Soft Power
@softpowerrdu.bsky.social
“a way to influence through persuasion or attraction”
Low volume client; respectful; reserved;
🎶Every flower needs to neighbor with the dirt🎵
Low volume client; respectful; reserved;
🎶Every flower needs to neighbor with the dirt🎵
No lies detected, Spotify.
I DO however take issue with my musical age being 79, all because I did a one-day deep dive into jazz to create a special date playlist. 🙄
I DO however take issue with my musical age being 79, all because I did a one-day deep dive into jazz to create a special date playlist. 🙄
December 6, 2025 at 1:08 AM
No lies detected, Spotify.
I DO however take issue with my musical age being 79, all because I did a one-day deep dive into jazz to create a special date playlist. 🙄
I DO however take issue with my musical age being 79, all because I did a one-day deep dive into jazz to create a special date playlist. 🙄
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If you still have your twitter-X account & you’re a SWer plese be aware that platform has new guidelines & rules targeting SWers & the language we use to promote ourselves, announce availability & tours. Our accounts are being suspended consistently right now. Here are words to avoid & to use safely
December 3, 2025 at 8:49 PM
If you still have your twitter-X account & you’re a SWer plese be aware that platform has new guidelines & rules targeting SWers & the language we use to promote ourselves, announce availability & tours. Our accounts are being suspended consistently right now. Here are words to avoid & to use safely
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Hmm, maybe this Twitter fiasco will spur me to finally be active on Fansly.
(Before you ask — I'm not on OF and probably won't be anytime soon, because they kicked me off and stole my earnings in 2019. Never say never, though!)
I have a bunch of great vids on Many*Vids. Check 'em out 😉
(Before you ask — I'm not on OF and probably won't be anytime soon, because they kicked me off and stole my earnings in 2019. Never say never, though!)
I have a bunch of great vids on Many*Vids. Check 'em out 😉
December 2, 2025 at 5:07 PM
Hmm, maybe this Twitter fiasco will spur me to finally be active on Fansly.
(Before you ask — I'm not on OF and probably won't be anytime soon, because they kicked me off and stole my earnings in 2019. Never say never, though!)
I have a bunch of great vids on Many*Vids. Check 'em out 😉
(Before you ask — I'm not on OF and probably won't be anytime soon, because they kicked me off and stole my earnings in 2019. Never say never, though!)
I have a bunch of great vids on Many*Vids. Check 'em out 😉
I found the Thomas Dambo troll displays in Dorothea Dix park the other day. It was a fun day of exploration and discovery.
November 27, 2025 at 9:09 PM
I found the Thomas Dambo troll displays in Dorothea Dix park the other day. It was a fun day of exploration and discovery.
I’m participating as much as I can. No early holiday shopping, and skipping the usual dinner out on Friday. I’ve earned a restful stay-at-home weekend and I sure plan to enjoy it.
November 25, 2025 at 5:07 AM
I’m participating as much as I can. No early holiday shopping, and skipping the usual dinner out on Friday. I’ve earned a restful stay-at-home weekend and I sure plan to enjoy it.
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Sweater weather
November 14, 2025 at 5:35 PM
Sweater weather
I’m so proud of the discovery made by the team at the NC Museum of Natural Sciences last month. I visited the exhibit when it opened last year and I definitely need to go back!!
naturalsciences.org/calendar/new...
naturalsciences.org/calendar/new...
Nanotyrannus Confirmed: Dueling Dinosaurs Fossil Rewrites the Story of T. rex | Programs and Events Calendar
naturalsciences.org
November 12, 2025 at 6:43 PM
I’m so proud of the discovery made by the team at the NC Museum of Natural Sciences last month. I visited the exhibit when it opened last year and I definitely need to go back!!
naturalsciences.org/calendar/new...
naturalsciences.org/calendar/new...
Two more concerts under my belt. Back to my roots.
November 8, 2025 at 10:49 PM
Two more concerts under my belt. Back to my roots.
It’s finally out - although no Triangle restaurants received a coveted Star, several favorite date restaurants were added to the “Recommended” list.
There were also a couple on the list in Durham that I’m not familiar with; I can’t wait to check them out.
indyweek.com/food-and-dri...
There were also a couple on the list in Durham that I’m not familiar with; I can’t wait to check them out.
indyweek.com/food-and-dri...
Triangle Restaurants Score 16 Spots in New Michelin American South Guide
At the inaugural American South ceremony, the Triangle netted three Bib Gourmand designations and sixteen Michelin-recommended restaurants.
indyweek.com
November 4, 2025 at 4:17 AM
It’s finally out - although no Triangle restaurants received a coveted Star, several favorite date restaurants were added to the “Recommended” list.
There were also a couple on the list in Durham that I’m not familiar with; I can’t wait to check them out.
indyweek.com/food-and-dri...
There were also a couple on the list in Durham that I’m not familiar with; I can’t wait to check them out.
indyweek.com/food-and-dri...
Another great Halloween!! I love finding new, inventive ways to use my decorations
November 1, 2025 at 3:31 AM
Another great Halloween!! I love finding new, inventive ways to use my decorations
I get so frustrated by my apparent inability to type on my virtual keyboard (correcting the same letter as many as six times. It is a relief to know it isn’t necessarily my fault.
October 28, 2025 at 11:01 PM
I get so frustrated by my apparent inability to type on my virtual keyboard (correcting the same letter as many as six times. It is a relief to know it isn’t necessarily my fault.
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“There’s a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in.” — Leonard Cohen
October 26, 2025 at 4:25 PM
“There’s a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in.” — Leonard Cohen
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The people have spoken! I'm road tripping through:
Lexington KY 11/2
Charlotte NC 11/3-4
RDU NC 11/7-10
Charleston WV 11/11
Cincinnati OH 11/12-13
Catch me if you can!
#DateLexington #DateCharlotte #DateRaleigh #DateCharleston #DateCincinnati
Lexington KY 11/2
Charlotte NC 11/3-4
RDU NC 11/7-10
Charleston WV 11/11
Cincinnati OH 11/12-13
Catch me if you can!
#DateLexington #DateCharlotte #DateRaleigh #DateCharleston #DateCincinnati
October 24, 2025 at 7:06 PM
The people have spoken! I'm road tripping through:
Lexington KY 11/2
Charlotte NC 11/3-4
RDU NC 11/7-10
Charleston WV 11/11
Cincinnati OH 11/12-13
Catch me if you can!
#DateLexington #DateCharlotte #DateRaleigh #DateCharleston #DateCincinnati
Lexington KY 11/2
Charlotte NC 11/3-4
RDU NC 11/7-10
Charleston WV 11/11
Cincinnati OH 11/12-13
Catch me if you can!
#DateLexington #DateCharlotte #DateRaleigh #DateCharleston #DateCincinnati
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Road trip! Charlotte and RDU are confirmed. Help me choose the rest? Reach out by Oct 27 to help me decide my route! (photo throwback for funsies)
#DateFortWayne, #DateIndianapolis, or #DateCincinnati?
#DateNashville or #DateKnoxville?
#DateCharlotte Nov 4th (& possibly 3rd)
#DateRaleigh Nov 7-10
#DateFortWayne, #DateIndianapolis, or #DateCincinnati?
#DateNashville or #DateKnoxville?
#DateCharlotte Nov 4th (& possibly 3rd)
#DateRaleigh Nov 7-10
October 15, 2025 at 5:24 PM
Road trip! Charlotte and RDU are confirmed. Help me choose the rest? Reach out by Oct 27 to help me decide my route! (photo throwback for funsies)
#DateFortWayne, #DateIndianapolis, or #DateCincinnati?
#DateNashville or #DateKnoxville?
#DateCharlotte Nov 4th (& possibly 3rd)
#DateRaleigh Nov 7-10
#DateFortWayne, #DateIndianapolis, or #DateCincinnati?
#DateNashville or #DateKnoxville?
#DateCharlotte Nov 4th (& possibly 3rd)
#DateRaleigh Nov 7-10
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Pupdate: Hanging in there. Staples out next week. Biopsy results still pending.
For those who wish to send her an extra 'get well' sentiment, she is now accepting chewy gift cards.
For those who wish to send her an extra 'get well' sentiment, she is now accepting chewy gift cards.
October 16, 2025 at 1:38 AM
Pupdate: Hanging in there. Staples out next week. Biopsy results still pending.
For those who wish to send her an extra 'get well' sentiment, she is now accepting chewy gift cards.
For those who wish to send her an extra 'get well' sentiment, she is now accepting chewy gift cards.
Automatic just dropped their new album. Imagine Luscious Jackson but lo-fi and translated over to synthpop.
This album is dripping with catchy grooves and I’m already in love with it.
This album is dripping with catchy grooves and I’m already in love with it.
October 4, 2025 at 2:58 PM
Automatic just dropped their new album. Imagine Luscious Jackson but lo-fi and translated over to synthpop.
This album is dripping with catchy grooves and I’m already in love with it.
This album is dripping with catchy grooves and I’m already in love with it.
😬 A huge push for facial recognition throughout Europe.
September 27, 2025 at 1:10 PM
😬 A huge push for facial recognition throughout Europe.
Concert #5: Another bucket list after ordering their first CD from their website in 1999. There was something special about her lyrical style and the playful guitar licks. I’ve loved them ever since.
~ “It’s A Hit”, Rilo Kiley
~ “It’s A Hit”, Rilo Kiley
September 25, 2025 at 3:20 AM
Concert #5: Another bucket list after ordering their first CD from their website in 1999. There was something special about her lyrical style and the playful guitar licks. I’ve loved them ever since.
~ “It’s A Hit”, Rilo Kiley
~ “It’s A Hit”, Rilo Kiley
Concert #4 this month. This was the song that got me hooked.
~ ‘Hush’, The Marias
~ ‘Hush’, The Marias
September 24, 2025 at 3:29 AM
Concert #4 this month. This was the song that got me hooked.
~ ‘Hush’, The Marias
~ ‘Hush’, The Marias
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It’s my birthday month & I’m (finally) slowing down enough to celebrate 🥳🍾🎁
My wishlist is updated, so head to throne.com/leanalane to spoil me!
I’m also raising funds for Migrant Solidarity Mutual Aid DC (MSMA). Visit linktr.ee/dcmigrantmut... to donate or get involved 💕
My wishlist is updated, so head to throne.com/leanalane to spoil me!
I’m also raising funds for Migrant Solidarity Mutual Aid DC (MSMA). Visit linktr.ee/dcmigrantmut... to donate or get involved 💕
September 22, 2025 at 9:52 PM
It’s my birthday month & I’m (finally) slowing down enough to celebrate 🥳🍾🎁
My wishlist is updated, so head to throne.com/leanalane to spoil me!
I’m also raising funds for Migrant Solidarity Mutual Aid DC (MSMA). Visit linktr.ee/dcmigrantmut... to donate or get involved 💕
My wishlist is updated, so head to throne.com/leanalane to spoil me!
I’m also raising funds for Migrant Solidarity Mutual Aid DC (MSMA). Visit linktr.ee/dcmigrantmut... to donate or get involved 💕
A blueberry lemon lavender sour.
Cheers to drinking alone! 😆
Cheers to drinking alone! 😆
September 21, 2025 at 8:55 PM
A blueberry lemon lavender sour.
Cheers to drinking alone! 😆
Cheers to drinking alone! 😆
Which one of you made this labeling necessary? Honestly…😂
September 18, 2025 at 1:26 PM
Which one of you made this labeling necessary? Honestly…😂
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As a huge art lover, I’ll never decline an art museum date! I had such a sweet time at the BMA recently and am thrilled that we caught the Black Earth Rising exhibition before it closes this Sunday. It’s absolutely worth prioritizing if you’re in the area!
September 17, 2025 at 6:18 PM
As a huge art lover, I’ll never decline an art museum date! I had such a sweet time at the BMA recently and am thrilled that we caught the Black Earth Rising exhibition before it closes this Sunday. It’s absolutely worth prioritizing if you’re in the area!
Celebrating an anniversary of sorts today - one that can only be mentioned here..:and for discretion, that’s all I can say.
Though you may not know what or why, I invite you to celebrate with me and share in the happiness I feel today. 😊
Though you may not know what or why, I invite you to celebrate with me and share in the happiness I feel today. 😊
September 10, 2025 at 12:31 AM
Celebrating an anniversary of sorts today - one that can only be mentioned here..:and for discretion, that’s all I can say.
Though you may not know what or why, I invite you to celebrate with me and share in the happiness I feel today. 😊
Though you may not know what or why, I invite you to celebrate with me and share in the happiness I feel today. 😊