But unlike the beginner, he holds himself in reserve, is quiet and unassuming, without the least desire to show off."
-Eugen Herrigel Zen in the Art of Archery

I know how to make it better. 😉

When they 100% confirm you made the correct decision to block them. Bad boundary behaviour.

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I find a lot of spankos in particular need their regular "dose" for a mental clean out. It's maintenance rather than escapism.