and! if you’ve gotten one, or borrowed one to try for a minute and found it too unwieldy and awkward, don’t make any judgments until you’ve tried one that’s actually your size. this is the chart that helped me out:

if you’ve ever thought you might benefit from a cane as a mobility device i recommend leaning into that feeling a getting ahold of one, you can tell yourself it’s just in case. like i did. turns out it’s a really good thing to have before you absolutely need it 😅

I think about them every day bonnie… every single day

it takes me out so badddd 😭