Munsi 🏳️⚧️
@munsi.bsky.social
Your nonbinary wine aunt! They/Femme, and I tweet about writing, transition, lefty politics, old indie bands, X-Men, and depression!
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Munsi 🏳️⚧️
@munsi.bsky.social
· Aug 1
Nonbinary, but in a "everyone over 50 in my life assumes I'm a dude doing something with gender that they don't understand, and everyone under 25 assumes I'm a transwoman who doesn't give a shit about passing" way.
No reason, I just think my hair looks really cute today!
Also: It’s crazy that I’m sometimes able to like how I look, now!
Also: It’s crazy that I’m sometimes able to like how I look, now!
November 14, 2025 at 12:04 AM
No reason, I just think my hair looks really cute today!
Also: It’s crazy that I’m sometimes able to like how I look, now!
Also: It’s crazy that I’m sometimes able to like how I look, now!
Okay, just looked at my arm and was overwhelmed with disgust, so it’s time to fetch out the clippers. I really do need to be better about that!
November 13, 2025 at 7:19 PM
Okay, just looked at my arm and was overwhelmed with disgust, so it’s time to fetch out the clippers. I really do need to be better about that!
I might fuck around and cut the collars out of my tee-shirts from when I was a boy on my next day off. This outfit feels like a comfortable interpretation of selfhood, to me.
November 12, 2025 at 10:36 PM
I might fuck around and cut the collars out of my tee-shirts from when I was a boy on my next day off. This outfit feels like a comfortable interpretation of selfhood, to me.
My spouse just loudly announced that most of their outfit used to belong to their dead husband.
Nobody but me found it hilarious, but it’s true, I killed that dude myself ☺️
Nobody but me found it hilarious, but it’s true, I killed that dude myself ☺️
November 12, 2025 at 4:04 AM
My spouse just loudly announced that most of their outfit used to belong to their dead husband.
Nobody but me found it hilarious, but it’s true, I killed that dude myself ☺️
Nobody but me found it hilarious, but it’s true, I killed that dude myself ☺️
Trans Joy Tuesday is a good and also necessary idea!
I just closed a musical, celebrated my wedding anniversary, am approaching my HRT-anniversary, and am going to queerfemme wrestling tonight. Trust me, I'm joyful!!! ☺️
I just closed a musical, celebrated my wedding anniversary, am approaching my HRT-anniversary, and am going to queerfemme wrestling tonight. Trust me, I'm joyful!!! ☺️
For all the trans people out there, if you like, please share something good that’s going on in your life, no matter how big or small.
I’m sure we could all use some good news to offset all the bad.
How about we start Trans Joy Tuesday! 🏳️⚧️
I’m sure we could all use some good news to offset all the bad.
How about we start Trans Joy Tuesday! 🏳️⚧️
November 12, 2025 at 12:25 AM
Trans Joy Tuesday is a good and also necessary idea!
I just closed a musical, celebrated my wedding anniversary, am approaching my HRT-anniversary, and am going to queerfemme wrestling tonight. Trust me, I'm joyful!!! ☺️
I just closed a musical, celebrated my wedding anniversary, am approaching my HRT-anniversary, and am going to queerfemme wrestling tonight. Trust me, I'm joyful!!! ☺️
It was pointed out by a coworker at the theatre today that, when I internally consider the character that I'm playing to be male, I wear black, plastic-framed glasses.
November 10, 2025 at 7:18 AM
It was pointed out by a coworker at the theatre today that, when I internally consider the character that I'm playing to be male, I wear black, plastic-framed glasses.
Honestly, this is enough of a hook to tell this story. Fun fact: Can and did. It's 3:30 in the morning, let's drop some lore.
Approx: Nov. 9, 2022 I was sitting in a doctor's office talking about HRT.
Approx: Nov. 9, 2022 I was sitting in a doctor's office talking about HRT.
Oh shit! Today is my third HRT-iversary!!!!!
(I can always remember exactly when I started HRT because it was Nov. 9, 2022 — the 25th anniversary of the Montreal Screwjob)
If I can do it, so can you!!!!
(I can always remember exactly when I started HRT because it was Nov. 9, 2022 — the 25th anniversary of the Montreal Screwjob)
If I can do it, so can you!!!!
November 9, 2025 at 10:39 AM
Honestly, this is enough of a hook to tell this story. Fun fact: Can and did. It's 3:30 in the morning, let's drop some lore.
Approx: Nov. 9, 2022 I was sitting in a doctor's office talking about HRT.
Approx: Nov. 9, 2022 I was sitting in a doctor's office talking about HRT.
Ever go through a completely normal day, with nothing particularly noteworthy going on, and then just suddenly realize "Holy shit, I'm soft and silly, and also a gir!??!???!"
I just got that now. Not gonna lie, it's pretty dope!
I just got that now. Not gonna lie, it's pretty dope!
November 8, 2025 at 8:16 PM
Ever go through a completely normal day, with nothing particularly noteworthy going on, and then just suddenly realize "Holy shit, I'm soft and silly, and also a gir!??!???!"
I just got that now. Not gonna lie, it's pretty dope!
I just got that now. Not gonna lie, it's pretty dope!
Gender is a performance, and while mine is maybe a little meta for the room, but if you bear with me I swear it’s going somewhere interesting and fun!
Gender is a performance. Unfortunately I had the wrong script, so I wrote my own
Gender is a performance. Unfortunately I spent 31 years pretending to be a man badly before finally accepting a breakout role.
November 8, 2025 at 12:09 AM
Gender is a performance, and while mine is maybe a little meta for the room, but if you bear with me I swear it’s going somewhere interesting and fun!
Coming out was me finally acknowledging the thing that, I think, everyone already understood, even if nobody was saying it out loud.
My transition has been me learning who I am when nobody’s watching, and trying to be more public facing with it.
I’m the same me. It’s just clearer now.
My transition has been me learning who I am when nobody’s watching, and trying to be more public facing with it.
I’m the same me. It’s just clearer now.
How do you explain what happened to your past self once you transitioned?
Are they dead? Alive within you? Never alive in the first place? Or something else entirely?
Are they dead? Alive within you? Never alive in the first place? Or something else entirely?
November 7, 2025 at 11:37 AM
Coming out was me finally acknowledging the thing that, I think, everyone already understood, even if nobody was saying it out loud.
My transition has been me learning who I am when nobody’s watching, and trying to be more public facing with it.
I’m the same me. It’s just clearer now.
My transition has been me learning who I am when nobody’s watching, and trying to be more public facing with it.
I’m the same me. It’s just clearer now.
If you see this post egg.
November 6, 2025 at 11:20 AM
If you see this post egg.
Oh fuck me, I forgot the gunpowder, treason, and plot! One job, Munsi, you had one job!
November 6, 2025 at 10:18 AM
Oh fuck me, I forgot the gunpowder, treason, and plot! One job, Munsi, you had one job!
Every time I go out to drag burlesque I think about getting into corsetry for a couple days after.
Not saying I'm gonna, it's just been really consistent, and I do have bangin' hips now, so maybe?
Not saying I'm gonna, it's just been really consistent, and I do have bangin' hips now, so maybe?
November 6, 2025 at 10:09 AM
Every time I go out to drag burlesque I think about getting into corsetry for a couple days after.
Not saying I'm gonna, it's just been really consistent, and I do have bangin' hips now, so maybe?
Not saying I'm gonna, it's just been really consistent, and I do have bangin' hips now, so maybe?
Surely THIS time I’m allowed to forget Andrew Cuomo’s name, right? I’ve been burned on this in the past, is all…
November 5, 2025 at 6:57 AM
Surely THIS time I’m allowed to forget Andrew Cuomo’s name, right? I’ve been burned on this in the past, is all…
When Kissinger died I reopened my Twitter and posted for twelve hours, posted nudes before bed, and deleted my account forever come morning.
I probably won’t do that here, but I don’t PROMISE not to do that!
I probably won’t do that here, but I don’t PROMISE not to do that!
HOLY FUCK Y'ALL DICK CHENEY IS DEAD! THIS NEEDS TO BE CELEBRATED LIKE FUCKING KISSINGER'S DEATH!
November 4, 2025 at 11:28 AM
When Kissinger died I reopened my Twitter and posted for twelve hours, posted nudes before bed, and deleted my account forever come morning.
I probably won’t do that here, but I don’t PROMISE not to do that!
I probably won’t do that here, but I don’t PROMISE not to do that!
Okay, me! Time to sleep! Tomorrow I talk to my transition councillor, help a newly out trans guy shop for scotch and old jazz records, because they CAN'T order gun tequila when they feel masc anymore, and then go out to Drag Burlesque! Let's GO!
By which I mean: Let's SLEEP! So tomorrow I can GO!
By which I mean: Let's SLEEP! So tomorrow I can GO!
November 4, 2025 at 10:57 AM
Okay, me! Time to sleep! Tomorrow I talk to my transition councillor, help a newly out trans guy shop for scotch and old jazz records, because they CAN'T order gun tequila when they feel masc anymore, and then go out to Drag Burlesque! Let's GO!
By which I mean: Let's SLEEP! So tomorrow I can GO!
By which I mean: Let's SLEEP! So tomorrow I can GO!
I should probably sing this at karaoke tonight, hey?
I will be your father figure,
Put your tiny hand in mine,
I will be your dommy mommy,
Anything you had in mind,
I will be your preacher teacher,
Let's be gay and do some crimes,
I am going to prog-post at 3:30am, til the end of time...
Put your tiny hand in mine,
I will be your dommy mommy,
Anything you had in mind,
I will be your preacher teacher,
Let's be gay and do some crimes,
I am going to prog-post at 3:30am, til the end of time...
November 3, 2025 at 9:55 PM
I should probably sing this at karaoke tonight, hey?
Okay! I have the day off, therapy to book, a doctor to reach out to, a trans-anniversary party to plan, my tits hurt and the brain fog from tinkering with my meds is extreme. Let's ride!!!!
November 3, 2025 at 8:57 PM
Okay! I have the day off, therapy to book, a doctor to reach out to, a trans-anniversary party to plan, my tits hurt and the brain fog from tinkering with my meds is extreme. Let's ride!!!!
One fun thing about doing most of my performing with the same company, and then day-jobbing for that company between gigs, is that Sundays, when it's almost all season-ticket holders, I spend the day being told what show I should be in next season.
Love the energy, but I AM NOT IN CHARGE OF THAT 😅
Love the energy, but I AM NOT IN CHARGE OF THAT 😅
November 2, 2025 at 8:23 PM
One fun thing about doing most of my performing with the same company, and then day-jobbing for that company between gigs, is that Sundays, when it's almost all season-ticket holders, I spend the day being told what show I should be in next season.
Love the energy, but I AM NOT IN CHARGE OF THAT 😅
Love the energy, but I AM NOT IN CHARGE OF THAT 😅
Estrogen is powerful
November 2, 2025 at 8:12 PM
Estrogen is powerful
This year’s costume is “sexy conceptualization of selfhood that I can eventually learn to parse and comprehend, perhaps even learn to have warmth and empathy for!”
Which, I admit, is a little abstracted. But I think I nailed it!
Which, I admit, is a little abstracted. But I think I nailed it!
November 1, 2025 at 3:06 AM
This year’s costume is “sexy conceptualization of selfhood that I can eventually learn to parse and comprehend, perhaps even learn to have warmth and empathy for!”
Which, I admit, is a little abstracted. But I think I nailed it!
Which, I admit, is a little abstracted. But I think I nailed it!
How I woke up/how I left the house
November 1, 2025 at 12:06 AM
How I woke up/how I left the house
Say “thank you estrogen.”
October 31, 2025 at 9:53 PM
Say “thank you estrogen.”
Hey! Check me out! I've been married five years!
October 31, 2025 at 7:33 AM
Hey! Check me out! I've been married five years!
I feel like we all have one or two lesbians in our dating history who got their gold stars back after we came out, right?
You ever think "wow that guy is kinda hot; I'm never attracted to men!" and then she transitions shortly after?
October 30, 2025 at 8:31 PM
I feel like we all have one or two lesbians in our dating history who got their gold stars back after we came out, right?