Sigma
Sigma
@sigmathezeta.bsky.social
Amateur author, amateur sketch artist, amateur speaker, Iliad-reciter, book-dragon, very proud trans-frump, ambiguously zooey, friend of non-humans, pescetarian, bug-eater, dog-magnet, cat-furniture, horse-whisperer, goat-hugger, cockatoo-taxi.
That is the place where you find the common thread between those ideas that have been the most resistant to this effect, and strengthen that common thread.

As far as mental health, I would suggest time-discipline, strict screen-breaks, limits on how much time is spent on any individual activity.
March 6, 2024 at 1:00 PM
This is an emotionally complicated topic for many people.

In a way, my parents make my life simple. They think my being transgender is a malicious attempt to embarrass them, so I shut my heart to them.

For others, it's not so simple.

People should come out when they are ready. I am glad you were.
March 6, 2024 at 3:39 AM
I tend to have the belief that knowledge is good, regardless of whether it results in destigmatization or not.

If I am a member of any group, then if acting out my feelings does not cause harm, then I deserve to know. If it does cause harm, it is my responsibility to know.

Knowledge is good.
March 6, 2024 at 3:17 AM
I will say that I ended up pursuing darker subject matter through non-sexual fantasy, though.

In the series, The Realm of the Elderlings, by Robin Hobb, the dragons practice ritual cannabilism, for example.
March 6, 2024 at 3:12 AM
I would not call myself perfectly asexual. I habitually engage in behavior that results in my partners wanting to escalate. It's not like I don't know what they are going to do. I just consider it a fair exchange: I get petted on and fussed over like a princess, and they get to do what they like.
March 6, 2024 at 3:05 AM
I believe that more research is needed on many of these widely stigmatized groups. Most people seem to go straight from not knowing anything about a group to violently hating them.
March 6, 2024 at 3:03 AM
Like I said earlier, I have lost almost all interest in erotic digital content. Even with my human lovers, I am not really motivated, for my own sake, to go beyond snuggling and petting.

Therefore, I am ready to admit that I am outside my wheelhouse.
March 6, 2024 at 2:59 AM
Ah, I remember that study! I ran across that while I was trying to explain why I believed some MAPs might be candidates for rehabilitation. That kind of blew up in my face, though.

Some people think you're a villain if you don't want to kill the same people they do. Go figure.
March 6, 2024 at 2:53 AM
I am not sure that I agree with a prohibitionist point-of-view, to be honest.

I tend to see it from a health perspective. I think that positive content tends to better support positive emotional health.

Banning something can sometimes paradoxically inflame people's interest in it, though.
March 6, 2024 at 2:47 AM
I can admit that I am speaking outside my area of knowledge, in regard to pornography. I lost interest in erotic digital content a long time ago. I only hang out with zoos for the community, to be honest.

Therefore, I can go as far as admitting I may be a less than perfectly informed opinion.
March 6, 2024 at 2:44 AM
I am glad you found it interesting enough to take a close look at!
March 6, 2024 at 2:42 AM
Occasional detransitioners are actually a good reason to put more money into studying transgender people, so pediatricians and other doctors can work to make sure there are better outcomes. As a transgender person, myself, it is very important to me that energy is being invested in getting it right.
March 6, 2024 at 2:39 AM
I am fine with most feral stuff, just as long as the non-human is not obviously underage or being forced.

However, while it doesn't affect everybody, the evidence says that some people should definitely avoid violent fantasies.

I'm not generalizing, though.

www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/uniq...
March 6, 2024 at 2:31 AM
In the zoo community, we are actually a lot more strict when it comes to fantasy fetishes. We are actually against violence or force being promoted even in "fantasy" contexts. The problem is that the fantasy can normalize the behavior.
March 6, 2024 at 2:18 AM
Does it bother you that I have made utter mincemeat out of your own hateful apologetics?
March 6, 2024 at 1:45 AM
Is the fact that I am right the part that bothers you?
March 6, 2024 at 1:44 AM
It's idiotic to assume that an animal understands the concept of species sufficiently for them to even care. Animals are simple-minded. They know what feels good and what doesn't. They only understand sophisticated emotions like trust at the most basic hormonal level.
March 6, 2024 at 1:43 AM
I have pointed out logic to you, dude.
March 6, 2024 at 1:41 AM
Ironically, the only reason I ever took an interest in the zoo community was because of random furries proudly telling the world how much they hated members of this group.

Before that, zoo was a half-forgotten experience from a confusing adolescence.

Our community only exists because of you.
March 6, 2024 at 1:37 AM
You're pestering me by filling my own environment with unnecessary hostility.

I'm not even ordinarily prurient, and I have no interest whatsoever in erotic content of any kind.

If you look at my timeline, I talk mostly about poetry, trans life, and philosophy.
March 6, 2024 at 1:31 AM
I can assure you that I stay well clear of furries. I find them to be overly prurient, and I think they are more permissive toward MAPs than we are in the zoo spaces I frequent.
March 6, 2024 at 12:58 AM
Zoos can have the same challenges in the management of our communities. Sometimes, we get general paraphilia enthusiasts that are genuinely confused that we don't like for them to indulge every twisted sexual fantasy they have, and it can be frustrating to establish boundaries within our spaces.
March 6, 2024 at 12:55 AM