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There’s a lot of good writing out there by engineering managers who want to code but can’t anymore. What about *wanting to want* to code, though? :
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Burnout Chronicles III: Return to the Code
"These things are fun and fun is good" - Dr. Seuss
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September 20, 2025 at 11:25 AM
Today’s post is about one of the least enjoyable parts of management: comp planning. It’s easy to forget that each number in your spreadsheet represents a distinct point in someone’s financial journey. Read on to learn all about comp convo trap #1: apathy:
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Unpleasant manager task #52: Year end compensation updates
How not to talk to your engineers about money
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June 5, 2025 at 8:31 PM
“I was a senior engineer on the verge of staff with precisely zero systems design experience.
How was I hired into this role without it, you ask?
I don’t know.“

This week’s post is about decision making, insecurity, and assuming best intent.

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That time it was obvious that I didn't know what I was doing and my CTO had to give me The Talk
What my crummy first system design project taught me about decision making, insecurity, and assuming best intent.
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May 22, 2025 at 4:53 PM
"Overloaded engineers quickly turn into burned out engineers. ...Pick up a shovel."
I used to run this exercise with my overloaded engineers as a manager when it was clear that they couldn't dig out on their own:
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How you, the manager, can help your overloaded engineer dig out
Because sometimes they need a little help
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May 15, 2025 at 11:23 AM
In this week's post I explore project blockers that aren't really blockers with a short detour through postpartum land:
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Key takeaways include:
1. Dependencies <> blockers
2. Routine is good until it isn't

#software #project-management #litter-boxes
Stinky litter boxes and fuzzy teeth
Dependencies are not the same things as blockers
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May 5, 2025 at 2:59 PM
Some folks have excellent meeting endurance but I decidedly do not. This week's post is about what I do not just to get by but to turn meetings into something that I can actually engage with.
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My meeting toolbox
Things I do to stay engaged past the twenty minute mark
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April 13, 2025 at 12:31 AM
3 hours ago

For any software engineer who has been hit with the well intended but not terribly helpful “how can I help” line mid-Incident from their manager:
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Crawling out of the Incident pit of despair
What to do when your manager asks "how can I help?"
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March 12, 2025 at 5:11 PM
Part 2 of the burnout chronicles! Reflections on my career pause and the critical role of boredom.
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Emerging from burnout
Behold the power of boredom
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February 27, 2025 at 11:07 AM
Joel Spolsky was right to rag on in-house dev back in 2007 but he missed one thing it has going for it: proximity to the user! This week's post is all about why it rocks and the shenanigans engineers get up to when they don't have it.

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My Thoughts on Spolsky's Thoughts on In-house Development
A paradox!
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February 16, 2025 at 1:24 AM