thinking specifically of a post i saw by a cis lesbian who was confused when she met a femboy at a queer space and was attracted to him, and i saw replies from trans women like "he's a predatory male regardless of his gender and shouldnt be around queer ppl" are you fucking reading your own posts?

i just dont see why

this is so adorable 😖❤️

i'm autistic and adhd and have literal actual damage to my brain and dont struggle to gender people correctly . i get that it can be harder for people , but doing DARVO shit and saying actually its the fault of the person youre misgendering is just evil lol