i tell you what - my chosen name is feminine. like, yeah i picked it when i was identifying as genderfluid, but i just like my name and i have no interest in changing it to something strictly masculine to prove im a real manly man. no other name got stuck to me like sheila did!

online multiplayer mode? don't care. new cutscenes? they don't provide anything good to the already great story. english dub? bro just make it an update for the original game. playstation and xbox gamers im so sorry about the news

i personally identify as fujoshi instead of fudanshi because that's just the term i started with. i have no emotional connection to the latter, and i'm not gonna take it just because i'm a man. human experience is complexed and full of nuance

even after i realized that i am a gay binary trans man, i still can't really escape a potential bullying over my appretiation for yaoi, because i will be still perceived as a weird delusional straight cis woman who just fetishizes gay men. it's like it never was about the "fetishization"

some may say that "well if it's a straight woman then it's not okay for her to enjoy mlm stories" and. first of all that's not true, no one should get shamed and harassed over fiction. second of all in this house we're not forcing anyone to out themselves just to accept their interests

and, like. i had to unfollow a few very cool artists over that. not only it's misogynistic in its core, it is also super queerphobic to shame people for enjoying queer love and/or kink stories, no matter what their actual identity is

thank you. as a man who identifies specifically as fujoshi, i'm so sick of people who spread shit like "yaoi is fetishization of mlm relationships by straight women" because have they ever considered that ummm there are plenty of yaoi enjoyers who are not straight and/or not women

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I'm gonna eat all ur cabbage