Sarah Steimer
sjsteimer.bsky.social
Sarah Steimer
@sjsteimer.bsky.social
Freelance writer, editor.
Digital editor for @chicagomag.com
All pizza opinions are my own.
Today's newsletter: If the research does show that empathy can come and go, that means we can bring it back.
Empathy can return
But we sure have made compassion tricky.
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September 16, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Reposted by Sarah Steimer
Me? Grow?
A funny thing happens on your way to self sufficiency.
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September 4, 2025 at 2:10 PM
This was one of my favorites to write... haters-guide-to-living-well.beehiiv.com/p/catching-u...
Catching up is a drag
Call me... maybe?
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July 15, 2025 at 4:54 PM
I don't have the keepsake gene, so I talked to someone who does. Also: Meredith Brooks references!
Keepsakes are clutter
But for you they're fine and good!
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July 1, 2025 at 9:21 PM
I have begrudgingly become a bit of a morning person, but that doesn't mean I think I'm better than you! (still trash at any hour)
Becoming the person I hate
Early birds are just virtue-signaling.
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June 24, 2025 at 4:51 PM
It's Friday that means it's time to list all the stuff we loved and hated (treadmills) this week! haters-guide-to-living-well.beehiiv.com/p/what-s-in-...
What's IN/OUT this week
I'm on a treadmill to hell.
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June 20, 2025 at 3:48 PM
This week, I complain about participating in democracy (I am tired!) haters-guide-to-living-well.beehiiv.com/p/please-don...
Please don't make me take it to the streets
Hang on I gotta pop into a peaceful demonstration real quick.
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June 17, 2025 at 1:24 PM
Hello to the six people who follow me — I'm launching a newsletter!! haters-guide-to-living-well.beehiiv.com/subscribe
Hater's Guide to Living Well
Let’s get critical.
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June 6, 2025 at 4:48 PM
Clicked on this so fast. With so much miserable news, I wonder if we're going to see service journalism surge so we can feel some semblance of control.

Also I love Tips About Beans.
Stocking up on certain food ingredients when you spot them at a lower price can help you save significantly. We talked to a few budget experts about what items they buy and how they make the most of them. nyti.ms/4hpBEKU
March 20, 2025 at 6:31 PM
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wired.com WIRED @wired.com · Mar 18
They're called public records for a reason. Starting today, WIRED will *stop paywalling* articles that are primarily based on public records obtained through the Freedom of Information Act, becoming the first publication to partner with @freedom.press to offer this for our new coverage.
Wired is dropping paywalls for FOIA-based reporting. Others should follow
As the administration does its best to hide public records from the public, Wired magazine is stepping up to help stem the secrecy
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March 18, 2025 at 7:49 PM
It was a blast working on the digital side of this package. It's a great list by @amycavanaugh.bsky.social and @karlklockars.bsky.social (with excellent photos from @jaclynrivas.bsky.social and others). Go get freezer martinis and beers and whiskeys! Whatever!
Chicago’s 10 Best New Bars, Ranked
The latest top spots for a tipple include a standard-setting hotel bar and an all-day coffee-to-cocktails hangout.
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January 30, 2025 at 11:02 PM
This podcast sounds super interesting — but should I listen first or wait until I have a chance to read the book... 😬https://www.chicagomag.com/arts-culture/new-podcast-revisits-studs-terkels-division-street-america/
New Podcast Revisits Studs Terkel’s <em>Division Street America</em>
A team of journalists — including Melissa Harris and Mary Schmich — follow up with the families of seven Chicagoans from Terkel's 1967 oral history.
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January 24, 2025 at 8:32 PM