From the Editor’s Desk: Good Decisions, Less Good Decisions ⭐
I still don’t understand how she did it, but in the two weeks of time we had between our trip to Berlin in early September and our trip to Mexico City (and, from there, onto Hawaii) in mid-September, my wife Stephanie somehow orchestrated the purchase of the condo we’ve been living in, in Pennsylvania, for almost two years now.
“Herding cats” doesn’t even begin to describe the effort, which involved corralling my three sisters (two in PA, one in Arizona, all three of whom have power of attorney over their mother, the now-previous owner) and representatives of local mortgage and title companies, plus an in-person signing that (thankfully) only one of my sisters had to attend. And if this wasn’t essentially an in-family sale, it could never have happened when it did, as the check that paid my sister’s mother wasn’t even ready until after we had signed all the papers.
This sale came about, oddly enough, this past spring when it occurred to me that, barring any unforeseen events, we would spend more time in Mexico in 2025 than we would in the United States. Commenting on this to Steph in my own joking way, I noted that since we were crossing that milestone, we should obviously buy a place in Pennsylvania, instead of renting as we’d done for the previous couple of years. It was meant to be funny, in that it didn’t make sense logically. But she surprised me by saying that she was thinking the same thing. And here we are.
Our places in Mexico City and PA share several commonalities, the most obvious being that both represent considerable downsizes from our last house. (Indeed, both places added together are smaller than that house.) But to me, the nicest commonality is that we have neighbors in both places that we explicitly rely on. This is important because we are gone from either place for months at a time. We have security systems in both places, and we only use the one in PA when we’re not there. But it’s really our neighbors who make what we do possible.
In PA, our next-door neighbor collects our mail and whatever packages as needed. We obviously stop mail delivery when we can, but the time frame on that has gone down. And some packages are outside our control as we get certain things on whatever schedules, and it’s not always obvious. But our neighbor is there, monitoring the neighborhood, as she does, and God love her. And when a UPS or FedEx truck or whatever shows up, she’s on it.
Last year, I wrote about the bizarrely agonizing day that UPS delivered the iPhone 16 Pro Max in iPhone Day (Premium): We were planning to drive up to Rochester to visit our son, the phone was supposed to arrive in the afternoon, and, well, things went south. The schedules for UPS and other deliveries are very much based on whatever routes you happen to be on, and for things like new iPhones, there’s nothing you can do about it. When we were in the house in PA, our deliveries always came early in the day, which was ...
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