The Diary of a Heaux
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There are two kinds of escorts. The kind that tries to get notice more by saying things to make themselves popular with other escorts and the kind that tries to get notice by focussing on advertising themselves so that they can make themselves popular.
I prefer to be the latter. Focus on that bag!
I prefer to be the latter. Focus on that bag!
June 25, 2025 at 5:10 AM
There are two kinds of escorts. The kind that tries to get notice more by saying things to make themselves popular with other escorts and the kind that tries to get notice by focussing on advertising themselves so that they can make themselves popular.
I prefer to be the latter. Focus on that bag!
I prefer to be the latter. Focus on that bag!
I just found out about a colleague SP of mine who has always rubbed me the wrong way & acts like she makes a lot of money & I just found out she rents designer clothes for her shoots & they are not even hers. Smart business move but also I’m laughing inside because I know her secret now.
June 18, 2025 at 7:00 AM
I just found out about a colleague SP of mine who has always rubbed me the wrong way & acts like she makes a lot of money & I just found out she rents designer clothes for her shoots & they are not even hers. Smart business move but also I’m laughing inside because I know her secret now.
I don’t want to post this in my main as I may get slack from it but I don’t understand “high end” SP’s who I see complaining about not having a client for days or a couple of weeks when they could just lower their rates. My rates are mid & I have 4-8 clients a day & been doing this a de years now.
June 18, 2025 at 5:35 AM
I don’t want to post this in my main as I may get slack from it but I don’t understand “high end” SP’s who I see complaining about not having a client for days or a couple of weeks when they could just lower their rates. My rates are mid & I have 4-8 clients a day & been doing this a de years now.
I hate how doctors so often undermine medical issues & pain with women. I get dry corners of my lips where it can crack and bleed and there is only one prescribed medicated cream that works. A new doctor today told me “that cream is a bit too strong”. Like dude, it’s only a cream for dry lips.
June 11, 2025 at 7:04 AM
I hate how doctors so often undermine medical issues & pain with women. I get dry corners of my lips where it can crack and bleed and there is only one prescribed medicated cream that works. A new doctor today told me “that cream is a bit too strong”. Like dude, it’s only a cream for dry lips.
Do other SWers find themselves talking to civ people where you talk the same or about the same subjects as with clients to only realize this should be a client only question or conversation?
May 26, 2025 at 11:34 PM
Do other SWers find themselves talking to civ people where you talk the same or about the same subjects as with clients to only realize this should be a client only question or conversation?
One of the funniest things to see are straight male “escorts“ offering their services for $25 or $50 and then their description saying that they are offering their services for free and their photos are just of their dick. Escort ads are not dating apps. If you want your dick wet pay for it!
May 24, 2025 at 4:15 AM
One of the funniest things to see are straight male “escorts“ offering their services for $25 or $50 and then their description saying that they are offering their services for free and their photos are just of their dick. Escort ads are not dating apps. If you want your dick wet pay for it!
I have done various avenues of sex work & have found there are usually 3 kinds of men who date sex workers: the kind of man who want us to change our jobs or take advantage of us financially: or both.
May 1, 2025 at 12:41 AM
I have done various avenues of sex work & have found there are usually 3 kinds of men who date sex workers: the kind of man who want us to change our jobs or take advantage of us financially: or both.
When people book and no show I secretly hope they stood me up to book someone who ended being a scammer in some way to them. Is that bad?
May 1, 2025 at 12:38 AM
When people book and no show I secretly hope they stood me up to book someone who ended being a scammer in some way to them. Is that bad?
Some of these clients are so bad at kissing and sex I feel bad for their partners if they have any and may understand why many of them do not have women enthusiastically wanting to be intimate with them. But hey, at least I get paid if the sex is bad.
April 4, 2025 at 12:51 AM
Some of these clients are so bad at kissing and sex I feel bad for their partners if they have any and may understand why many of them do not have women enthusiastically wanting to be intimate with them. But hey, at least I get paid if the sex is bad.
When I see so many women talking about dating world and boyfriend issues I am SO glad I am a whore.
April 2, 2025 at 3:43 AM
When I see so many women talking about dating world and boyfriend issues I am SO glad I am a whore.
Yea so F this dear diary sh*t. I am just going to post things I would like to post in my main but can’t. I would rather just post random thoughts, opinions and takes on SW.
April 1, 2025 at 6:19 AM
Yea so F this dear diary sh*t. I am just going to post things I would like to post in my main but can’t. I would rather just post random thoughts, opinions and takes on SW.
Is it wrong to say it’s a bit disappointing to have a really good looking client who isn’t that good at sex? It’s like having a fancy bottle of some drink that tastes meh.
April 1, 2025 at 6:17 AM
Is it wrong to say it’s a bit disappointing to have a really good looking client who isn’t that good at sex? It’s like having a fancy bottle of some drink that tastes meh.
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Truthfully, there has never been a better time for feminists to align with the fight for sex workers rights. Both groups are seeing massive attacks aimed at stripping bodily autonomy, freedom of movement, and increasing criminalization.
More allies = better chances of winning.
More allies = better chances of winning.
March 11, 2025 at 8:03 PM
Truthfully, there has never been a better time for feminists to align with the fight for sex workers rights. Both groups are seeing massive attacks aimed at stripping bodily autonomy, freedom of movement, and increasing criminalization.
More allies = better chances of winning.
More allies = better chances of winning.
Dear Heaux Diary,
It is annoying AF when I see civvie girls talking about their “roster” of men they bang/date knowing these dudes just want casual sex, but also bash SWers. They are literally doing the same as us but for free. At least our roster of men are paying us.
It is annoying AF when I see civvie girls talking about their “roster” of men they bang/date knowing these dudes just want casual sex, but also bash SWers. They are literally doing the same as us but for free. At least our roster of men are paying us.
February 17, 2025 at 8:26 AM
Dear Heaux Diary,
It is annoying AF when I see civvie girls talking about their “roster” of men they bang/date knowing these dudes just want casual sex, but also bash SWers. They are literally doing the same as us but for free. At least our roster of men are paying us.
It is annoying AF when I see civvie girls talking about their “roster” of men they bang/date knowing these dudes just want casual sex, but also bash SWers. They are literally doing the same as us but for free. At least our roster of men are paying us.
Dear Heaux Diary,
I didn’t think one of the best clients in the sack as would be an older Indian man who is Sikh in his 60’s who just happens to have a huge dick and knows how to use it well. WOW this man f**ks me so good, I feel wobbly afterwards: and for 1.5 hours of sex, too.
I didn’t think one of the best clients in the sack as would be an older Indian man who is Sikh in his 60’s who just happens to have a huge dick and knows how to use it well. WOW this man f**ks me so good, I feel wobbly afterwards: and for 1.5 hours of sex, too.
February 8, 2025 at 8:17 PM
Dear Heaux Diary,
I didn’t think one of the best clients in the sack as would be an older Indian man who is Sikh in his 60’s who just happens to have a huge dick and knows how to use it well. WOW this man f**ks me so good, I feel wobbly afterwards: and for 1.5 hours of sex, too.
I didn’t think one of the best clients in the sack as would be an older Indian man who is Sikh in his 60’s who just happens to have a huge dick and knows how to use it well. WOW this man f**ks me so good, I feel wobbly afterwards: and for 1.5 hours of sex, too.
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Laws like this will not stop at porn. They will be used to shut down your podcast, your YouTube channel, your newsletter, zine, record label, etc. You'd be surprised to see how expansive the definition for "porn" can become when lawmakers don't like what you're saying.
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January 28, 2025 at 1:03 PM
Laws like this will not stop at porn. They will be used to shut down your podcast, your YouTube channel, your newsletter, zine, record label, etc. You'd be surprised to see how expansive the definition for "porn" can become when lawmakers don't like what you're saying.
I love being a slut. I love sex. I love being self employed and making good money. I thrive in SW.
January 19, 2025 at 9:15 AM
I love being a slut. I love sex. I love being self employed and making good money. I thrive in SW.
Dear Heaux Diary:
Why are boys so stinky? I’m here in bed with my fwb who is hot af and such a fine looking man but he’s passed out and farting stinky farts every 15 mins. But the s€x is sooo good. He’s fine AF but omg the farts are too much.
I think this is one reason I’m a SW & single.
Why are boys so stinky? I’m here in bed with my fwb who is hot af and such a fine looking man but he’s passed out and farting stinky farts every 15 mins. But the s€x is sooo good. He’s fine AF but omg the farts are too much.
I think this is one reason I’m a SW & single.
January 19, 2025 at 9:13 AM
Dear Heaux Diary:
Why are boys so stinky? I’m here in bed with my fwb who is hot af and such a fine looking man but he’s passed out and farting stinky farts every 15 mins. But the s€x is sooo good. He’s fine AF but omg the farts are too much.
I think this is one reason I’m a SW & single.
Why are boys so stinky? I’m here in bed with my fwb who is hot af and such a fine looking man but he’s passed out and farting stinky farts every 15 mins. But the s€x is sooo good. He’s fine AF but omg the farts are too much.
I think this is one reason I’m a SW & single.
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Needs to be repeated every day on here. Our clients are just normal people. Mine are mostly suburban dads
'People who are not familiar with the sex industry think that there is just one category of people who visit sex workers: the creepy, lonely, perverse man.'
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tryst.link/blog/rega...
Regarding Client Stigma
Edie Montana explains why we need to destigmatise sex worker's clients.
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December 16, 2024 at 11:25 PM
Needs to be repeated every day on here. Our clients are just normal people. Mine are mostly suburban dads
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December 22, 2024 at 4:44 AM
If you have money for charitable donations this year, please consider the Toronto Harm Reduction Advocacy Collective.
Please share with as many people as you can.
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Dear Heaux Diary:
I just found out today a provider friends boyfriend of 1 year was a client of hers & she met him as a client & since she’s been with him he pays for everything & she doesn’t talk to any of her friends anymore.
She only wants to be taken care of. Let’s see how long this lasts for.
I just found out today a provider friends boyfriend of 1 year was a client of hers & she met him as a client & since she’s been with him he pays for everything & she doesn’t talk to any of her friends anymore.
She only wants to be taken care of. Let’s see how long this lasts for.
December 26, 2024 at 4:56 AM
Dear Heaux Diary:
I just found out today a provider friends boyfriend of 1 year was a client of hers & she met him as a client & since she’s been with him he pays for everything & she doesn’t talk to any of her friends anymore.
She only wants to be taken care of. Let’s see how long this lasts for.
I just found out today a provider friends boyfriend of 1 year was a client of hers & she met him as a client & since she’s been with him he pays for everything & she doesn’t talk to any of her friends anymore.
She only wants to be taken care of. Let’s see how long this lasts for.
Dear Heaux Diary:
We need to recognize all SW is valid: Sugaring, Exotic Dancer. Cam Girl/Work, Provider/Companionship, Lewds/Newds sales/sign ups, Survival SW, Domme/Dominatrix, Fetish content, Kink/BDSM content + more.
If you use your sexuality to make money be PROUD to be a SWer.
We need to recognize all SW is valid: Sugaring, Exotic Dancer. Cam Girl/Work, Provider/Companionship, Lewds/Newds sales/sign ups, Survival SW, Domme/Dominatrix, Fetish content, Kink/BDSM content + more.
If you use your sexuality to make money be PROUD to be a SWer.
December 13, 2024 at 9:40 AM
Dear Heaux Diary:
We need to recognize all SW is valid: Sugaring, Exotic Dancer. Cam Girl/Work, Provider/Companionship, Lewds/Newds sales/sign ups, Survival SW, Domme/Dominatrix, Fetish content, Kink/BDSM content + more.
If you use your sexuality to make money be PROUD to be a SWer.
We need to recognize all SW is valid: Sugaring, Exotic Dancer. Cam Girl/Work, Provider/Companionship, Lewds/Newds sales/sign ups, Survival SW, Domme/Dominatrix, Fetish content, Kink/BDSM content + more.
If you use your sexuality to make money be PROUD to be a SWer.
Dear Heaux Diary:
Fuck the patriarchy.
Fuck the patriarchy.
December 9, 2024 at 12:19 PM
Dear Heaux Diary:
Fuck the patriarchy.
Fuck the patriarchy.
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Incarcerated women face a myriad of health challenges, both during their time in jail and upon reentry into society. “Health Priorities among Women Recently Released from Jail" sheds light on these challenges and offers valuable insights into health priorities swopbehindbars.org/so/95PDUttw6...
Womens Healthcare In prisons and jails
The Overlooked Health Crisis
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December 9, 2024 at 11:29 AM
Incarcerated women face a myriad of health challenges, both during their time in jail and upon reentry into society. “Health Priorities among Women Recently Released from Jail" sheds light on these challenges and offers valuable insights into health priorities swopbehindbars.org/so/95PDUttw6...