The Caring Counsellor
@theccounsellor.bsky.social
🧠 DBT specialised Counsellor and Teletherapist
🌟 iGNLP™ Certified NLP Practitioner and Life Coach (Associate)
🌟 iGNLP™ Certified NLP Practitioner and Life Coach (Associate)
Fear-mongering about Tylenol and autism shames mothers and devalues autistic people. No parent should feel guilt for taking safe medication in pregnancy. Say no to fear, yes to truth, compassion, and mental health.
September 23, 2025 at 10:44 PM
Fear-mongering about Tylenol and autism shames mothers and devalues autistic people. No parent should feel guilt for taking safe medication in pregnancy. Say no to fear, yes to truth, compassion, and mental health.
Just a reminder: You don’t need to be “doing great” to deserve love, support, or kindness. You’re worthy of care exactly as you are, even on the messy days 💖 #therapist #letteringart
June 25, 2025 at 12:29 PM
Just a reminder: You don’t need to be “doing great” to deserve love, support, or kindness. You’re worthy of care exactly as you are, even on the messy days 💖 #therapist #letteringart
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Blossom the orchid mantis has officially entered her self-care era. Watch her clean her feet like a tiny spa queen - not just for looks, but to stay sharp, sticky, and balanced.
Because even bug baddies need a little me-time 💅🏻 #prayingmantis #cute
Because even bug baddies need a little me-time 💅🏻 #prayingmantis #cute
May 26, 2025 at 8:23 PM
Blossom the orchid mantis has officially entered her self-care era. Watch her clean her feet like a tiny spa queen - not just for looks, but to stay sharp, sticky, and balanced.
Because even bug baddies need a little me-time 💅🏻 #prayingmantis #cute
Because even bug baddies need a little me-time 💅🏻 #prayingmantis #cute
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Daisy’s gravid again! She’s checking out my hand like it’s prime real estate before laying another egg sac 🤣
Jumping spider mums are seriously underrated - go Daisy! 💜 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
Jumping spider mums are seriously underrated - go Daisy! 💜 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
May 27, 2025 at 9:41 PM
Daisy’s gravid again! She’s checking out my hand like it’s prime real estate before laying another egg sac 🤣
Jumping spider mums are seriously underrated - go Daisy! 💜 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
Jumping spider mums are seriously underrated - go Daisy! 💜 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
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Pumpkin came out today for some hand time. Her colours never fail to amaze me. We also have an announcement a little later so keep your eyes peeled 👀🤭 #petspider #jumpingspider #cute
May 28, 2025 at 1:10 PM
Pumpkin came out today for some hand time. Her colours never fail to amaze me. We also have an announcement a little later so keep your eyes peeled 👀🤭 #petspider #jumpingspider #cute
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Ever envied a self-care routine more? We haven't 🤣🤭 Pumpkin truly rocks!
Now it's as good a time as any to announce that Pumpkin and Tango have been paired! 😍 We hope to hear the pitter patter of tiny Audax Big Bend feet soon 🥹 #cute #jumpingspider #petspider
Now it's as good a time as any to announce that Pumpkin and Tango have been paired! 😍 We hope to hear the pitter patter of tiny Audax Big Bend feet soon 🥹 #cute #jumpingspider #petspider
May 28, 2025 at 9:34 PM
Ever envied a self-care routine more? We haven't 🤣🤭 Pumpkin truly rocks!
Now it's as good a time as any to announce that Pumpkin and Tango have been paired! 😍 We hope to hear the pitter patter of tiny Audax Big Bend feet soon 🥹 #cute #jumpingspider #petspider
Now it's as good a time as any to announce that Pumpkin and Tango have been paired! 😍 We hope to hear the pitter patter of tiny Audax Big Bend feet soon 🥹 #cute #jumpingspider #petspider
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An update on Daisy's babies 😍 This little bean is an i3 and officially around 2 months old. They typically moult once a month but can sometimes moult quicker depending on how much they eat.
We reckon they'll be available for adoption in June/July. We're so excited! 🥹 #jumpingspider #cute
We reckon they'll be available for adoption in June/July. We're so excited! 🥹 #jumpingspider #cute
May 29, 2025 at 12:58 PM
An update on Daisy's babies 😍 This little bean is an i3 and officially around 2 months old. They typically moult once a month but can sometimes moult quicker depending on how much they eat.
We reckon they'll be available for adoption in June/July. We're so excited! 🥹 #jumpingspider #cute
We reckon they'll be available for adoption in June/July. We're so excited! 🥹 #jumpingspider #cute
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This baby jumping spider woke up feelin' silly 😝🕷️
They're an i3 right now, so still a few moults away from being ready for adoption - but we’ll keep you updated! 🥹💛
Give them a lil boost of love in the comments 💬✨ #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
They're an i3 right now, so still a few moults away from being ready for adoption - but we’ll keep you updated! 🥹💛
Give them a lil boost of love in the comments 💬✨ #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
May 29, 2025 at 9:58 PM
This baby jumping spider woke up feelin' silly 😝🕷️
They're an i3 right now, so still a few moults away from being ready for adoption - but we’ll keep you updated! 🥹💛
Give them a lil boost of love in the comments 💬✨ #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
They're an i3 right now, so still a few moults away from being ready for adoption - but we’ll keep you updated! 🥹💛
Give them a lil boost of love in the comments 💬✨ #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
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Luna was definitely feeling like a model today 💁🏻♀️Her chelicerae are absolutely stunning too! 😍 Her babies are now i2-3 and developing nicely. They should be ready by July/August depending on how quickly they moult (as Bahamas can be either slow or quite quick 😂) We'll keep you updated! #jumpingspider
May 30, 2025 at 8:43 PM
Luna was definitely feeling like a model today 💁🏻♀️Her chelicerae are absolutely stunning too! 😍 Her babies are now i2-3 and developing nicely. They should be ready by July/August depending on how quickly they moult (as Bahamas can be either slow or quite quick 😂) We'll keep you updated! #jumpingspider
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Does anyone else lose their minds when their spider cleans themselves, or is it just me? 😅🥹 #cute #jumpingspider
May 30, 2025 at 10:09 PM
Does anyone else lose their minds when their spider cleans themselves, or is it just me? 😅🥹 #cute #jumpingspider
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How handsome is our Hyllus Diardi boy, Bee? He's always been so inquisitive and friendly. He's our cuddly little man 🥹💛 #hyllusdiardi #cutespider #jumpingspider
May 31, 2025 at 12:12 PM
How handsome is our Hyllus Diardi boy, Bee? He's always been so inquisitive and friendly. He's our cuddly little man 🥹💛 #hyllusdiardi #cutespider #jumpingspider
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You've seen cats cuddle... but have you seen a jumping spider snuggle?
Day 2 of proving to the internet that spiders aren't scary - just seriously underrated.
Follow for more tiny toe beans and wholesome jumping spider moments 🕷️🥰 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider #hyllusdiardi
Day 2 of proving to the internet that spiders aren't scary - just seriously underrated.
Follow for more tiny toe beans and wholesome jumping spider moments 🕷️🥰 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider #hyllusdiardi
May 31, 2025 at 11:50 PM
You've seen cats cuddle... but have you seen a jumping spider snuggle?
Day 2 of proving to the internet that spiders aren't scary - just seriously underrated.
Follow for more tiny toe beans and wholesome jumping spider moments 🕷️🥰 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider #hyllusdiardi
Day 2 of proving to the internet that spiders aren't scary - just seriously underrated.
Follow for more tiny toe beans and wholesome jumping spider moments 🕷️🥰 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider #hyllusdiardi
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Neptune is such a gent 🥰💙 Always loves his jumps and uppies. He even rested his paw on me in the second pic. He really is a sweetheart 🥹 His babies are all i3/4 now and are growing up quickly! We're so excited 😍 #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
June 1, 2025 at 4:44 PM
Neptune is such a gent 🥰💙 Always loves his jumps and uppies. He even rested his paw on me in the second pic. He really is a sweetheart 🥹 His babies are all i3/4 now and are growing up quickly! We're so excited 😍 #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
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Neptune is back for Day 3 of proving spiders aren’t scary - he just wants uppies, cuddles, and a safe spot to vibe 🥺🕷️💚
Still scared? Give him 10 seconds. #cute #jumpingspider
Still scared? Give him 10 seconds. #cute #jumpingspider
June 1, 2025 at 9:56 PM
Neptune is back for Day 3 of proving spiders aren’t scary - he just wants uppies, cuddles, and a safe spot to vibe 🥺🕷️💚
Still scared? Give him 10 seconds. #cute #jumpingspider
Still scared? Give him 10 seconds. #cute #jumpingspider
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Chai has had her big girl moult, which means she's mature. She's the classic white that Bahamas are, but with the added bonus of pink chelicerae! Isn't she stunning? 🥹💖 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
June 2, 2025 at 12:29 PM
Chai has had her big girl moult, which means she's mature. She's the classic white that Bahamas are, but with the added bonus of pink chelicerae! Isn't she stunning? 🥹💖 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
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Day 4 of showing the internet that spiders aren't scary.
She’s small, fluffy, and just wants to vibe. If you’re still scared of spiders, Chai’s here to change your mind - one tiny hop at a time 💅 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
She’s small, fluffy, and just wants to vibe. If you’re still scared of spiders, Chai’s here to change your mind - one tiny hop at a time 💅 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
June 2, 2025 at 9:53 PM
Day 4 of showing the internet that spiders aren't scary.
She’s small, fluffy, and just wants to vibe. If you’re still scared of spiders, Chai’s here to change your mind - one tiny hop at a time 💅 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
She’s small, fluffy, and just wants to vibe. If you’re still scared of spiders, Chai’s here to change your mind - one tiny hop at a time 💅 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
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This photoshoot of Ember feels bittersweet.
Her personality very much reminds us of our late Ivory. They're so similar that it makes us miss her all the more. But on the other hand, we're so grateful to have another playful and curious spood who has an affinity for uppies 🥹🧡 #jumpingspider #cute
Her personality very much reminds us of our late Ivory. They're so similar that it makes us miss her all the more. But on the other hand, we're so grateful to have another playful and curious spood who has an affinity for uppies 🥹🧡 #jumpingspider #cute
June 3, 2025 at 1:27 PM
This photoshoot of Ember feels bittersweet.
Her personality very much reminds us of our late Ivory. They're so similar that it makes us miss her all the more. But on the other hand, we're so grateful to have another playful and curious spood who has an affinity for uppies 🥹🧡 #jumpingspider #cute
Her personality very much reminds us of our late Ivory. They're so similar that it makes us miss her all the more. But on the other hand, we're so grateful to have another playful and curious spood who has an affinity for uppies 🥹🧡 #jumpingspider #cute
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Day 5 of showing the internet that spiders aren't scary.
Ember isn't here to scare anyone, she's here for uppies!
She may have eight legs, but all she wants is a little lift and some love. If you're still scared of spiders... she might just change your mind 🥹🧡 #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
Ember isn't here to scare anyone, she's here for uppies!
She may have eight legs, but all she wants is a little lift and some love. If you're still scared of spiders... she might just change your mind 🥹🧡 #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
June 3, 2025 at 10:00 PM
Day 5 of showing the internet that spiders aren't scary.
Ember isn't here to scare anyone, she's here for uppies!
She may have eight legs, but all she wants is a little lift and some love. If you're still scared of spiders... she might just change your mind 🥹🧡 #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
Ember isn't here to scare anyone, she's here for uppies!
She may have eight legs, but all she wants is a little lift and some love. If you're still scared of spiders... she might just change your mind 🥹🧡 #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
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We have another uppie queen 😂
We'd like to introduce you to Mochi, a subadult Hyllus Diardi female. She's stunning and already loves hand time. Swipe for some cute uppie pics 🥹 #hyllusdiari #petspider #jumpingspider
We'd like to introduce you to Mochi, a subadult Hyllus Diardi female. She's stunning and already loves hand time. Swipe for some cute uppie pics 🥹 #hyllusdiari #petspider #jumpingspider
June 4, 2025 at 8:01 PM
We have another uppie queen 😂
We'd like to introduce you to Mochi, a subadult Hyllus Diardi female. She's stunning and already loves hand time. Swipe for some cute uppie pics 🥹 #hyllusdiari #petspider #jumpingspider
We'd like to introduce you to Mochi, a subadult Hyllus Diardi female. She's stunning and already loves hand time. Swipe for some cute uppie pics 🥹 #hyllusdiari #petspider #jumpingspider
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Meet Mochi: new to the world, obsessed with uppies, and determined to see everything from the tallest human fingertip possible
Jumping spiders do this because they rely on their vision - they want the best view, not to plot your demise 😅
She's not scary. She's just nosey 🤭 #jumpingspider #cute
Jumping spiders do this because they rely on their vision - they want the best view, not to plot your demise 😅
She's not scary. She's just nosey 🤭 #jumpingspider #cute
June 4, 2025 at 9:58 PM
Meet Mochi: new to the world, obsessed with uppies, and determined to see everything from the tallest human fingertip possible
Jumping spiders do this because they rely on their vision - they want the best view, not to plot your demise 😅
She's not scary. She's just nosey 🤭 #jumpingspider #cute
Jumping spiders do this because they rely on their vision - they want the best view, not to plot your demise 😅
She's not scary. She's just nosey 🤭 #jumpingspider #cute
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Daisy is so beautiful ❤️ She's a little slower as we feel she may lay an egg sac soon, but she's still a cute little button 🥹 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
June 5, 2025 at 2:35 PM
Daisy is so beautiful ❤️ She's a little slower as we feel she may lay an egg sac soon, but she's still a cute little button 🥹 #cute #petspider #jumpingspider
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Day 6 of showing the internet that (jumping) spiders aren't scary 🥰
I used to be terrified of spiders. Now I breed them for a living These little souls changed my life in ways I never expected.
If fear can turn into love for me... maybe it can for you too ❤️ #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
I used to be terrified of spiders. Now I breed them for a living These little souls changed my life in ways I never expected.
If fear can turn into love for me... maybe it can for you too ❤️ #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
June 5, 2025 at 10:14 PM
Day 6 of showing the internet that (jumping) spiders aren't scary 🥰
I used to be terrified of spiders. Now I breed them for a living These little souls changed my life in ways I never expected.
If fear can turn into love for me... maybe it can for you too ❤️ #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
I used to be terrified of spiders. Now I breed them for a living These little souls changed my life in ways I never expected.
If fear can turn into love for me... maybe it can for you too ❤️ #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
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Update on Daisy's babies 🥹
Most of them are now around i4 and getting their colours. We believe the one pictured is a boy 😍 they should be ready in early July. If you're interested in adopting one of these cuties, please pop us a DM 💙 #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
Most of them are now around i4 and getting their colours. We believe the one pictured is a boy 😍 they should be ready in early July. If you're interested in adopting one of these cuties, please pop us a DM 💙 #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
June 6, 2025 at 4:48 PM
Update on Daisy's babies 🥹
Most of them are now around i4 and getting their colours. We believe the one pictured is a boy 😍 they should be ready in early July. If you're interested in adopting one of these cuties, please pop us a DM 💙 #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
Most of them are now around i4 and getting their colours. We believe the one pictured is a boy 😍 they should be ready in early July. If you're interested in adopting one of these cuties, please pop us a DM 💙 #jumpingspider #cute #petspider
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Day 8 of proving to the internet that (jumping) spiders aren't scary 🙀
This i4 baby is already exploring like a pro! They’ll be looking for their forever homes in about a month, and each one is full of personality
Spiders aren’t scary - they’re just misunderstood, and sometimes, very smol 🥹 #cute
This i4 baby is already exploring like a pro! They’ll be looking for their forever homes in about a month, and each one is full of personality
Spiders aren’t scary - they’re just misunderstood, and sometimes, very smol 🥹 #cute
June 7, 2025 at 12:14 AM
Day 8 of proving to the internet that (jumping) spiders aren't scary 🙀
This i4 baby is already exploring like a pro! They’ll be looking for their forever homes in about a month, and each one is full of personality
Spiders aren’t scary - they’re just misunderstood, and sometimes, very smol 🥹 #cute
This i4 baby is already exploring like a pro! They’ll be looking for their forever homes in about a month, and each one is full of personality
Spiders aren’t scary - they’re just misunderstood, and sometimes, very smol 🥹 #cute
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This boy has the most placid personality out of all of our spoods. He's a curious little bean who loves just staring up at us with wonder 🥹
We cannot wait to introduce him to Mochi once she's matured and ready for our next breeding programme. We'd love to have Bee babies 💛 #jumpingspider #cute
We cannot wait to introduce him to Mochi once she's matured and ready for our next breeding programme. We'd love to have Bee babies 💛 #jumpingspider #cute
June 8, 2025 at 7:20 PM
This boy has the most placid personality out of all of our spoods. He's a curious little bean who loves just staring up at us with wonder 🥹
We cannot wait to introduce him to Mochi once she's matured and ready for our next breeding programme. We'd love to have Bee babies 💛 #jumpingspider #cute
We cannot wait to introduce him to Mochi once she's matured and ready for our next breeding programme. We'd love to have Bee babies 💛 #jumpingspider #cute