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Nina Sano • SF Bay| FMTY
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Your guide to real intimacy
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When someone makes burning man their whole personality, it feels maladjusted and childish. I’m all about being child-like, not childish
September 17, 2025 at 2:30 AM
I am genuinely shocked when I hear from my friends (women in their 30’s and older) that a guy will ask to pay half of the bill on the first date. On the countless first dates I’ve been on, I’ve never been asked to split and intend to keep it that way
September 8, 2025 at 6:28 PM
I was telling my writer friend that I’m open to dating in my personal life again. I joked, “men may not like me because I make baller money from org**ms”

His response: “dude! I’m so stealing that quote and putting it on a t-shirt!”😹
September 4, 2025 at 2:08 AM
The whole “m0ney is energy” thing needs to stop. That’s so 2022, babe
September 3, 2025 at 9:28 PM
Men who fear women with a “high b0dy c0unt” often think of them like used cars—worn out with too many miles. But women aren’t machines. They’re more like fine wine: depth, complexity, and value growth with experience. If you can’t appreciate that, maybe you’re not ready to drink 🍷
August 9, 2025 at 3:30 AM
This work has made my libido so high that I have decided when I retire, one of the first things I’m going to do is attend a 5-day silent retreat and then be celibate for at least three months. It’s my way of coming back to an equilibrium, I guess?
July 30, 2025 at 2:38 AM
I was at a cafe and kept making eyes with a guy there and wanted him to approach me. I then heard his voice when he ordered a drink, and I was like, “Oh….never mind”

Like smell, voice is an indicator of biological compatibility. I want children, so this is a non-negotiable
July 21, 2025 at 11:20 PM
I was thinking about how the type we idealize ourselves dating are often not the ones we end up with. My ex once said, “I would never have guessed you would be my type, until I met and experienced you”. I found that interesting, and I completely feel that with a few past lovers
July 21, 2025 at 3:42 AM
An impressive bank account doesn’t automatically make a man a provider. Being a provider type is a mentality, devotion and attitude
July 21, 2025 at 1:21 AM
The push and pull between being a good husband and the inner rebellious teenager is so real
July 19, 2025 at 2:39 AM
I will think about clients working and get turned on, especially when I know they genuinely like it and find meaning in it
July 18, 2025 at 5:48 PM
Take it all in 🌿
June 20, 2025 at 11:23 PM
My dating life came up with a client and he bluntly said, “if you don’t feel protected, you’re just wasting your time”. So simple, but so true. I feel best with a protector and provider 😌
June 17, 2025 at 7:39 PM
The inquiry and email exchange set the tone for the date. When your email/inquiry lacks essential information and is a bit robotic, my body is already closed off. I can confidentially say my communication is personable and clear, and I only want clients who match that
June 17, 2025 at 4:22 PM
A client showed me his protein bar that uses “all natural ingredients”, so I read the wrapper and womansplained him why that’s not true lol
June 17, 2025 at 1:32 AM
I’m often told I’m a free spirit, but I think it’s more that it’s been normalized to be numb to life, so I am perceived that way
June 16, 2025 at 10:46 PM
I just heard breasts being referred to as “the heart’s blossoms”, so no wonder mine are so full 🌹
June 16, 2025 at 10:00 PM
I like having friends that prefer to eat with the sun and understand that 8pm is too late to get dinner
June 16, 2025 at 12:48 AM
I told my friend I need a boyfriend because I’m always h0rny and his response was, “no, he wouldn’t even be able to keep up with you. Just keep doing what you’re doing” 😹
June 15, 2025 at 10:39 PM
When he’s skilled at going down on me, I will often ask how he’s so good at it. I hear the common response of, “I just love it” or “I really enjoy it”. So yeah, do what you love and follow your passions in life
June 13, 2025 at 2:36 AM
Sky blue is my favorite color 🩵
June 12, 2025 at 4:36 PM
This is how I want to be all summer
June 10, 2025 at 12:11 AM
Men who genuinely enjoy going down on women are the ones who experience the nectar of life
June 1, 2025 at 11:02 PM
People can get jealous when they realize you’re getting paid for something you enjoy
May 30, 2025 at 9:02 PM
Sometimes I will receive an itinerary for a date that makes me so giddy, that I need to bask in it first before responding
May 22, 2025 at 12:55 AM