real/fake is an unhelpful binary for adoptive/biological parents!!! Only note on an otherwise fun movie

thank you!! I hope to finish it soon!

it literally ended 25 years after I was adopted… truly couldn’t have asked for a more satisfying timespan. the numbers guy in me is rlly pleased by this

documenting this bc I feel knocked out by the timing. the novel is an archive bc it’s about looking back and trying to sort out some meaning. but looking back & knowing that adoption from China is *over* feels beyond strange

whoaa thank you for putting this on my radar I love her work so much I must read!!!

me: it’s a five minute drive here and the other one is across from my house I know that’s not a lot but I’m lazy

her: it’s okay I get it

me: maybe I’ll check out the vibes of the Safeway pharmacy first I bet the vibes here are better

her: 😇🥰