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you are loved and appreciated, please don't let your mind think otherwise ❤️
November 26, 2025 at 7:27 PM
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All the alt text wouldn't fit in one image sorry. Ice climbers unrelated.
futureevilscientist People in the BDSM and kink communities are the only people who are normal about sex, actually, and we should all learn from them. I think everyone should familiarise themselves with the theory for such key concepts as consent, rejecting a sexual practice for yourself without judging it morally for others, sub drop and how it can happen even in the most vanilla sexual encounters, and aftercare and how it's often needed in even the most vanilla sexual encounters (but often treated as a joke and something to ridicule). futureevilscientist Summary for those who haven't read the links: Sub drop is basically getting the endrophin high from sex and then crashing hard from it. You just had an amazing, intense experience, so why do you want to cry??? Why do you feel weird and empty and alone? Even if you don't get the outright crash, when the horniness fades, it catches up to you just how vulnerable you've been, and it's natural and common to feel a little lost and alone after that. Contrary to what the term implies, you don't need to be the submissive party to experience this. Note how much vanilla sex culture ridicules this ("crying after sex" jokes, etc.). Aftercare is the antidote to sub drop, it's the post-sex affirmation that things are good and you are safe and appreciated. Common forms include cuddling, ice cream, taking a warm shower together, wrapping yourself in your fuzziest softest bathrobe available and general relaxation together. Comfort and reassurance. Note how much vanilla sex culture condemns people as "needy" for wanting this kind of treatment, or for being upset that their partner just walks out on them after sex. (The people being condemned as "needy" are usually women, but I don't even want to think about how much men certainly need this comfort too but feel like they can't ask for it without being seen as un-masculine.) This is what I mean when I say BDSMers and kinksters are the only ones who have this shit figured out. None of these things are actually exclusive to BDSM and kinky sex, vanilla sex for everyone would be SO MUCH BETTER if these things were part of universal sex ed.
November 8, 2025 at 5:32 PM
seven21kaz.bsky.social
:|
October 16, 2025 at 7:24 PM
seven21kaz.bsky.social
"Woah, sick fit, I bet your pronouns go crazy"
October 13, 2025 at 7:38 PM
seven21kaz.bsky.social
Tennelle you are John SoRiku at this point
September 27, 2025 at 5:52 AM
seven21kaz.bsky.social
Super Lesbian Animal RPG
September 9, 2025 at 6:52 AM