Pat Abby 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
@pat-abby.bsky.social
Closeted and genderfluid in the “war torn hell hole” that is Portland. My mains are masc presenting, which is all everyone that knows me in meatspace knows. This space is a spot for me to be my femme-self.
Pronouns: she/her
Pronouns: she/her
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Howdy y’all. I’m not sure if #introductions are in order or not. But just in case, allow me to (re)introduce myself. I’m well past midlife, happily married to a fantastic woman with whom I have now adult child. (Wow, that was the most jarring part of writing this thread.) 1/5…
December 5, 2025 at 6:23 AM
Feeling particularly girly today. Realized I have no meetings, just a heads down work day. So double shaved smooth face, tucked and gaffed and girdled under a pair of tights and a loose flowy tunic. Makeup and jewelry and at my desk only 15 minutes “late”. (Still 15 min earlier than normal!) 🏳️⚧️👩💻
December 3, 2025 at 5:33 PM
Feeling particularly girly today. Realized I have no meetings, just a heads down work day. So double shaved smooth face, tucked and gaffed and girdled under a pair of tights and a loose flowy tunic. Makeup and jewelry and at my desk only 15 minutes “late”. (Still 15 min earlier than normal!) 🏳️⚧️👩💻
Today was an ok day. Wife got to watch her Packers win, and her fantasy team all did well, so she will be happy this evening. I spent the day in the kitchen… fancy cranberry relish, vegan chocolate pie, and the mis en place for decadent brunch, all for my found family thanksgiving this weekend. ⏭️
November 28, 2025 at 7:19 AM
Today was an ok day. Wife got to watch her Packers win, and her fantasy team all did well, so she will be happy this evening. I spent the day in the kitchen… fancy cranberry relish, vegan chocolate pie, and the mis en place for decadent brunch, all for my found family thanksgiving this weekend. ⏭️
I wish @bsky.app had a way to view a hashtag while excluding anything also tagged with another one. Just some basic Boolean filters on then. And, or, not should do it.
November 24, 2025 at 6:02 PM
I wish @bsky.app had a way to view a hashtag while excluding anything also tagged with another one. Just some basic Boolean filters on then. And, or, not should do it.
Like many other seasonal sports widows, I try to connect with my spouse by embracing their preferred team. Recently that meant #💅 time in team colors. Doesn't hurt that they're the only publicly owned team in the league, and the team colors are kinda cute. Can I get a #GoPackGo ?
November 24, 2025 at 7:58 AM
I’ve never understood the folks that have 10 different seemingly random colors on their nails. But last week I had tried a new color—it’s a gorgeous lavender that I just love—but I was rushed and it turns out it doesn’t hold up well on its own. I ruined two before I got top coat on them. ⏭️ #💅 #nails
November 17, 2025 at 1:15 AM
I’ve never understood the folks that have 10 different seemingly random colors on their nails. But last week I had tried a new color—it’s a gorgeous lavender that I just love—but I was rushed and it turns out it doesn’t hold up well on its own. I ruined two before I got top coat on them. ⏭️ #💅 #nails
Do other #transfemme folks feel a little grossed out by the term “sissy” applied outside of submissive kink? I was just looking at some nice feminine underwear built for male anatomy, was ready to spend a couple hundred dollars, then while looking at other colors and cuts kept seeing that word. 😒
November 14, 2025 at 10:15 PM
Do other #transfemme folks feel a little grossed out by the term “sissy” applied outside of submissive kink? I was just looking at some nice feminine underwear built for male anatomy, was ready to spend a couple hundred dollars, then while looking at other colors and cuts kept seeing that word. 😒
The dysphoria really kicks it up to 11 when you are looking at cute outfits and thinking “oh I would totally rock that look” only to find they don’t even come close to your size because you’re a big old dude. I blame Amazon for last nights crying to sleep, searched for plus size, got shown petites.
November 13, 2025 at 4:30 PM
The dysphoria really kicks it up to 11 when you are looking at cute outfits and thinking “oh I would totally rock that look” only to find they don’t even come close to your size because you’re a big old dude. I blame Amazon for last nights crying to sleep, searched for plus size, got shown petites.
100% nailed it. Almost no notes. Just missing ALT Text for greater accessibility. I’ll provide that in replies.
November 10, 2025 at 9:19 PM
100% nailed it. Almost no notes. Just missing ALT Text for greater accessibility. I’ll provide that in replies.
Silly little #genderFluid first I just noticed and had to record for my own personal posterity: for the first time ever, the trigger for needing to do laundry was not zero boxers in the drawer, it was zero PANTIES! Boxers still out numbered panties in the wash 3:2… but that may also be a record.
November 6, 2025 at 5:15 AM
Silly little #genderFluid first I just noticed and had to record for my own personal posterity: for the first time ever, the trigger for needing to do laundry was not zero boxers in the drawer, it was zero PANTIES! Boxers still out numbered panties in the wash 3:2… but that may also be a record.
Reposted by Pat Abby 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Europe’s gas prices are still far above the U.S.
Sept 2025: $11.1 vs $3.0 per MMBtu — nearly 4× higher.
Even before the crisis, Europe paid more.
The only lasting fix? Less gas, more renewable energy, more efficiency and more clean electrification. ⚡️
Sept 2025: $11.1 vs $3.0 per MMBtu — nearly 4× higher.
Even before the crisis, Europe paid more.
The only lasting fix? Less gas, more renewable energy, more efficiency and more clean electrification. ⚡️
November 2, 2025 at 3:33 PM
Europe’s gas prices are still far above the U.S.
Sept 2025: $11.1 vs $3.0 per MMBtu — nearly 4× higher.
Even before the crisis, Europe paid more.
The only lasting fix? Less gas, more renewable energy, more efficiency and more clean electrification. ⚡️
Sept 2025: $11.1 vs $3.0 per MMBtu — nearly 4× higher.
Even before the crisis, Europe paid more.
The only lasting fix? Less gas, more renewable energy, more efficiency and more clean electrification. ⚡️
Well after I had come out to her, my wife finally introduced me to someone she’s been subscribed to for ages, @verawylde.bsky.social by sharing this short: youtube.com/shorts/6J7jH... I watched it on repeat for like 20 minutes. “Dress go spinny” is now coded communication in our lives. 🥰💃
It’s been a journey
YouTube video by Vera Wylde
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November 2, 2025 at 9:07 PM
Well after I had come out to her, my wife finally introduced me to someone she’s been subscribed to for ages, @verawylde.bsky.social by sharing this short: youtube.com/shorts/6J7jH... I watched it on repeat for like 20 minutes. “Dress go spinny” is now coded communication in our lives. 🥰💃
Howdy y’all. I’m not sure if #introductions are in order or not. But just in case, allow me to (re)introduce myself. I’m well past midlife, happily married to a fantastic woman with whom I have now adult child. (Wow, that was the most jarring part of writing this thread.) 1/5…
November 2, 2025 at 8:55 PM
Howdy y’all. I’m not sure if #introductions are in order or not. But just in case, allow me to (re)introduce myself. I’m well past midlife, happily married to a fantastic woman with whom I have now adult child. (Wow, that was the most jarring part of writing this thread.) 1/5…