So frustrating because I'm in the middle of moving across the country and now I have to deal with this.

Investigating

also, spookygirl is open to anyone who's a current or former sw. Just dm me and I can get you an invite code after a quick verification 😊

Most of the queer servers are pretty chill with it. There aren't very many just for us though. net4sw is one I see but I know nothing about their admin team.