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Robert Waldinger
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Director of Harvard Study of Adult Development | Zen Master | Author of “The Good Life” |
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In the busyness of life, we can lose connection with our truest selves.

Stillness is where we find clarity, meaning, and the truth of who we are.

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August 5, 2025 at 6:43 PM
In my conversation with Deepak Chopra, we explored an important insight: instead of just asking, “What makes me happy?” we should ask, “Who is asking?” The idea of a fixed “self” doesn’t hold up. True contentment comes from seeing ourselves as part of a greater whole.
July 23, 2025 at 4:35 PM
Buddhist philosophy, the bedrock of Zen, teaches us that life is inherently unsatisfactory due to its constant change. We often resist what we dislike, but accepting impermanence is the path to finding peace.

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July 17, 2025 at 4:53 PM
What makes a good life? After 85+ years of data, the answer is surprisingly simple—and deeply human. Watch the abridged talk, and the full version here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=eEIF...
July 10, 2025 at 5:17 PM
Some truths don’t need fixing or solving—they just need to be seen.
Peace often begins when we stop resisting what is.

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July 1, 2025 at 4:21 PM
Zen teaches that “ordinary mind is the way.” True joy isn’t in the future—it’s in the present. When we stop chasing and start noticing, life becomes vast and full.

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June 24, 2025 at 4:44 PM
There’s no final destination in life, only a journey. Deepak Chopra and I discussed how contentment isn’t a fixed endpoint but a continual process. True peace comes from embracing life’s flow—both highs and lows. How do you navigate your journey?
June 13, 2025 at 5:16 PM
Pleasure isn’t the enemy - chasing emotional highs is. Real joy comes from simple, lasting experiences: friends, nature, music, and play. It’s about balance, not deprivation

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June 10, 2025 at 5:39 PM
In my conversation with @deepakchopra.bsky.social, we explored how income, education, and location impact health and life expectancy. But when it comes to happiness, studies show that after meeting basic needs (~$75k/yr), more money isn't the path to happiness. Wealth doesn’t equal fulfillment.
May 8, 2025 at 5:45 PM
In my research and work as a psychotherapist and Zen teacher, I've witnessed the profound impact of human connection on our well-being. It's not about awards or comparisons, but about serving others and finding meaning in our connections to those around us.
April 29, 2025 at 6:59 PM
Did you know we all have a happiness set point? Research shows that even after winning the lottery or facing tragedy, people eventually return to their usual happiness levels. But the good news? We can take action to boost our well-being.
April 22, 2025 at 4:47 PM
Staying in seems tempting, but have you noticed you usually enjoy yourself when you go out? We’re bad at predicting happiness - so say yes to connection more often!

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April 10, 2025 at 4:10 PM
"Wherever you go, there you are." - Jon Kabat-Zinn

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April 8, 2025 at 4:27 PM
Privilege impacts longevity—but not happiness. In my chat with Deepak Chopra, we discussed the Harvard Study’s findings: privileged men lived 10 years longer, but both groups reported similar happiness levels. Happiness isn’t defined by wealth—true fulfillment comes from our connections.
April 3, 2025 at 8:29 PM
Think small talk is awkward? A study found commuters who spoke to strangers enjoyed their ride more -despite expecting the opposite. A quick chat can be the key to a better day!

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March 27, 2025 at 5:41 PM