AM
Happy birthday to me!

My brain got me a migraine 😮‍💨
November 24, 2025 at 1:49 PM
What I initially wanted to do was complain about my alternator dying on my way home. Stranding me on the highway.

But what I am going to say, is I have the best friends in the world and I'm so lucky to have them.

They show up for me every single time without fail with love & kindness
November 21, 2025 at 9:52 PM
purpose is found in the small actionable steps you take daily in order to reach a goal.
November 6, 2025 at 9:18 PM
Do not get into the habit of overworking, ruminating, and pushing yourself 24/7.

You need to take breaks, rest is not earned, it is a part of the creative cycle.

If you do not learn to take breaks and rest, you won't be able to enjoy the peace and freedom you're trying to manifest.
November 6, 2025 at 9:17 PM
Let others be intimidated by you.
November 6, 2025 at 9:17 PM
If you have extra right now:
Donate meals in a bag to your local pantry

Donate gift cards to your local grocery store to your local pantry

Donate shelf stable milks to your local pantry.

Join the lasagnalove.org to make a lasagna for someone (or request one if you're in need).

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October 28, 2025 at 5:11 PM
Maybe you only think you're behind because past generations you've been around skipped the step of healing their trauma/inner child, or put it off.

I think a lot of people ignore healing due to overwhelm, or didn't have the tools to heal in the past

You're ahead of the game if you are doing it.
October 27, 2025 at 2:21 PM
New hair just dropped 🥰 and I'm loving the spooky smoky fire vibes
October 15, 2025 at 9:49 PM
Reposted by TJ
The "performance paradox: worrying about your competence actually reduces competence by draining your mental resources and spiking stress hormones." Brains are so fun! Well, good to know. Compliments literally exit my brain immediately, unless I record them for later.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=n6Jo...
Why Your Brain Attributes Success to Luck (And How to Fix It)
YouTube video by Dr. Tracey Marks
www.youtube.com
October 15, 2025 at 2:07 PM
My roommate made me an egg sandwich this morning on some herb ciabatta and it's SO good.

She consistently shows me how good a roommate she is. I gotta step up my game
October 15, 2025 at 1:09 PM
Everything you want is in front of you.
You're just new at changing this mindset & will learn through trial & error how not to look behind you seeking a familiar past comfort.

Remember, you only feel discomfort when your life is ready to move forward. Don't question your ability to save yourself
October 15, 2025 at 12:44 PM
Inconvenience is the price for the community, & I'm happy to pay it.

Am I hurting today? Yes.
But my neighbor Invited me over, asked for help, & said he was making us chili to thank us.

So OF COURSE I'm going. He's a cool guy I'm happy to build our lil neighborhood community, even if I'm sore
a woman says she 's our neighbor gabe and we help
ALT: a woman says she 's our neighbor gabe and we help
media.tenor.com
October 14, 2025 at 9:16 PM
When you are used to running for your life, a normal stroll might feel boring.

Same goes for your nervous system.

When you're used to chaos and wired for struggle, normal progress can feel slow & boring, like you aren't doing enough.

I see you trying & You are doing enough.
October 13, 2025 at 1:37 PM
ADHD friends, what's your latest Hyperfixation? I'd love to hear what's got a hold on your brain
♥️🧠

Mine currently is listening to people speak about their near death experiences 😅
October 9, 2025 at 2:01 PM
Don't get confused between those on stage WITH you and those who just bought a ticket to the show
September 25, 2025 at 6:29 PM
Do not explain your soul to pihranas
September 22, 2025 at 3:15 PM
You do not always need to understand WHY to find peace in the HOW.
September 22, 2025 at 3:14 PM
Interrupt the bad pattern however you can. Even if it's small. If you notice it, clap, bark, something small to re-boot your system that you wouldn't have done before.

Break the chain and take that opportunity to re-set.and change the path.
September 22, 2025 at 3:10 PM
It's ok to hope for happiness, not merely scraping by or satisfaction. you deserve more and I dream of SO much more for you
September 22, 2025 at 3:08 PM
Do not pour your energy into an abyss
September 22, 2025 at 3:07 PM
What's the most important skill you think that's helped you thus far in life?

For me I think it's the ability to take criticism and use it for positive change without taking this personally.

What about you? I'm curious. What skill that you have now would you give past you sooner if you could?
September 22, 2025 at 2:18 PM
Seeing others name their gifts, celebrate them & have energy to share them.

I'm happy so many can.
Maybe one day I can too.
a shooting star flies through a dark blue sky
ALT: a shooting star flies through a dark blue sky
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September 18, 2025 at 4:10 PM
You know
You know where you are with
You know where you are with
Floor collapsing floating
Bouncing back and
One day I am gonna grow wings
A chemical reaction
Hysterical and useless
Hysterical and...

If you havent heard this cover PLEASE listen to it! 🥹🥰

music.youtube.com/watch?v=U6RL...
Let Down
YouTube video by Mack Lorén - Topic
music.youtube.com
September 18, 2025 at 4:09 PM