I can’t tell you the number of times a boy has asked if I had a full diaper and I confidently said nope’ clean and dry! only for it to turn out to be completely soaked and loaded!!!! This is why our diapers always need to be exposed because knowing the state of our diapers is a boys job!Not ours!!🥰🤭

I agree with this 100%!!!!! Literally our first and biggest trauma!!! We are not cognitively ready for decisions like this at that age!!!!! Much better to wait till we are established in life and can consent to such a big bodily change!!!!!❤️