Yes!!! 🙌 theres a psych social media influencer who phrased it perfectly “bpd is the result of being in survival mode with caregivers who chronically invalidate/neglect their lived experience”

I visit my moms and all my siblings have families, every year I come and am single I’m the black sheep and it’s so painful every time to be alone but I’m thinking this year maybe it’s a wake up call to heal my trauma and find someone. 🤷🏾‍♀️