Stella Harris
@stellaharris.bsky.social
Freelance writer, published author, intimacy educator, mediator.
📚Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships
📚 The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes
☠️Horror enthusiast.
😷Wear a mask.
www.stellaharris.net/links
📚Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships
📚 The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes
☠️Horror enthusiast.
😷Wear a mask.
www.stellaharris.net/links
Hey Portland, want to learn rope bondage? I’m doing a three week series this month: Rope 101, Rope 201, and a Rope Lab for practice. Starting next week, masks required!! forbiddentickets.com/events/stell...
October 6, 2025 at 9:29 PM
Hey Portland, want to learn rope bondage? I’m doing a three week series this month: Rope 101, Rope 201, and a Rope Lab for practice. Starting next week, masks required!! forbiddentickets.com/events/stell...
It’s that time of year again! Just in time for Kinktober, you can get a ton of kink and BDSM classes for one low price. One of my classes is included, along with lots of other amazing educators.
Check it out: stellaharris--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/kink-bundle/
Check it out: stellaharris--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/kink-bundle/
September 18, 2025 at 11:13 PM
It’s that time of year again! Just in time for Kinktober, you can get a ton of kink and BDSM classes for one low price. One of my classes is included, along with lots of other amazing educators.
Check it out: stellaharris--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/kink-bundle/
Check it out: stellaharris--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/kink-bundle/
I’m teaching a free online class on Tuesday, September 9th. (RSVP Required)
Come learn all about kink communication!
forbiddentickets.com/events/portl...
Come learn all about kink communication!
forbiddentickets.com/events/portl...
September 5, 2025 at 5:05 PM
I’m teaching a free online class on Tuesday, September 9th. (RSVP Required)
Come learn all about kink communication!
forbiddentickets.com/events/portl...
Come learn all about kink communication!
forbiddentickets.com/events/portl...
Happy Summerween.
June 28, 2025 at 5:58 PM
Happy Summerween.
I’m not sure that tattoos are actually cheaper than therapy, but they are better for instant gratification! (Made by Stacy Fevinger.)
May 30, 2025 at 4:12 AM
I’m not sure that tattoos are actually cheaper than therapy, but they are better for instant gratification! (Made by Stacy Fevinger.)
Excited to being back my bisexuality class this year, along with the fab @millennialsexpert.bsky.social as a co-presenter! Grab your tickets for this online class: www.sheboptheshop.com/its-not-a-ph...
May 20, 2025 at 7:13 PM
Excited to being back my bisexuality class this year, along with the fab @millennialsexpert.bsky.social as a co-presenter! Grab your tickets for this online class: www.sheboptheshop.com/its-not-a-ph...
Goth squirrel on my patio.
May 2, 2025 at 11:11 PM
Goth squirrel on my patio.
Finally made a couple of mask chains! Clearly a work in progress.
April 2, 2025 at 7:45 PM
Finally made a couple of mask chains! Clearly a work in progress.
Nothing says ‘undergoing a painful procedure without anesthesia’ like being placed in the Old West themed procedure room. (Getting a new IUD)
March 12, 2025 at 5:47 PM
Nothing says ‘undergoing a painful procedure without anesthesia’ like being placed in the Old West themed procedure room. (Getting a new IUD)
Want to learn about threesomes? I’m doing an online class with @sheboptheshop.bsky.social in two weeks! Class will be recorded if you can’t make it live, and scholarship spots are available!
February 26, 2025 at 7:32 PM
Want to learn about threesomes? I’m doing an online class with @sheboptheshop.bsky.social in two weeks! Class will be recorded if you can’t make it live, and scholarship spots are available!
I had a blast speaking at OMSI After Dark: PROMSI last Friday! Great turnout in both my talks with fantastic questions from the audience. And it was fun seeing how everyone embraced the prom theme from modern to vintage looks. Plus, who doesn’t love science?!
February 23, 2025 at 8:10 PM
I had a blast speaking at OMSI After Dark: PROMSI last Friday! Great turnout in both my talks with fantastic questions from the audience. And it was fun seeing how everyone embraced the prom theme from modern to vintage looks. Plus, who doesn’t love science?!
A recent re-viewing reminded me that my favorite zombie movie is also - very nominally - a Valentine’s movie. So now is a great time to check out Pontypool if you haven’t seen it.
No spoilers - but its message hits especially hard right now.
No spoilers - but its message hits especially hard right now.
February 6, 2025 at 7:24 PM
A recent re-viewing reminded me that my favorite zombie movie is also - very nominally - a Valentine’s movie. So now is a great time to check out Pontypool if you haven’t seen it.
No spoilers - but its message hits especially hard right now.
No spoilers - but its message hits especially hard right now.
Most of my pleasure reading these days is for escapism, so I’ve been shying away from dystopian fiction. But I just finished I Who Have Never Known Men and it absolutely blew me away.
February 3, 2025 at 7:14 PM
Most of my pleasure reading these days is for escapism, so I’ve been shying away from dystopian fiction. But I just finished I Who Have Never Known Men and it absolutely blew me away.
Surprisingly creepy short horror story, from my Next Door app
January 28, 2025 at 5:03 AM
Surprisingly creepy short horror story, from my Next Door app
I’ve been fretting over leaving Instagram, considering it’s been a primary way I’ve promoted my business. On Monday I posted a list of my upcoming classes. Of my 6,000+ followers there, only 456 saw it.
Posted the same thing here, with only a few hundred followers, and got several reshares.
Posted the same thing here, with only a few hundred followers, and got several reshares.
January 15, 2025 at 6:10 PM
I’ve been fretting over leaving Instagram, considering it’s been a primary way I’ve promoted my business. On Monday I posted a list of my upcoming classes. Of my 6,000+ followers there, only 456 saw it.
Posted the same thing here, with only a few hundred followers, and got several reshares.
Posted the same thing here, with only a few hundred followers, and got several reshares.
Just finished the audiobook of Sara Gran’s ‘The Book of the Most Precious Substance’ and I loved it so much I immediately ordered a physical copy.
Books! Sex! Magic! What’s not to love?
Books! Sex! Magic! What’s not to love?
January 14, 2025 at 5:41 PM
Just finished the audiobook of Sara Gran’s ‘The Book of the Most Precious Substance’ and I loved it so much I immediately ordered a physical copy.
Books! Sex! Magic! What’s not to love?
Books! Sex! Magic! What’s not to love?
I’ve got a ton of events coming up! Tickets for most are available, save the date for the rest. (Link in bio, etc.)
January 14, 2025 at 1:50 AM
I’ve got a ton of events coming up! Tickets for most are available, save the date for the rest. (Link in bio, etc.)
I adore all the educators I work with but @millennialsexpert.bsky.social is my favorite person today. So here’s me showing off the shirt she gave me. (Follow her if you love awesome sex educators.)
December 11, 2024 at 9:41 PM
I adore all the educators I work with but @millennialsexpert.bsky.social is my favorite person today. So here’s me showing off the shirt she gave me. (Follow her if you love awesome sex educators.)
I’m so glad I hopped on the 2020 sourdough train because my weekly batch of homemade sourdough bagels keeps me going.
December 10, 2024 at 7:30 PM
I’m so glad I hopped on the 2020 sourdough train because my weekly batch of homemade sourdough bagels keeps me going.
I’m usually the first to say that size doesn’t matter, but this is not what I expected when selecting a butternut squash as part of my weekly grocery order.
December 6, 2024 at 7:50 PM
I’m usually the first to say that size doesn’t matter, but this is not what I expected when selecting a butternut squash as part of my weekly grocery order.
Deleting my posts from the other place and this old gem made me chuckle.
December 6, 2024 at 6:03 PM
Deleting my posts from the other place and this old gem made me chuckle.
With a Zoom meeting coming up, I’m testing the theory that red lipstick, on an otherwise natural face, makes you look put together.
November 26, 2024 at 9:17 PM
With a Zoom meeting coming up, I’m testing the theory that red lipstick, on an otherwise natural face, makes you look put together.
Pharmacy screening questions are wild.
Them: “Have you been exposed to anyone who has Covid?”
Me: Looks around the crowded pharmacy - where I’m the only person masked.
Anyway, get your vaccines and boosters, kids!
Them: “Have you been exposed to anyone who has Covid?”
Me: Looks around the crowded pharmacy - where I’m the only person masked.
Anyway, get your vaccines and boosters, kids!
November 18, 2024 at 10:47 PM
Pharmacy screening questions are wild.
Them: “Have you been exposed to anyone who has Covid?”
Me: Looks around the crowded pharmacy - where I’m the only person masked.
Anyway, get your vaccines and boosters, kids!
Them: “Have you been exposed to anyone who has Covid?”
Me: Looks around the crowded pharmacy - where I’m the only person masked.
Anyway, get your vaccines and boosters, kids!
This image from my 2017 archives seemed an appropriate first post for my new account here. Text reads: “Expressing shame free sexuality is a political act.”
November 13, 2024 at 8:35 PM
This image from my 2017 archives seemed an appropriate first post for my new account here. Text reads: “Expressing shame free sexuality is a political act.”