big fan of both angel and vox. my fav wholesome ship is huskerdust but my fav angst ship is valangel

i keep seeing people insist millie’s pregnancy “WILL sideline her in the story” and it’s like. it hasn’t even happened yet. why are you so confident about this in the first place? do you think women can’t be pregnant and also have compelling stories???

hence my use of “*if* you aren’t cluster b” and not “*when* you aren’t cluster b” but if that comment hurt you i sincerely apologize as that was not my intention

like “you’re being unreasonable and mean! stop yelling at me!” is a classic textbook response when you’re criticized for bigotry (echos of the ‘feminazis’ reactionary narrative) but like idgaf y’all are gonna say that no matter what i say, why should i be forever kind in the face of dehumanization?

demonizing cluster b people is unreasonable by default, and the fact that you don’t think it is is further proving my point. why am i as a disabled person supposed to maintain perfect kindness and composure when faced with dehumanization?

not only did not apologize for using this language, but responded to a disabled person advocating for other disabled people like THIS. bsky.app/profile/miss...

or explain why she felt the need to use these terms. these terms contribute to the demonization that destroys the lives of cluster b people. it dehumanizes us. it deems us guilty until proven innocent, and excusing it this quickly is borderline complacency, especially when the person in question

respectfully, i strongly disagree that you were right this time. i get that it can be really easy to forgive this stuff if you aren’t cluster b yourself, but this isn’t just poor wording when a pejorative like “sociopath” is being used, and when this person has done nothing to clarify her position

you “have better things to do than get into a debate” because your position is completely unjustifiable.

other people may give you the benefit of the doubt completely unearned, but i will not stay silent and passive at the oppression my cluster b siblings face, and your indifference won’t change it

i’m not “looking to start an argument,” i’m calling out your ableist language. i’m *so^ sorry that i wasn’t nice enough about you using language that implicates the people i love as being “garbo people,” and you are not special in my calling you out. i *always* advocate for disabled people.

no hate to you for wanting to assume the best of people, but literally what other way is there to interpret that? what could be the non-ableist interpretation of that comment?

you would think that the fandom for the show about redemption wouldn’t be super fucking nasty to people with lifelong disabilities, but i guess not!