We also had a significant family trauma happen in June. I hate this for you but am grateful for your post, which makes me feel less alone. Here's a pic of our beautiful and brainless cat. May you find this kind of rest soon!

He's a bodice ripper. The Fabio of cats. He's so pretty and has so few brain cells.

I'm so sorry - how awful. It reminds me of this evergreen quote, although unfortunately I don't know the original author:

hello, bluesky