Thomas Wilcox Family Man
thomaswilcox.bsky.social
Thomas Wilcox Family Man
@thomaswilcox.bsky.social
I help married men love their families well and live with intentionality.
Family Man Homepage: https://thomaswilcoxfamilyman.com/home
When your kid gives their best—celebrate that. ❤️
It’s not about grades or goals.
It’s about letting them know effort is enough.

#FamilyMan #DadLife
November 12, 2025 at 10:17 AM
Just hanging out with the boys!!

#DadLife
November 12, 2025 at 4:00 AM
Sometimes, real love sounds like this: “👍.”
Sometimes peace in marriage is just one emoji away. ❤️
👇 Drop your go-to reply below.
November 12, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Slowing down didn’t cost me success—it gave me my family back. ❤️
👇 Comment “bundle” and I’ll send the Dad Mode Activated Jumpstart Bundle to help you build peace and purpose at home.

#FamilyMan #WorkFromHomeDad #FaithDrivenDad #IntentionalFatherhood
November 11, 2025 at 9:55 AM
“𝟓 𝐃𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐟𝐬 𝐘𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐞𝐥𝐥”

1️⃣ 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐩𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧.
2️⃣ 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐜𝐤𝐥𝐲.
3️⃣ 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐧.
4️⃣ 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐤𝐞.
November 11, 2025 at 6:00 AM
5️⃣ 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐩𝐞.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐫𝐡𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐤.
November 11, 2025 at 6:00 AM
She got her first real taste of responsibility today—receiving a delivery while we were "gone". 📦
I was proud before I even asked if she’d done it… because I knew she had.
Watching her handle it reminded me: responsibility isn’t taught by lecture—it’s caught by opportunity. ❤️
November 11, 2025 at 4:02 AM
He handed me the mission.
I accepted—no hesitation. 💪
Because sometimes leadership looks like pushing a swing, not pulling rank. 🛝❤️
Dads, what’s the latest “mission” your kids gave you? 👇
November 11, 2025 at 1:02 AM
“𝟑 𝐌𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐓𝐨 𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐲 𝐓𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲”

1️⃣ 𝐁𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫.
2️⃣ 𝐀𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐨𝐮𝐬.
3️⃣ 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐚𝐲.
November 10, 2025 at 10:02 PM
𝐅𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐬𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐞 — 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞.
November 10, 2025 at 10:02 PM
𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐭𝐡.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐝𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲.
November 10, 2025 at 2:02 PM
“𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐁𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐇𝐞𝐫 𝐓𝐨 𝐓𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬”

I said, “You’re doing such a good job with them.”
She froze. Then she cried.
No one had told her that all week.
November 10, 2025 at 2:02 PM
It’s not about the toy. 🌀
It’s about the smile that says, “Dad saw me.”
Moments like this remind me—creativity is just another way our kids say, “Be here with me.” ❤️
👇 Dads, what’s something your kids made lately that made you stop and smile?

#FamilyMan #DadLife
November 10, 2025 at 10:03 AM
4️⃣ 𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐧 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲.
5️⃣ 𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫.
6️⃣ 𝐆𝐨 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐦.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐬𝐚𝐟𝐞𝐭𝐲.
November 10, 2025 at 6:01 AM
“𝟔 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐃𝐨 𝐓𝐨𝐧𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭”

1️⃣ 𝐇𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐨𝐫 10 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐬.
2️⃣ 𝐎𝐧𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭.
3️⃣ 𝐓𝐞𝐱𝐭: “𝐈’𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐤𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮.”
November 10, 2025 at 6:00 AM
Recipe for a happy wife:
☕ 1 cup of coffee
💬 2 listening ears
❤️ A hugful of love
Mix daily and serve warm.
👇 Comment “bundle” and I’ll send you the Dad Mode Activated Jumpstart Bundle—daily habits to help you love her better (with or without coffee).

#FamilyMan #MarriageTeamwork #FaithfulHusband
November 10, 2025 at 4:01 AM
It’s not about grand gestures.
It’s about hearing her need… and meeting it before she asks. ☕❤️
That’s where real leadership starts.
👇 Comment “Jumpstart” and I’ll send you the Dad Mode Activated Jumpstart Bundle—simple daily habits that help you love your wife better & lead your home with purpose.
November 10, 2025 at 1:02 AM
𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐞𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐬.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐝𝐚𝐝 𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞.
November 9, 2025 at 10:01 PM
“𝟑 𝐒𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐭𝐬 𝐓𝐨 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐒𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐥𝐬”

1️⃣ “𝐈 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮.”
2️⃣ “𝐋𝐞𝐭’𝐬 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐚 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐭𝐞.”
3️⃣ “𝐖𝐞’𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐦.”
November 9, 2025 at 10:01 PM
“𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐞𝐝𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧”

I used to rush bedtime.
Now I ask: “What was your favorite part today?”
They slow down. I do too.

𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞 — 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞.
November 9, 2025 at 2:01 PM
Every family’s got that one kid who says the wildest stuff. 😂
I swear, Hezekiah keeps me laughing daily — today’s gem: “Hey you, baby man!”
Drop the funniest thing your kid’s ever said 👇 because these moments deserve their own comedy special.

#FamilyMan #DadLife
November 9, 2025 at 10:01 AM
“𝟕 𝐒𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐬 𝐎𝐟 𝐀 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐃𝐚𝐝”

1️⃣ 𝐏𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤.
2️⃣ 𝐄𝐲𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞.
3️⃣ 𝐋𝐚𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐬 𝐨𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐧.
4️⃣ 𝐀𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐬𝐭.
5️⃣ 𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐝.
6️⃣ 𝐂𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐬.
November 9, 2025 at 6:00 AM
7️⃣ 𝐄𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐩𝐞.
👉 𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐝𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫.
November 9, 2025 at 6:00 AM
The goal was just to have fun flying a kite.
The gift was realizing every ride teaches more than words ever could. ❤️

👇 Comment “Jumpstart” and I’ll send you the Dad Mode Activated Jumpstart Bundle—simple daily habits to help you lead with presence and joy.

#FamilyMan #DadLife #LeadWithLove
November 9, 2025 at 4:32 AM
Always be learning. 🙏
Not just in business. Not just in marriage.
But in faith — where real leadership starts.
The more we learn, the more we’re grounded, strengthened, and steady for our FAMILY

#FamilyMan #FaithDrivenDad #BiblicalManhood
November 9, 2025 at 1:10 AM