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Acknowledging your teeny, tiny trauma recovery "wins" at the end of the day is not some feel good "participation trophy" bullsh*t. It's how we reinforce & build recovery supporting habits in our nervous system, & also how we track what is & isn't working.
October 20, 2025 at 11:14 PM
Acknowledging your teeny, tiny trauma recovery "wins" at the end of the day is not some feel good "participation trophy" bullsh*t. It's how we reinforce & build recovery supporting habits in our nervous system, & also how we track what is & isn't working.
God that was terrible. There’s a huge conference near target but I NEEDED silverware so I can eat.
October 14, 2025 at 11:06 PM
God that was terrible. There’s a huge conference near target but I NEEDED silverware so I can eat.
Just breaking in my new apt bathroom lighting as one does ;)
October 13, 2025 at 2:35 AM
Just breaking in my new apt bathroom lighting as one does ;)
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Trauma recovery is not "just letting yourself feel." Survivors often feel things at 1740% intensity.
"Letting ourselves feel" isn't the problem-- the problem more often is we've been left to feel overwhelming sh*t w/ no support or tools to realistically process or metabolize it.
"Letting ourselves feel" isn't the problem-- the problem more often is we've been left to feel overwhelming sh*t w/ no support or tools to realistically process or metabolize it.
September 21, 2025 at 5:35 PM
Trauma recovery is not "just letting yourself feel." Survivors often feel things at 1740% intensity.
"Letting ourselves feel" isn't the problem-- the problem more often is we've been left to feel overwhelming sh*t w/ no support or tools to realistically process or metabolize it.
"Letting ourselves feel" isn't the problem-- the problem more often is we've been left to feel overwhelming sh*t w/ no support or tools to realistically process or metabolize it.
I am straight up not having a Baja blast rn. Shit has hit the fan entirely & I just really want to buy myself a treat today.
September 12, 2025 at 3:43 PM
I am straight up not having a Baja blast rn. Shit has hit the fan entirely & I just really want to buy myself a treat today.
I am… uncomfortably horny rn
September 11, 2025 at 4:53 AM
I am… uncomfortably horny rn
Just like the way I look these days 🤷🏼♂️
September 11, 2025 at 3:19 AM
Just like the way I look these days 🤷🏼♂️
Okay where tf do yall get your jeans? This happens like after 6 months no matter where I get them. Help me! I’m too poor for all this 🍑
August 28, 2025 at 3:26 AM
Okay where tf do yall get your jeans? This happens like after 6 months no matter where I get them. Help me! I’m too poor for all this 🍑
The way my watch just asked if I took a big fall because I’m trying to mute my laughter watching Freakier Friday by slapping my leg 😂
August 27, 2025 at 10:58 PM
The way my watch just asked if I took a big fall because I’m trying to mute my laughter watching Freakier Friday by slapping my leg 😂
I’m so tired of being so broke. I fucked up. I’m about 250 in the hole til the first since I don’t get this fat check for the festival til god knows when. I’ve got $11 in food money til the 2nd & no food lol.
August 23, 2025 at 9:47 PM
I’m so tired of being so broke. I fucked up. I’m about 250 in the hole til the first since I don’t get this fat check for the festival til god knows when. I’ve got $11 in food money til the 2nd & no food lol.
@foodfortheangels.bsky.social angel!!!! You literal angel!
a woman in a purple shirt is crying and making a funny face
ALT: a woman in a purple shirt is crying and making a funny face
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July 31, 2025 at 3:06 AM
@foodfortheangels.bsky.social angel!!!! You literal angel!
Felt really hot last night. Too bad dysphoria ruined it & left before I got name suggestions.
July 25, 2025 at 3:12 AM
Felt really hot last night. Too bad dysphoria ruined it & left before I got name suggestions.
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there was a time when we had no shortage of spaces for young artists, fringe artists, queer artists, to set up shop but now?
there's plenty to be said about this, but it will never not piss me off that we have soooo much wealth accumulated in SF yet we're all still struggling to keep lights the on
there's plenty to be said about this, but it will never not piss me off that we have soooo much wealth accumulated in SF yet we're all still struggling to keep lights the on
Very sad news @sfoasis.bsky.social announces closing. The beloved drag club owned by SF Drag Laureate D'Arcy Drollinger hopes to stay open until New Years Eve.
www.sfchronicle.com/entertainmen...
www.sfchronicle.com/entertainmen...
S.F. drag club to close as latest victim of Bay Area arts death spiral
The famed LGBTQ venue, owned by San Francisco Drag Laureate D’arcy Drollinger, has hosted celebrities from Cher to Jane Fonda and countless “RuPaul’s Drag Race” stars.
www.sfchronicle.com
July 21, 2025 at 6:52 PM
there was a time when we had no shortage of spaces for young artists, fringe artists, queer artists, to set up shop but now?
there's plenty to be said about this, but it will never not piss me off that we have soooo much wealth accumulated in SF yet we're all still struggling to keep lights the on
there's plenty to be said about this, but it will never not piss me off that we have soooo much wealth accumulated in SF yet we're all still struggling to keep lights the on
Gonna be couch surfing come August & low key wanna just get rid of everything I own except my bed & like 2 weeks worth of clothing
July 15, 2025 at 11:16 PM
Gonna be couch surfing come August & low key wanna just get rid of everything I own except my bed & like 2 weeks worth of clothing
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This thread has given me so much serotonin thank you bluesky! ❤️
July 10, 2025 at 10:57 PM
This thread has given me so much serotonin thank you bluesky! ❤️
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moaning “im gonna cum” during sex but pronouncing cum like I would for cum laude
July 10, 2025 at 7:11 PM
moaning “im gonna cum” during sex but pronouncing cum like I would for cum laude
Well, I finally slept. Like 2:30am-4pm. Only woke up at noon to pee & feed my son. I needed a place to myself to not think about anything for so long.
July 5, 2025 at 2:20 AM
Well, I finally slept. Like 2:30am-4pm. Only woke up at noon to pee & feed my son. I needed a place to myself to not think about anything for so long.
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We need answers—now. Where is our sister Hilary Rivers? ICE took her the morning after Pride with no warning, no due process, and no communication. This is not justice—this is kidnapping. We demand transparency, accountability, and her immediate release.
Read more: 48hills.org/2025/06/drag...
Read more: 48hills.org/2025/06/drag...
Drag performer taken by ICE, morning after Pride Week pageant - 48 hills
HIlary Rivers was detained during a scheduled immigration appointment in downtown SF after Miss & Mr. Safe Latino Pageant.
48hills.org
June 27, 2025 at 7:31 PM
We need answers—now. Where is our sister Hilary Rivers? ICE took her the morning after Pride with no warning, no due process, and no communication. This is not justice—this is kidnapping. We demand transparency, accountability, and her immediate release.
Read more: 48hills.org/2025/06/drag...
Read more: 48hills.org/2025/06/drag...
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People who actually love you don't expect you to sacrifice your safety, stability, or authenticity as the price of admission to a relationship with them.
Love cares about how you feel & function.
Love cares about how you feel & function.
June 25, 2025 at 12:25 AM
People who actually love you don't expect you to sacrifice your safety, stability, or authenticity as the price of admission to a relationship with them.
Love cares about how you feel & function.
Love cares about how you feel & function.
Well, powers out on multiple blocks. On the plus side, we don’t have much in the fridge?
June 19, 2025 at 11:30 PM
Well, powers out on multiple blocks. On the plus side, we don’t have much in the fridge?
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I do not understand loud and proud transphobes. if I was a creepy weirdo who was obsessed with the genitals of strangers, I would take that information to the grave.
June 18, 2025 at 9:24 PM
I do not understand loud and proud transphobes. if I was a creepy weirdo who was obsessed with the genitals of strangers, I would take that information to the grave.
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When you’re writing smut and you’re running out of ways to describe dicks and cum
June 18, 2025 at 1:36 AM
When you’re writing smut and you’re running out of ways to describe dicks and cum
So gd exhausted & run down. 🫠😩 but Oliver is alive so there’s that
June 16, 2025 at 7:55 PM
So gd exhausted & run down. 🫠😩 but Oliver is alive so there’s that